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ok… it’s Craft Weekend.  Carissa (The Brown Eyed Fox) and Jess (the Macs) and Kimberlee are here and everyone is buzzing around me working hard.
Kimberlee is cooking… Carissa and Jess are making beds.
i did my pilates workout upstairs in the master bathroom this morning.  ha ha ha
Stanley is even here with us tearing up any box he can find.
Avett Brothers on Pandora.
it’s a good good day.

i have a question for you?

what do you know about Proactiv?
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i am curious for my teenage and tween children if it’s worth the cost… if it works… what are your thoughts?
is it different (better or worse) than the Acne Free line of products at the grocery store?

Also i feel like telling you that this week i ordered 10 different sports bras on amazon because i am SO SICK of wasting my precious alone time at a s sports store gross tiny fitting room trying on a bunch of bras!
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you know what i mean?  where you can hear dudes walking around outside the fitting room talking to each other and it feels like they are in the room with you?!!!!
so i just typed in my size and ordered 10 different ones that MAY possibly work.
then i emailed my husband and said Don’t Freak Out.  I only need one and it’s free returns.
I just can’t waste another minute of my life trying on bras.
blahhh….  am i the only crazy one?

Another random thing.
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have you ever heard of the Clarisonic Mia Sonic Skin Cleansing System?  I had seen them when i have had facials (after running the half marathon and on our post race spa days) I debated for over a year… then i decided to just see if makes a difference on my skin (that is now 38.5 years old).
and let me tell you… i have had one break out in the three months i have used it. ONE!
WHAT?!
i know right???
i use it every single night and it has been such a difference in my skin!
so i figured it was time to tell you!

ok…it’s time for me to get to work!

Craft Weekend is going to ROCK!

 

Erin - Hi Meg! I used Proactive and was so hopeful it would work I stuck with it for 2 years. It made my skin worse! On top of that, they put you on an auto refill program. It was a big hassle to try and discontinue you “subscription”–I would say don’t do it!

The lovely one - My brother used pro-activ years ago and like it. I used Cetaphil and that’s always worked for me (but my acne was not as bad as his). I would start with the cheaper brands you can get in the store and then work your way up to the more expensive stuff if you need to.

Valerie @ Chateau a la mode - Proactive was a waste of money at our house! Maybe I’m too late for an opinion but saw this. Our dermatologist. told us not to believe those commercials. Good luck cuz pimples suck 😉

Christina - Victoria’s Secret sells sports bras now my daughter uses the ones that say maximum support. She plays soccer year round & loves them. They give her definition & not just one flat boob like most sports bars do. Also generally not a lot of men in the store & not in the dressing rooms for sure! Good luck

AnnMarie Denis - Proactive will stain your towels. It has bleach in it or something b/c whenever I used it and tried drying my face it left giant bleach stains on it.

Margie C - Be careful if you try Proactive. I bought it for my 15 year old and she tried it a week before her school dance. It made her eyes swell and caused major redness. We called the company and were told she must be having an allergic reaction to it and offered to refund our money. When I started researching I found out many people are allergic to it. Just FYI it took a week for her to look better.

Cory - Have used proactive for years and LOVE it! My skin is super dry and the lotion is very gentle.

brandi - just wanted to share about my proactive experience: i had been to dermatologist as a teen and nothing they gave me worked. LOVED proactive. didn’t dry my face out like so many others. the last lotion i put on did bleach my pillow a time or two, so i just stuck with light colored pillow cases. 😉

Valerie - I bought this last year ( Wacoal Women’s Sport Bra #855170) at Amazon and it’s the first sports bra that I’ve ever liked. I’ve always wished I could wear the cute kind, but alas.

I want to buy the Clairisonic. I’ve been thinking about it, but the price makes me choke a little. I should do it.

Beth - I agree w/others that Proactive stops working after awhile and is super harsh/drying to the skin so you have blemishes plus flakey skin – so not a good thing!!! I have true every over the counter and high end acne regime, but nothing really worked till I tried the products and regime at Acne.org. The price is reasonable and I’ve used the stuff for 4 years now w/hardly any breakouts.
Also, Title Nine has the best sports bras – worth every penny!!

Linda - I highly, highly recommend Mary Kay products. When my daughter was in those great teenage years she used the acne treatment gel and other skin care and even though we had gone to a dermatologist and could have paid megabucks for his recommendations, the Mary Kay provided her with much success and at a very reasonable cost – plus no ruined washcloths or towels. 🙂 And she has “graduated” into their other skin care products as a young mother. Feel free to email me at lbt2060@gmail.com if you’d like to know more.

Lee Ann - My favorite bra is by moving comfort. I have to have a padded one that has back clasps. Sometimes my arms are so sore and I’m so sweaty after a work out that I can hardly get the others over my head. One day I thought I was seriously stuck. Now that’s a funny picture 🙂

Deb Meyers - Don’t know about Proactiv, but wow, Adam Levine had serious acne? That’s encouraging for anybody, right?

How about sharing the Clarisonic with them?

Reducing sugar and wheat makes a big difference with any skin issues in our family. But that’s hard to do if the teen isn’t on board. So maybe introducing green smoothies (Start with Naked brand) would help.

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Kathy - Both my children have used Proactive. For my son it works great, he is still using it but he only has mild problems. For the people who complained about it bleaching things out, Target now has a line of towels that are supposedly not affected by it. Nothing worked for my daughter (we tried many different kinds) who ended up having to go to a dermatologist and is still having problems but we are getting there.

Rachael - I have used proactiv. It was not a life changer for me. About two years ago I started using a RX facial cream at night called Clindamycin and it changed everything. It’s very gentle feeling, no strong smell and it WORKS. My face is completely cleared up and both my teen daughters use it and have clear skin as well. 🙂

Lorie Yoder - I have used Proactiv for YEARS with great success. However, I had my teenage daughter use it, and it was almost too harsh for her, and never worked.

Since I have LOVED reading your blog for years, and LOVE watching you post craft weekend stuff…I am wondering…I have an etsy shop myself and would love to provide some swag for your guests for a weekend. How can I get it to you? address?

To check me out: (I’m not a creeper, just a mom and crafter)

website: vintagecountrygirl.blogspot.com, link to my shop on my site.

Maria - Hi Meg, re: Proactive…it does work, when nothing else seemed to work for my young teen. Then real downside is you will end up with boxes of step 2 & 3 under the sink, and they only ever run out of step 1. But you cannot order individually without paying way too much. I hate that! She has now been using Xout (also sold on TV) which is sold individually, and seems to work as good.

Mendi - My son uses the new X-Out by Proactive. He used to use a very long 3 step process (it might have even been 4 steps) that cost about $100 for a month supply and he hated doing so many steps. When I saw the new 1 step plan for only $19.99 I jumped at the chance to try it. He uses it much more faithfully than the other proactive and seems to have better results (maybe cuz he actually uses it).

Shelley - Ok, I suffered for years and years with acne (it started when I was 12, I’m 38 now)and about 2 years I finally cleared my skin up, but it wasn’t with proactive. It’s an amazingly cheap all natural product called sea buckthorn oil. There is soap and oil and serums etc, but highly recommend the bar soap and oil for spot treatment. BP is so hard on skin and through my own experience, a temporary fix. All I use on my skin now are all natural products, I am done with chemicals…Good luck, I can sympathize with anyone (especially kids) who have acne…

Seamingly Sarah - I would go see a GOOD esthetician first and have them tell you what is going on with your skin. The tips that have worked for me is to treat your face like a rose petal. If you wouldn’t do it to a rose petal, don’t do it to your skin – scrubbing. And don’t use things to dry up the oil. The oil is not the problem. Once you dry it up your skin Over produces oil, then the extra oil is a problem. Don’t use products that say oil free. And honestly, for a woman in her 30’s I finally have clear skin because I don’t wear make up and have to clean my face with anything other than water and use olive oil to hydrate it. That’s too much for a teen that is still producing plenty of oil for their skin, but it’s a fine balance.

Jennifer - I used Proactiv a million years ago, at least 15. While it didn’t do miracles for my skin, I did want to warn you about the issue I had-it has benzoyl peroxide and you have to be really careful with it. It ruined my towels, my sheets and the front of some of my clothing. I obviously wasn’t careful enough with it, but I ruined a lot of stuff. I found out my breakouts were related to diet coke believe it or not. I love that stuff in spite of all the scary warnings-but as soon as I quit it, my face cleared up.

Susan - I am 38 and have the drugstore version of the clarisonic that is made by olay and i REALLY like it. i keep it in the shower and it’s part of my daily routine. i don’t know how much better the clarisonic would be, but the olay one has been great for my skin, so i would def. recommend it for when the cost of the clarisonic is prohibitive. it might be good for a teen’s acne too.

Michele - I used Proactiv in my early 20’s and it worked…at first. Then it just stopped working. It made bleach stains on my pillows, sheets, shirt/jacket collars, etc! 🙁 I now use Purpose soap and Purpose lotion and my skin is very clear. I think a good diet is key. Try having your kids drink plain lemon water (with a straw to protect their teeth). It’s made a big difference for me. During football season, my son uses Coalface by Lush and it keeps his face clear. It’s just too drying in the winter–right now he uses the Purpose face wipes. Not fun for a teen, but laying off the fries, soda, chips, sugar, etc helps. When my son eats like crap, you can see it on his face!

Cindy - For my daughter, proactive was too strong. We had better luck for her with the Clinique line of acne products. Also, we had a prescription for the doctor…can’t remember what it was, just a topical cream….the most mild form…with all of them, you really have to give it a few weeks to give it to work, which stinks because the kids want their faces clear right now…and then if it doesn’t work, switching and trying new products for a few weeks to see if they work…we also tried neutrogena and clean and clear with not much luck…Clinique worked best for us.

Julie - When I was 13, my mom took me to the Clinique counter at the mall and bought the basic care system for me (the bar of soap, the toner and the lotion). The rule was I had to take care of my face before I could start wearing makeup, and it was impressed upon me that these products were expensive but would only work if I used them diligently. The other rule was, no hands on faces! I was fortunate to not be predisposed to serious acne, but I never had more than an occasional pimple.

I buy bras from Bare Necessities online — and I, too, overbuy, knowing I will send at least a couple back! BN has a good returns policy. I hate searching for bras in the store!

Jenny B. - For a second there, I thought this post was going to be a commercial for Proactiv. HAHA! 🙂

I tried it several years ago, and I didn’t think it was all that. I think it might have helped a little bit, but I quit using it after a few months because it totally bleached out my sheets where they touched my face at night. So… if you do decide to get it for your kids, invest in a bunch of cheap white sheets beforehand.

For the sports bras, I just got a new catalog in the mail… title nine. Have you heard of it? It’s new to me, but they have stores. There’s even one in KS. Anyway, they have some (for us busty girls) that I’m thinking about trying.

Michelle - My son used Proactiv when he was around 15 and it really didn’t work that well. You have to be so thorough with the whole system and he was not good about that. We started ordering from Melaleuca shortly after and their similar product worked much better. Don’t know if you’d heard of this company out of Idaho. They have natural cleaning products, etc. The most significant difference came one lent season and he gave up all beverages and only drank water. He lost 10 pounds and his acne cleared dramatically. I really blame dairy like milk and cheese for most of the problems. My husband, who is 54, even had breakouts and since giving up dairy he no longer does. Happy Craft Weekend!

Flower Patch Farmgirl - I was just wondering about that Clairsonic thing. Everyone raves. But so pricey! So the question becomes: Fun new purse, or Clairsonic? And I’m sure you’ll say Clairsonic b/c blah blah blah, but I’m weirdly leaning purse.

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Lisa - I use tea tree soap from Goat Milk Stuff. I love supporting the family owned company and it works amazingly!! I would suggest at least trying it before you spend proactive kind of money! It’s all natural so I like that too, proactive was too harsh on my skin and didn’t do much.

ingrid - Proactive. It’s great for mild to moderate acne. My daughter had severe acne and it simply aggravated it. It dried out her skin which just added to the problem. We tried everything from over the counter to prescription meds. The ONLY thing that worked (and the only thing I had trouble saying yes to) was birth control, which ended up being like a miracle cure for her.

Karey - Proactive is the only thing that works for my skin. It didn’t work for me to get the shipments in the mail because I was receiving more than I was using. There is a proactive vending machine in the Wichita towne east mall outside of Dillard’s. I always buy from there and can get the specific product I need when I need it. They do have little trial boxes. You could get one for your kids and let them try it out. Oh, and I love your blog by the way. I live in the same town as you and have run into u sometimes in the north grocery store. I always want to say hi but then feel silly 🙂

Gina - I used to use Proactiv when I was in college and it totally changed my skin! If they actually use it consistently, it will make a huge difference. I think it’s worth the money!

Lori H - Meg, my kids used ProActive for a while and it did seem to work. I consulted our dermotologist and she said that it works because the kids see it as a “program” and therefore use it per instructions. But when used faithfully, most acne products would work as well. One downside to ProActive, my kids are in college and I STILL get regular emails from them asking me to “come back” – even after asking them to stop 🙂

Annette - Love Proactiv…We tried every (EVERY) product/system we could find at Target/grocery/drug store. My tween’s skin was getting worse and worse and she was getting more and more self-conscious. We were on the verge of taking her to a dermatologist when we tried Proactiv as our ‘one last thing’. It worked!!! She is extremely conscientious about using it properly (it’s pricey) and while we saw a noticeable improvement right away, after 4 months of use, her skin is consistently clearer. Occasional breakouts happen, but it is more like a pimple appearing than the eruptions we were used to.

Martha - My son used Proactive and it worked great….at first. It stopped working after a few months. An elderly Hispanic woman that he worked with told him to use honey. We googled it and found a recipe using honey, lemon juice and baking soda. It’s easy, natural and it works! The only draw back is it’s a bit messy but, hey I think it’s worth a try!

Martha - Sport bra- I am a 34f and then only sport bra that I have ever been happy with is the panache. It is the best I am a runner and have been very happy. Worth every penny.

laura oyler - 2 more things I forgot to mention-1. Obagi doesn’t bleach anything like Proactiv apparently does. 2. It is a multiple step system that is supposed to be done 2x a day, but I only do it at night and it still works great for me!

laura oyler - I don’t know much about Proactiv, but I have tried a lot of acne products. I am 19 so I still have teenage acne. My very favorite is the Clenziderm system from Obagi. I use the normal to oily system, but I actually have dry skin so I add in the moisturizer from the dry to normal system. Since I started using it I get way less pimples! I think I have been using it for 1-2 years now. I get it from my esthetician, but you can buy it on amazon too. I believe it is more expensive than proactiv, but I really do love it and it is worth it to me. My mom and 2 of my sisters also use Obagi products. I have lots of tips on how to use it! Microdermabrasion at my esthetician’s office also really helps me get rid of acne and also helps with scarring, but it is a little expensive.

Michelle - When I met my husband, he had extremely bad, cystic acne and had been using Proactive for about 3 months. He was very disciplined about using it, too – he used all the products and followed the directions EXACTLY. Just between you and me, it never did any good.

Changing his diet helped (as a single guy, he was eating a lot of take out, greasy stuff, etc.).

Now we both use just sunflower oil mixed with castor oil (I use the same combination to remove my makeup). We also use Neutrogena Pore Refining Toner. I wash my face at night and use the toner in the morning after I shower. He washes his face at night and immediately uses the toner. In the shower, we both just rub our faces gently with a washcloth.

I had a Clarisonic, but my sister is a microbiologist and she was totally skeeved out at what kind of bacteria could be hanging around in the brush heads. So, I’m back to using washcloths. (I bought 40 white washcloths and 40 white hand towels at IKEA that are ONLY FOR FACES.) I love my husband and childrens to bits, but I don’t want to wash my face with the same cloths they wash their feet with – even if I launder it in between.

Susan - I have used Proactiv for several years and it definitely works. In fact, it worked so well, I thought I didn’t break out anymore. But the minute I stopped using it, I started to break out again. I use the Extra Strength products. I only use the cleanser and the lotion, I skip the toner. Also, I have had no problem with bleaching of my clothing, etc. I even wipe the excess from my hands onto my colored towels, and haven’t had any problem.

Amy - I love the MyChelle teen line for my 12 year old daughter. It has a cleanser, clarifying pads, balancing cream, and a spot treatment.

Love my Mia 2! 🙂

Heather S. - Oh Meg – I used to make fun of people that bought lots of things and then returned them. Then I had children and began teaching and running ministries and I found this year that I am now the woman who orders lots of things FULLY KNOWING I will be returning them. Free shipping, easy returns, etc….I look for it all because I know I’m not keeping it all. Crazy. But, I hear ya on the sports bra thing. You made a good call.

tracy fisher - hi meg. I had to respond regarding teen zits!! haha. my daughter has to keep her skin as clean as possible due to some modeling she’s working on… we LOVE the Mary Kay little trial kit for zit zapping. I can’t remember what it’s called. If you need the info, email me at tfisherart@comcast.net. brooke loves it and I am happy that she loves it. and it is really affordable (that’s really why I like it..haha). teen skin is so fickle. I’ve been away creating a new blog and trying to figure out life in general. i’m back. looking forward to catching up on a month or two of your posts this weekend. tracy fisher

denise @ victory rd. - I went out on a limb and purchased Proactive for my teenage daughter. We’re VERY happy with it. VERY!

Have a blast at Craft Weekend!

Chelsea - Skincare is such a tricky thing. What works for some doesn’t always work for others. I personally couldn’t handle Proactive, it burned my skin like crazy. It also hasn’t done anything for my teens acne, but I know it works for some people. My recommendation would be to see your dermatologist, sometimes taking an antibiotic or getting on accutane is more successful than using an intense line of cleansers. Especially with teenagers who most likely won’t follow all the steps that some of the skincare lines require. Good Luck and I’d love to know what you end up doing…..

Alicia @ La Famille - My brother and sister used ProActiv in their teen years and it really worked for them. They tried everything! Also I want one of those scrubby things.

Michelle Skalet - I used Proactiv for awhile and it seemed to work really well. I had to be careful though because I have sensitive skin and if I’d use it too much… my skin would start to look like leather… especially below my eyes. I later switched to the walmart equate version of Proactiv and I thought it worked exactly the same. It’s less than 1/2 the cost of Proactiv too!

Tracey - Proactiv wasn’t the cure all it claimed for my son and the results definitely did not warrant the cost. Acne free is a bit better. Right now we are trying tea tree and lavender essential oils. These have been the best at helping the cystic looking spots but his face is still pretty broken out. I think we are going to end up going to the dermatologist for a prescription

Bec - Proactiv was really awful for me. It basically burned off the top layer of my skin and left my face raw and dry. Target brand cream cleanser and their blackhead scrub plus a light moisturizer have been my winners. I use the Norwex face cloth as well, but probably not a requirement for kids. Change their pillow cases often 🙂 and push water drinking. Much cheaper than proactiv!

Liz - I’ve used proactive for 2-3 years and it works great. I tried the store brand and didn’t like it. I have sensitive skin and when I started I could only use proactive every other day. I know use it every morning. Love love love it.
I’ve got nothing on the bras. I bought an expensive Athleta one, with an underwire, the underwire popped out. So annoying. I’d love to hear what you find!

Kristin S - Randoms are my fave.

Sports bras. I’m a 34DDDD and hate to bounce. Moving Comfort Fiona is my all time favorite. I don’t like ones I have to maneuver over my head when it’s all wet and sweaty. I sweat. A lot. It has to have a back clasp. They carry them lots of places but I try to hunt for them on sale.
http://www.rei.com/product/718027/moving-comfort-fiona-sports-bra

Have a fantastic weekend!

Tessa - We bought Proactiv for our 13, almost 14 year old son and the biggest problem is getting him to use it. It is a 3 step process and it is recommended that it be done 2x a day. If your kids are not highly motivated in the self-care department, it is not a good fit. I wish we would have just stuck with something much simpler like a quick face wash. As far as its effectiveness? Hard to tell when he is using it so inconsistently! 🙂

Angela - Check out this guide. While you’re there, read the measuring advice as well. So many women wear the wrong size!
http://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/wiki/sports_bras

Libby - I can’t wait to hear about craftweekend!! I LOVE the entries on Crafting, and what God is doing in your life!!! You are so creative and lovely.

Lori - My 14 yo daughter has used Acne Free (for sensitive skin) for a year and it has worked well for her…try it out it out since it’s easy to pick up locally! Also, if Acne Free doesn’t work for your kids, Clarisonic has a teen kit…more pricey but you already know how awesome it is so it might be worth it!

cheryl - I’ve never used proactiv but my husband has sworn by it for 10+ yrs. He was on accutane as a teenager for acne…and tried every over the counter product under the sun since…and he’s had great results with proactiv. He doesn’t do the whole “3 step system” though…we just get a shipment of 3 bottles of cleanser each time.

Necole@seriouslysassymama - I had acute cystic acne in my early 20’s, and proactive did not work for me. It is probably good for basic teenager acne. I use a glycolic scrub from dermae.

Tanya - My sister has worked in the skin care industry for almost a decade. She said the difference between Pro Activ and grocery store brands is the alcohol content. She said the most comparable thing to Pro Activ you could buy at a grocery store is a bottle of rubbing alcohol. (yikes!) She said it also depends on where the breakouts are happening. If it’s on the forehead it can be because of bangs or hair products or food related digestion issues. Cheeks can be from not washing makeup off. Chin can be hormonal. If it’s for teens – she recommended Clear Start by Dermalogica. You can buy it online or at a spa that carries Dermalogica.

Wendy - I love my Clarisonic!! I use it with Neutrogena Naturals face wash. I’ve never used Proactive for my children but my sister has used it for her daughter with severe acne but with no improvement (and this young lady followed the instructions religiously).

Hailey - First time comment, just found your blog and I love it! But I used proactive for probably 8 months and I found it dried my skin out completely and the bleaching agent in it destroys towels. I still get flack for ruining one of my Gramma’s towels even though I dried my face off on a rag first. It bleaches the colour right out of fabric and it made me wonder what was happening to my face! Just my 2 cents 🙂

Verena - Love the MIA!!! Have mine for almost two years! Use it every day , still going strong. Def.worth it’s money!

Colleen Sullivan - Purpose soap for initial oilness, neutrogeona oil free acne wash as breakouts begin or another product with a salicylate, then add a benzoil peroxide preparation in a tube are the order for non prescription acne meds. Sounds like proactive has a medication close to prescription strength in it as the dermatologist warned us of the same thing re bleaching effect on towels and pillowcases. I use all white anyway so dont notice it! See if your insurance covers the prescriptions as it might be cheaper and potentially more effective if you can find a good dermatologist in your area

Jess Noble - Proactive totally works. I still use it!

Dana - Although I have never used it, I hear Proactiv is great. What about the ten one I am always seeing on the commercials, (X Out) I think that is a proactiv brand too. But U have heard about the bleaching of everything.

Midwest - Has anyone tried the Olay ProX cleansing brush? I’m wondering if it works as well. Even if you had to replace it after a year, it’s SO much cheaper. I’ve been wondering about proactive for my 15 yr old too. So thanks for asking!

Southern Gal - My son suffered from acne. We tried Proactiv, but it wouldn’t touch his. He ended up on Accutane which cleared him up fabulously. It probably works fine for minor acne blemishes.

Marla - I have used ProActiv for about 10 yrs now and I love it. I use the 3-step system(cleanser, toner, lotion) and none of the misc. products that go with it. It has never stopped working for me and I won’t stop using it, even though I’m mid 30’s now. Yes, be sure to use an old towel(or white!) to dry your face afterwards and an old tshirt b/c it will bleach. I say give it a try! And the bottles do last longer than what they say…the 30 days or 60 days, I can usually get to last me an extra month.

stephany - I used proactiv years ago…in my late 20’s early 30’s. It seemed to work. Seems like a lifetime ago, though.

Confession. I have a big crush on Adam.

Have a wonder filled weekend…those women are in for a lot of fun!!!

Jenni - I would recommend Rodan and Fields. It is sold by independent consultants ( I don’t sell it), people have great success with all sorts of skin issues. Here’s my friends info who does sell it: https://eeandersons.myrandf.com/

Kerrin - Hi Meg,
I used Proactive for years and it is worth every single penny. My only warning about it would be this. If you don’t rinse your face well enough you will stain your pillow cases and towels. As in bleach style stain. I recommend white towel, face cloth and pillowcase. Other then that you (If it is for you, please take another look in the mirror cause girlfriend, your skin is amazing!) will love the results you get.
Have a great craft weekend!

Jennifer - I used ProActiv years ago before my wedding, and it worked well for me. It is pretty pricey though. I think I only used it for maybe 6 months.

I have also tried the AcneFree kind, and it worked OK. I felt like ProActiv didn’t dry my skin out as badly, but I didn’t have teenager skin/acne either.

The key to any of it is USING it. Once it became a habit, it wasn’t so bad, but you have to force yourself to do all three steps nightly. I’ve never been very good about keeping up with habits like this, and I know I wouldn’t have done it when I was a teen.

If you’re on the fence about a teenager using it, maybe you could try the store brand and give them 2 months. If they use it consistently for that long and it’s not working (or is too harsh), you could spring for the ProActiv.

I will say the ProActive refining mask is the best thing I’ve ever used. You could put a dab on a zit and sleep with it on, and the zit was gone the next day. Awesome for those times when you break out right before a big event.

Amber Hatcher - If you don’t find a bra that works for you I highly suggest trying Title Nine. It’s a “for women, by women” type of company. If you call them you will get a FEMALE person. Not a computer. They have tons of different bras for varying degrees of support needed. I’ve called them before and when she wasn’t sure she actually went a got the product to look at it while I was on the phone. They’re an awesome company and I’ve always been pleased with them and their product. Good luck!

Margaret - 1) I have to agree with everyone else about ProActiv. It worked for about a year before it seemed to stop and I switched to something else. A few years later my acne was bad enough that I tried it again and it stopped working after about 6 months that time. I bought new towels and realized it bleached them after 1 or 2 uses. So I called it quits with ProActiv for good.
2) I want a Clarisonic so badly. Everyone I know who uses it loves them. I may have to splurge for that soon.

Lauren - I used Proactiv in my awful, ugly teenage years.
Pros: It really does work if you use it religiously. I seriously looked amazing after having used it a couple weeks.
Cons: It tends to stain everything orange (besides white fabric) that touches the face. I ruined sheets and towels and clothes because of it.

Siew - I LOVE my Clarisonic Mia. Its silly, when I rave on about it I get people to touch my cheek, which they think is kind of weird until they see how smooth it is. Like a baby’s bottom. Its the best.

Sara - Oh dear, I’m afraid I’m terribly unhelpful in all things fancy skin-care related. I use a plain bar of soap, that’s it.

BUT, I’m so happy to hear Craft Weekend is happening again!! You ladies have so much fun! I can’t wait to see IG pics 🙂

Vanessa - OK about ProActiv – It works! For a while – and then it’s sort of like antibiotics; if you use it too long then it isn’t as effective. The bad part – the acne gets worse in the first couple of weeks (but then it works!), it turns every washcloth/towel you own bleached so you have to use white for EVERYTHING – including pillow cases. That was the kicker for me! I hated everything being stained and I liked my colored towels/pillow cases! It even stained collars on shirts, but it DOES work!

Ashlea - Go to acne.org and watch the video for their “regimen”. It doesn’t require a specific brand, its just the way you do things! I’ve tried a lot of different products without success, but once I started washing my face and doing what the video says, my skin has been so clear! 🙂 Good luck!

Jenn - I order multiples of things and return all but one all the time. You are not alone.

Good to know about the Clarisonic. I’ve been wanting to get one.

Happy Craft Weekend! One day I’ll be there.

Molly - i had very good luck with proactiv. i had issues from 18 on until i started using proactiv. after a year or so i switched to acne free or the equate brand from walmart. those work too. i would maybe start with those and see if they work if not give proactiv a try. i think it is a little better. i will use these with my daughters when the time comes…even if they aren’t struggling that badly. i think they are just a good system for that time in life.

kimberly oyler - any person on the whole planet that i know who has used proactiv said it quit working after a year.

Beth Ann - I have no need for Proactiv, but Adam MAY have just sold me…….

Do tell which sports bra you end up liking. I have not had much luck. I have considered purchasing luluemon, but ouch on the price and I’d have to order online and have heard bad things about their return policy.

Emily - Love it.
Three things.
1. I use Acne Free every summer (breakout season) and love it. Was about to try Proactive and my friend suggested Acne Free. Takes care of all my issues.
2. Lululemon bras are worth the price.
3. I guess I need a Clairisonic! 🙂
Have a GREAT Craft Weekend! Tell Jess hi!

Jessica Jackson - Bless you for doing the sports bra research! I’ve sent back so many in the last month and still can’t find a perfect one for my D cup (nursing) boobs. Please report back with your favorite!

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meals, answers and a sale

so here is my meal plan for week two of the 21 Day FIX.
this is what i love so far – i am a visual person – so when i look at this chart i know that i don’t HAVE to eat chicken if it says chicken.
i see the word chicken but i mostly see the color RED so i know that i can grab chicken out of the frig OR any other protein/meat that i have on hand.

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i spelled broccoli wrong on my chart.

also i noticed last night that i categorized dried fruit wrong… oops
don’t tell Autumn.
AND confession… i cracked on annie’s cookies she made this afternoon.
darn it… but man they were yummy!
but that happens and life goes on.
we just pick up from where we screwed up and move on.

the question several people emailed me about was “how are you feeding on your family while working on this plan?”
great question!
something i noticed last week… we are never home!
that makes meal planning difficult… and easy at the same time.
BUT the way i worked it out for OUR family was to cook some things ahead.
i grilled 6 lbs. of chicken one evening, i hard boiled a dozen eggs and i roasted a bunch of broccoli and sweet potatoes.
then i put all of that in the refrigerator and i had food prepped all week for most of my meals.
if my husband isn’t going to be home at dinner time… i rarely make a meal.
it is usually make-your-own meals those nights.  Everyone is able in our house to fix what they want.
i will help them if they need it but they rarely do.
they can also eat that chicken if they would like.
the nights we were home i modified the meal for me – they ate soft tacos… i ate a taco inspired salad with no tortilla, cheese or sour cream.
i make sure to cook extra of the healthy things i served and saved those for the next day’s lunch.
i know my kids won’t want a big spoonful of broccoli so i set out other options too… apple sauce, cottage cheese, yogurt or fruit.
so… my answer is probably not too helpful for you moms that are planners.
but surely you knew i wouldn’t have the answer for you.  🙂  ha ha ha
i am to distracted to have a big plan.

and last tip of the day…. for one of my daily “yellow containers” i use for 16 oz. of unsweetened almond milk and i use it slowly over the whole week in my first cup of coffee in the morning.
i use my frother and make it seem like more than it is and then the rest of the day i drink my coffee black.

ok… moving on from that stuff. ———————————————————————————-

how about a little sale on prints & canvases in my shop?!!
woo-hoo!
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there are two new prints in my shop!
one of a sleepy Stanley and one of the craft table happiness.

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AND i have the COW and the GLOBES in 16 x 20!!!!

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they are so big and p r e t t y !!!

click over to THE SHOP to use the code 15SALE on all prints AND the canvases too!!
that is a super deal!

 

 

Michelle - Love the meal plan. What is Shakeology? And, do you have recipes for your soup, chili or turkey meatballs that you’d be willing to share?

Traci - Oh, I love that pup, and I love those globes! I’m new here and just looking around…I like your stuff!

Teresa - I read your blog all the time but have never commented – BUT – your posts on this program inspired me to sign up for this and I ordered it yesterday! I’m really excited, but nervous about making actual “meals” … so if you want to keep posting your week meal plans I won’t complain 😉 haha

Melissa - THANKS for the sale code. I just ordered the nest print I have had my eye on!! I cannot wait to receive it.

Necole@seriouslysassymama - I am a big meal planner. We are home most evenings,which will be changing starting next week when volleyball and softball start. What helps me is we all eat like birds. I eat a more strict meal for breakfast and lunch, but eat whatever my family eats for dinner which I cook, so is generally healthy. Saves some money that way.

Lisa - Sweet sleepy Stanley. Love that craft table – Happiness is an appropriate description.

Michele - How long is the sale going on?

Kathy - Our meals sound JUST like yours! Hubby works some evenings so it’s just me and my girls and we’re often rushing bc we have to get to sporting events in the evenings … so we do the whole make your own thing many nights too – or we make something super simple like sandwiches and soup. I love that we’re not the only family in this season of life!! =)

April R - I am so inspired by your photography skills.
Light, color, life – all captured so beautifully.
Happy Wednesday 🙂

Sheri - I need the cow…llike NEED the cow

Southern Gal - The Craft Table Happiness print reminds me of the jigsaw puzzles I used to do with my grandmama all the time. I haven’t thought of that in a while. Thanks.

Liz M - I am not in your 21 day group, but am doing this challenge because of you. I vote for a 21 day challenger craft weekend! Crafting and planking…what could be better?

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sunday morning.

well… i am writing from starbucks this morning.
talby has a volleyball tournament again and she has a two game break so i snuck over here for wifi.
and coffee of course.
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this is talby’s first time playing club volleyball.
it is good for her… she seems to like it a bunch… great group of girls.  🙂
we were all together for a few of her games last weekend… that’s FUN!
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and my week continued on with basketball games.
they are still undefeated!  Pretty excited for these boys!  Can’t wait to see how far they can take it this year.IMG_3811
update on the 21 Day FIX… i AM LOVING it!
for the first time in my life i think possibly i have worked out seven days straight?!
whaaaaat?
the workouts are only 30 minutes!
the meal plan – i rocked it.
i posted my plan earlier last week and i am going to make my week 2 meal plan today.
i will share it again and i will answer a couple of questions i had about meal planning with kids in mind also.

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i thought an all hot pink workout gear day was necessary for yesterday.
i needed some motivation since i didn’t do my workout in the morning… i kept putting it off.
so PINK to the rescue!

stanley is the most patient and fun little puppy!
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he just loves attention of any kind… even if it means dancing to annie’s sing-a-long.

ok…. gotta get back for the next game.
have a SUPER sunday!

Heather - Um you look so skinny I thought that. Selfie was Lauren. 🙂

Lisa - We spent all weekend at my 12 yr olds volleyball tournament too. We love watching her play! They lost in the championship which was hard. She had some tears over that. Fun to watch them play so hard! And glad she loves the game enough to care! Glad you had all the family there for some of it! So fun to all be together cheering on their sister!

Mindy - You are a great motivator with sticking to your healthy routine! I love the pictures with the dog. I have to admit to dancing with a patient doggie a time of two myself : )

Library Momma - Legs look great! Good for you!!

Carrie - I have never noticed how much you and Lauren look alike until the family picture of you all, and then the pink picture of you. With your hair back, you two are twins! 🙂

Lisa - I think it’s great that your whole family goes to each member’s games/events! A supportive family is awesome! 🙂

Jessica R - I was reading blogs this morning (and delaying my workout) and when I got to your review of 21Fix and your picture, I immediately put down my iPad, changed into my workout clothes and went for a run. True story. THANK YOU for the inspiration. You look so great!

Tiffany - ^^That’s Congrats!^^

Tiffany - Gongrats on 7 days. Do I hear 7 more? Good luck to you.

Aimee D - Meg, you are looking super skinny these days! I mean in a good way. lol

Stacy P. - LOVE volleyball! And I love Stanley. 🙂

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i am sore… ouch.

so i have done three of the workouts on the 21 Day Fix.
i love how short they are – 30 minutes!
but holy heck my legs are SORE.  wowza.

A bunch of you have asked where to get this program…
it sold out when they released it but they will be restocking soon enough.
i see it on preorder through BeachBody.
email Marta at hausofgirls@gmail.com about details and she will hook you up!
i am in a small-ish accountability/support group through facebook that Marta leads and i LOVE that part of it.
i like being able to ask questions and get encouragement as we are doing the program together.

AND update… i am not hungry.
there is plenty of food using this plan.
it just doesn’t include nightly large bowls of lucky charms or milkshakes.  (darn)
but sticking to my meal plan (that i made for myself so there is no one to blame but me) has worked.
so far so good!

here are MORE meals that look so good!
i wish that squash soup was right here in front of me NOW.
Yummmm.

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1. Salad in a Jar

2. Cheesy Spinach Muffins

3. Stuffed Peppers Soup

4. Thai Red Curry Coconut Squash Soup

5. Clean & Lean Lettuce Wraps

6. Sweet Potato Quinoa Patties

7. Asian-Style Cobb Salad

8. Santa Fe Turkey Stuffed Peppers
i have NEVER eaten a stuffed pepper or even desired to until this recipe!  YUM?!

which one of these recipes looks the best to you?

and also… what are you making for dinner tonight?

 

 

 

 

Maria Donahue - Hi, I’m just starting the 21 day challenge, your receipts look incredible but I’m confused as to how to convert them into what containers they would use. And how much a serving would actually be. Can you help me? Thank you:-))))

Stacy - Thanks for sharing my cheesy spinach muffins! Funny you should choose that recipe because it is actually the most viewed one on my site.

Looking forward to following your journey to fitness.

Best regards,

Stacy

Denise - Gosh Meg…good for you! I joined my husbands gym about 6 months ago and we are doing “clean eating” as a lifestyle change now. It is amazing what some prep time and twice a week cooking does for your well being! I love the sweet potato/quinoa patties (I eat them cold sometimes for a snack…my recipe might be a little different) I’m praying for your success. Love your blog and instagram. Thanks for sharing your life…

Kate - Today is Day 6 for me, so I can tell you – the leg soreness does ease. Replaced by ab soreness, arm soreness, and then oh hai – leg soreness again! ha ha! It hurts everytime I have to squat to sit on the potty. I mean, wow. TMI? Sorry.

Kristen@fit2feelbetter - I’m doing the 21 day Fix too! And oh my gosh I can still eat so much food. Good for me food that is delicious and full of flavor. My favorite lunch is Mediterranean quinoa salad. {In Fix language that is 1 yellow, 1 1/2 green, and 1 orange and I usually throw in a purple on the side}

Brittany - I’m with you! That stuffed peppers soup looks SO good! I made this last night: http://www.ourbestbites.com/2014/02/braised-italian-chicken/ and we’re having leftovers tonight ;)Way to go on your workouts and healthy eating!

Darcie - For dinner tonight, we are making… date night. 🙂 It’s been too long!

Kristen - Keep it up!! Soo happy for you!!!

Michelle from Australia - I had to Google ‘luck charms’ to find out what a bowl of them is. Nothing something that has made its way to our shores as yet!

Jenna - Stuffed peppers are A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! I hope you like them! I want to try all of these!

Stephanie Wilson - I am all over the lettuce wraps and the salad in a jar! I am making turkey meatloaf, red mashed potatoes, and green beans, all with turkey gravy for dinner. Love your website!

Colleen - we are having eating well’s version of chicken marbella… my kids love it… which is truly the clincher but mine are picky.. and yours sound, well, worse! Try it you will love it and maybe your kids will eat it (while ignoring the prunes and olives) !.

here is the link if interested
http://www.eatingwell.com/recipes/chicken_marbella.html

Debbie - Your blog has lead me to so many other great sites. Thanks for the links to these great recipe sites! You do the research so I don’t have to! 🙂

Tanya - The Thai Red Curry soup and the sweet potato quinoa patties look delish. I have moved past my love for peppers, it’s over for me 😉
Way to go on the workouts!

Cara Yeh - Way to go! I haven’t felt sore in years… perhaps I need this! 🙂 We’re having miso cod for dinner. I hated fish until I married my Asian husband; now it is a favorite!

Jenn - Yum! They all look good, but the Asian Cobb Salad is calling me. I’ll probably make that one first! Way to go on completing 3 workouts…its hard when you’re sore.

gina - it is time for me to eat lunch so all of these look delish!! thanks for sharing the recipes. in this months Martha Stewart’s Living magazine there are 4 broiler plate dinners that fit in with the 21 Day Fix perfectly!!! and are yummy. I am making the broiled spicy pork and pineapple tonight but i probably will go easy on the spice so the kids can eat it 🙂

Necole@seriouslysassymama - I love the sweet potato quinoa patties. Quinoa is one of my favorite things to eat. I am making bourban chicken tonight. The only bad thing in it is brown sugar and a pinch of ketchup. I will be having quinoa with mine, and everyone else will be having rice. Asparagus and broccoli are our veggies. I need to loose 5-7 more pounds, to see if it will help my bum knee.

tasha roe - thanks so much for recommending this a while back! i signed up and am doing it with Marta. She’s so sweet and encouraging. 🙂 Hubby is even doing it with me. I am amazed at how full I am – can’t even finish the containers.

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21 Day Fix – here goes!

My box arrived for the 21 Day Fix!!
i was totally surprised at truly tiny the containers are.
i thought “oh no.  i am going to be so hungry!”  but then once i got into the charts and all i think it’s going to be so good for me!
the main focus of the 21 Day Fix is portion control of healthy foods.
and obviously i need it if these boxes are the correct sizes of portions.
i am totally overeating.
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it comes with the workout videos…. we workout everyday for 21 days.
the first one was good but i had to do the modified version for most of it!
Geez…i need this worse than i thought.
i think i will struggle the most with workouts.
i “love” to take breaks from working out.  (until i work out again and think WHY did i take time off???)day21
and i am also trying Shakeology for the first time.
it’s pretty good.
not necessarily super amazing like a McFlurry or a Frappacino but… it’s not bad either.
today i just added water and ice.
i am going to try adding spinach, fruit, almond milk or coffee at times to mix it up.

these are examples of what is considered a veggie and how much for the green container.
each size container has a page of examples.
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and we can replace a few things a few times for wine or sweets.  YAY!!!!

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and it’s very obvious how many of each you need to have each day.
for my particular needs it’s the 4 red, 3 green, 2 purple, 2 yellow, 1 blue and 1 orange.

in Marta’s Nutritional/Fitness groups we are encouraged to plan out our meals a week in advance to help us succeed.
i have been working on this concept for over two months.
it overwhelmed me.
but i hunkered down last night and made this chart…. and i immediately felt much better about the whole program because i have that piece under control for the next seven days.

also we are encouraged to try going wheat and dairy free just to see how we feel.
so that is why there is nothing on my meal plan that would have wheat or dairy.
it’s worth a try.

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i have planned ahead with groceries and now i know what i am eating and when
and HOPEFULLY i can avoid eating something based on how i am feeling that very moment (like a huge heart shaped frosted cookie coincidentally just after a teenager yelled at me) (and another one after that just because)

i can do this.

i am guessing this is old news for lots of you.
you are great at meal planning…. you workout with passion… you are awesome at eating healthy foods in healthy portions.
but i am not.
but maybe someday i will be.  🙂

so this my next 21 days.
and i know you didn’t ask but i am just telling you anyway.  ha ha ha

day one is almost done.
and i am not hungry.
AT ALL!
im actually… kinda more full than i usually feel???
so that is one fear conquered.

Thanks Marta for all the encouragement!!!
so far i am totally loving it.

🙂

 

Jennifer - Thanks for all of the information that you shared.

Charisse - Do you know if anyone sells just the The Portion Fix Eating Guide Book?

I have the containers but no guide to go off of. The containers were a gift and the person didn’t know I would need the book to know how to use them.

Kelly Callahan - I just ordered this 2 days ago. Recent 35-lbs weight loss and have been stuck there for a month! Have another 35 lbs to go! I’m excited about starting program.

Sophie - Great review!! Funny and true!! I am on Day 3 and loving it so far. The meal plan is where I struggle as well. I can work out all day long but I loooooove my cheese and carbs! LOL. But I do feel like I get little treats with the containers. Planning on sticking with it and hoping for great results!

Jennie - I’m on day 4 of the 21 Day Fix. Would you mind sharing the spreadsheet that you made for tracking your meals? I need something like that and I’m not so great with excel. 🙂

Tess - I am already wheat free (I am a Celiac) so that part would be easy for me.

I am not a big dairy drinker myself…but I really could not go without yogurt at all… ever. I eat it several times a week. I am surprised a healthy plan like this doesn’t allow yogurt though. What kind of creamer / lightener can you use in your coffee? Can’t go without my coffee either 😉 but I could probably be more flexible about my creamer than the yogurt thing!

Trying to figure out if this is a plan for me. This was a nice review, you take nice photos!

Blessings!

Tess

Glenda Jordan - I’ve been reading and would like to try this plan to see if it will work for me.
I tried so many different plans, non seem to work.

Rachel - I just wanted to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for this review! I’ve been trying to look up what the 21 day fix is all about and you’ve really gone through it step by step for everyone! I can’t wait to look at a few more of your posts 🙂

sandy - Thanks for your review. I am excited to start, and am sad to have to wait 4 weeks for it to be shipped. I am in the meantime trying to acclimate beforehand. I am confused about the orange, yellow and blue containers- do you have a list of approved foods that you can share? Thanks!!

Megan - LOVE the spread sheet you made!! I would love if you could share the file? That would help me SO much!!

Thanks!!
Meg

candice - thanks for sharing

Betty - Do they ship the program internationally? how can i get it in Dubai?

Vicki - Love your blog!

Lauren @ Focused To Be Fit - Just finding your blog – I love it! Wondering how you ended up doing with the fix. I’m on day 4. 🙂

Colette - hi, i am starting the 21 day fix and was wondering if you made your own meal plan yourself or if there is a template you know of that i could use too.
i like the idea of having it all planned out too and the tally sheets they give you arent quite looking like enough for me.
thanks
Colette

Erica - I am interested in doing this! How did it end up? How were your results? I am getting married in 85 days and I have ZERO motivation!! AND I NEED TO GET SOME!

Meredith - I’m starting my 21-day fix program on Monday. I’m reading up on it and making menu/grocery list. I love your meal plan chart for the week. Where can I get that?

Colleen Westphal - Can You show the pages of the other containers and what Goes in them?
For example peanut butter is it 2 spoons for à serving?

I ordered the basic pack and its on backorder Im not looking for
Container sizes but i would like to “practice”.

My keyboard is set at à different language sorry
For some of the weird formatting.

Thank you,
Colleen

Rebekah - I just finished week 3 of P90X3. I hate, hate, hate excersizing and I dread those 30 minutes pretty much every day, but I’m never sorry afterward that I did it. I am trying to stick to the nutrition plan that goes along with it, and for the most part my daily calorie count is okay, but I feel like I could be doing a lot better as far as the quality of what I’m eating goes. I love the idea of a container system. Too bad BeachBody doesn’t sell that meal plan separately. I’d be all over it.

kris - You go girl! I’m rooting for you (and me)

Kristen - Good luck honey!!! Ive been on Shakeology for a year, and I have to say…it sucks they gave you Vanilla for your flavor. The chocolate is amazing..Vanilla is the one everyone I know sends back. Its like they are setting you up to fail =((. If you dont like the vanilla…try the chocolate. I only do the Chocolate vegan…sooo addicting! If you stay with vanilla..try adding fruit…I did watermelon with coconut milk. You probably can add cacoa nibs (no sugar). I REALLY commend you for doing this 21 day fix! I was hopeful I could do it, but when I saw your blog and saw the actual meal plan, I know I dont have enough willpower. Yet! Im so excited to see how it works for you. Also…I think you will like what the shakeology does for you healthwise. It does help curve sweet cravings, it does improve your gut incredibly well, you have more energy…its the ONLY thing thats given me energy to deal with my 5 kids (thats saying something(!), and my cholesteral and triglycerides etc were MUCH better after doing shakeology. Ive tried going off it, but it helps me soo much…my husband just put it in our food budget as a must for me. I love Beachbodys yoga, but hurt my knee really bad on Turbo Fire (but I have a genetically messed up knee…my fault for not knowing and trying all those twists and turns on my knees). Id love to hear your opinion and experience on the workout videos! Im going to Vegas in June for the BeachBody summit. If you have a success story, you should think about it!

Kate - I am on Day 3 – wish we were in the same group!! I am doing well. Feel VERY sore, but am able to complete the workouts – though I do need to follow the modified version here and there. I am doing ok on the eating plan – first night at bedtime I was RAVENOUS, too hungry to sleep well. So the next day I tweaked things and saved a blue box for before bed. I think it takes a few days of practice to get it right for your own lifestyle. We can do this! I have already dropped a few pounds and I am excited to see my body start to tone up. What do you thnk you will do after the 21 days?

Mindy - I have never heard of this program (I don’t get out much… haha) but it sounds so interesting and a great way to keep me on track. Hmmm…thanks for sharing. You have sparked my interest. PS: I share your workout thoughts of taking breaks and then starting up and wondering why I quit because I feel so much better!

Connie - Meg,
What sight did you order this through? It looks like its sold out everywhere. It looks like a plan I could stick to

Tiffany - Good luck Meg! Rooting you on from PA, even the smallest changes can make a big effect. I personally started eating a salad with my lunch every work day, and especially if we go out to dinner. Salad first, salad first, salad first. I have lost 2 pounds so far this year. No, not a lot but every little bit helps. I’m hoping for 10-15 pounds by the end of the year along with a new healthy habit that includes more veggies on my plate. You can do this!!!

Lisa - Sooooo…. I need this. Bad. I’ve never been in such a yucky place with my eating. I did start working out again. But man, the food is out of control. I love myself sweets, and carbs, and meat and just food in general. You are helping motivate me to just try. I’m always afraid of failing. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing this.

Flower Patch Farmgirl - You’re doing this thing!!
Super proud of you.
Sending you lots of virtual greens.

Necole@seriosulsyassymama - I have heard that it takes a person 21 days to truly get themselves on track with a routine.

Good Luck!

Michelle Whitlow - Good luck!!!I think my biggest problem (or 2) is that I love my Coke (but I’ve cut back to 1 a day…still BAD) and I do not like too many fruits & veggies. Seriously, not many. Makes dieting very hard and NO fun! I just emailed Marta and I’m thinking of getting in on her March group since it’s too late for February. Of course, then I’m gonna go totally off the wagon when I come to craft weekend in April!!

Allison - Wow that’s an impressive plan. I’m a terrible meal planner, I need to do better. Can’t wait to see how you like this plan!

Mary - Meg, I have never commented on your blog before, but have been a loyal follower for a couple of years. I, too have started the 21 Day Fix program with Marta (not in your group… bummer) after reading about it on your blog. I have been on the food plan for 6 days now and can honestly say I haven’t been hungry! In fact, I’m having trouble getting in all the proteins everyday. So glad you posted your meal plan as I’m off wheat and dairy as well. I thought that part would be more difficult than it’s been, the only thing I miss is the greek yogurt :). By far the workouts will be my biggest struggle. The 1st Cardio Fix really showed me how out of shape I am, but eager to see improvement. Good luck to you and I hope you continue to blog about it!

Kristin F. - You are going to ROCK it!! You’ll be so surprised at how much better you feel in a few days. My family isn’t dairy free, but my husband & I do try to eat wheat-free most of the time. I made brownies on Valentine’s Day made out of black beans and they were actually really good. Go figure?!

We love the chocolate Shakeology — our go-to recipe is 8 oz of unsweetened almond milk, 1/2 banana, 1 TB of almond butter and a scoop of ShakeO. SO GOOD.

Sara - I love and appreciate how honest you are Meg! How refreshing! I have to plan out every. single. thing. for myself or I can justify eating something bad every single time, thinking I “deserve” it. I’ve been eating oatmeal and egg for breakfast, smoothie and fruit at lunch, and a healthy dinner. And lots of water and some coffee. Plus running 3 miles a day. And the fun part-a few treats a week (just not every day). I have a one-year old and two-year old and admit, I feel better (healthier) now than I did in my 20’s. It is so much hard work though! But worth it.

Liz M - You inspired me to join the 21 Day Challenge. Yay! Autumn is very peppy.
And oh my– “woke up” a few muscles yesterday that had been lying dormant. I like your chart== makes it look so easy. I guess when you plan and break it down, it is. All going well…except for the 10 boxes of girl scout cookies that got delivered yesterday. Those got packed off to the college kids pronto!

Kirsten J - You go! I’m feeling motivated, and interested in the no wheat/dairy thing. My son’s dr just recommended he avoid wheat like the plague. He said we all should, really. Good to see an entire meal plan without it. But here’s my thing: smoothies or shakes make me gag. I just cannot stand them. Even a vanilla shake or frappuccino. I guess I could just eat the ingredients separately….but I’d sooner starve than eat oatmeal or a sweet potato, too. Hmmm. I’ll have to explore further.

Regina - This looks amazing, and I can’t wait to read further reviews from you over the coming days. How do I purchase a kit? I’ve searched and can’t find a site to order one now…only the Beachbody site where I’m asked to submit my name to be informed of when it’ll be available. HELP! 🙂

Jen - So excited!!
I just wanted to say thank you for your encouragement. A couple of weeks ago I was looking in the mirror and just wasn’t happy anymore and thought ” something has got to change”. I went online to start looking up anything, a groupon for a gym, a deal on WW anything that would start the ball rolling. But of course I procrastinated that little bit more and decided to check my feedly first, and what I found was exactly what I needed! It was your first post saying you were signing up for the program:) I immediately emailed marta, signed up, and bought my kit before I could chicken out. I’m loving it so far and I just wanted to say a big thank you for sharing and getting me started too! I’ll be rooting for you!

Kelly - I’ve been doing Beachbody programs, including Shakeology, for almost a year. I’m in the middle of P90X3 so I’m not doing Fix21 yet which means I don’t know exactly what you can have but if you can add frozen fruit to your Shakeology it will make it like a milkshake and it’s so good! This is what I have every single day – 1/2 cup water, 1/2 cup almond milk, 1 scoop Strawberry Shakeology, half a banana and about 1/2 cup of frozen strawberries & peaches (total, not each) Blended together it tastes like a strawberry milkshake. Seriously.
I’m excited to see how this works out for you! I’m really leaning towards doing this program next!

Laura - God Bless you Meg, because this gives me a head ache!
BUT….
what works for one, doesn’t mean it works for the other.
I always tell Nick, who has tried every diet out there…just eat healthy, and work out!
easy for me, but not for him.

so while this looks like a lot of work for me…and that shake kind of scares me…I will pray for great results!
you know, i happen to think you are beautiful and awesome just the way you are…
and i have seen you in person, so i am not lying…
you are beautiful.
even when your teenager yells at you.
(why do they yell at us??????? WHY?????????? make them stop!!!)

but i know that desire to feel good…to feel strong and healthy and in control…
i am excited to see your results!
this looks like something you can totally do!
if only it guaranteed thin thighs AND no yelling teen.
I would drink a shake a day if it meant my teen didn’t yell at me.

and i hope you can still have your moms margaritas…that counts as a yellow or green fruit, right???

Betc - I’m a mom of 4. 9,7,5,&3. I need to do this because I’m not eating right. I’m not working out. And… I just don’t feel good. And meal planning, forget it. I’m terrible.

Jessica R - One of things I have loved about your blog is that you don’t hesitate to share (and are honest about the hard, daily parts of being a mom) so I enjoyed reading about your plan for the next 20 days. I’m doing my second 30 Day Challenge with Adie (one of Marta’s sisters) and it’s inspiring to see you challenge yourself for 21 days. You’ve got this!!

Kimberly - Looks like a great plan! Good luck with it… I’ve kind of fallen off the WW wagon since Christmas, but since I KNOW it works, it’s just a head game. Maybe I’ll borrow your motivation!

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basketball… it’s our fave.

scott had a basketball game last night…on valentine’s day.
so that was our hot Valentine’s date (and every other parent’s hot date) in that gym.
actually it was super warm in there so i guess it WAS a hot date if you think about it.

his team played the team from the town where craig and i grew up.
in the same gym where craig played in for YEARS growing up…and i cheered on the sidelines.
(GO TROJANS)
it was fun to be back and watch those boys play so hard. (our son? so weird… how did we get this old?)

scott’s team is undefeated so far this year…. it’s exciting!

the game was within a point for the last three minutes or so.
and then tied.
and then we won on a (literal) last second shot.
we found this video on varsitykansas.com.   i wish i had thought to take video.
we were at the other end of the court right near the basket so we had a great view of the shot and the team going CRAZY.
our team is the black team… fyi.

it was so much fun!

watching Scott focus on basketball and knowing how much he truly loves it is just… the best!
it’s so awesome to see your kid light up when they love something.
whatever that thing may be… reading, art, sports, animals, science, math – anything!

personally… i don’t care about the win – lose stuff.
i want that light.
i want to see a connection to something and that drive to “do your best” for no one else’s reasons but your own more than i think about the win or the stats.
those things usually come alongside anyway when that love and dedication is there.

so yeah… basketball is our favorite.
an understatement for my husband for sure.
what would be considered higher than “my favorite” ?
maybe… the ultimate?

whatever.
we love basketball.
(and volleyball.  and soccer.  and track.  and football to0)

the end.

Mindy - I fell in love with my husband watching him play high school basketball : ) I cheered for basketball too. After we got married he played city league for a number of years, then our daughter was a basketball cheerleader and now our daughter is the high school basketball cheer coach. So yeah, I love basketball too, the squeak of the shoes on the gym floor, the heat, the cheers – yep!

Heather S. - I hear ya! Our Valentine’s Day was spent at an all-day ballet competition watching our two daughters dance. Sometimes it’s more romantic to sit and watch what God has allowed you to create together in your marriage than to sit over a candlelit dinner.

Ashley - Hey we had the same Valentines…in the basketball stands 🙂

Lori - Some might read your post and think “too bad— not much of a Valentine’s Day”—— but I know that NOTHING beats watching your kids as they do what they love. Our three are grown (or almost–youngest is nineteen), and sometimes I miss those high school activities so much —-I tear up with memories when I hear The Star-Spangled Banner. Don’t get me wrong— my husband and I LOVE this season of freedom and fun, but I think you spent the most fitting VALENTINE’S DAY of all. Love you, Meg–

Lisa - Oh, the memories in that gym! I think it’s been at least 15 years since I’ve been back. And Coach Knoll is still there!

Rebecca W - THAT was awesome! Go team!

Mickie - Just shared that video with my 9 year old son who also loves basketball and thinks there is nothing better than a “buzzer beater” so he thought it was pretty awesome. Congrats!

Terrie - I read about that this morning and saw video on facebook!
Congrats to your son & team!
I remember our kids playing both teams…such fun rivalries.
I’m not so hung up on who wins or loses either…
It’s so much fun watching them! I miss it…
Believe it or not…they grow up way too fast and then this season of life is over.
Enjoy every minute!

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10 points on a tuesday

1.  i am drinking black coffee because i have no choice… i am out of half & half.

2.  i am watching It’s Complicated.

3.  i am SO cold… i am wearing a coat inside.
and a scarf.

 

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4. how fun is this photo?  i was making waffles in the kitchen and saw that she was reading on the other side of the kitchen window/wall cut-out.  i just reached out and took a shot holding the phone facing down.  She’s reading The Hunger Games in her jammies….stanley is all wrapped up in her knees…. the house is trashed.  SO normal.  so…so normal.

5.  i went to see Monuments Men on saturday night by myself while two of my kids went to a different movie.
(that is one of the awesome things about kids growing up – you don’t always have to spend two hours watching a movie you don’t want to see and you can go to your own theater down the hall) (not every time… but sometimes)
i liked the movie!
i mean… Clooney is in it so… duh.
It was a very “feel good”  movie if a movie about war and nazis can be in that category.
other than the lady giving the world’s most obvious play-by-play behind me…. it was a movie i would see again.

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6.  i am loving this devotional book….Opening the Door to Your God-Sized Dream
it’s gets my heart pumping, mind racing, creativity swirling and reminds me to give all the glory to God.
she also has this same idea but in a book too…You’re Made for a God-Sized Dream
i think for me… this little tiny bit at a time is all i can handle.
i have so many ideas… so many dreams… that when i get going on my dreams it can be too much all at once.
does that make sense?
it sounds backwards when i say it because you are supposed to DREAM BIG right?
but i want the dreams i pursue to be the ones that God wants for me.  Not my own ideas that please me.
So i am loving the way Holley has broken it down into 40 days… a little bit of dreaming at a time… for the BIG dreams God has in my heart.
Taking it slowly helps me discern a bit more.

7.  Annie really wanted me to make Chicken Pot Pie the other night after we ate the CPP soup on our snow day.
The family was talking about how they love pot pie and annie said “I have NEVER had it!”
So… i made it.  Pie crust from scratch… made the whole thing….  TWO pot pies.
And it wasn’t good.
it wasn’t soupy so it was really heavy.
i was SO disappointed.
like… i wanted to cry.   doesn’t it stink to work SO hard on something and have it flop?
cooking is often like this for me.  So much work to most often a less than expected ending.
cereal is so much easier.
oh well… maybe someday Alice will move in with us and take over cooking our meals, pouring the kids kool-aid after school and helping them solve their problems.
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8. we got to take lauren out for her 19th birthday last week.
it’s been a long hard road to get here but we did it.  she made us a family way back when i was only 19 myself.
she made me a mommy.
she has taught our family so much.  we have so many amazing memories together.
here’s to MANY more miss laurney.  keep up the great work at school!  You are a smarty pants.

 
9.  i am getting very excited to start the 21 Day Fix program that i blogged about last week.
but it hasn’t come in the mail??!!!
silly thing.
i saw that a bunch of you joined too!  Woo-hoo!
i know there are a bunch of groups with Marta so we may not be in the same group.
but i am going to talk a lot about it here… i hope… so we can share what we think together in the comments and stuff.

10. THiS.

i have watched it a bunch of times now.
it is so crazy hilarious.  WHO comes up with stuff like this?!!

and are you excited for Jimmy Fallon moving to the Tonight Show?!
i am beyond happy.
my bedtime routine just got so much better.
that guy is just the best.

 

 

brooke - ao, i’ll admit it, I’m a bad blog reader. I wrangle these two year old all day and I just haven’t been good about it, so I ‘binge’ several weeks at once. So here I am, bringing. At least it’s not ice cream! How funny, that you are doing 21 day fix with marta, b/c I have been following haus of girls for a whle now on instagram. Crazy how the worlds collide:) Hope you are having a fun craft weekend!! Or I guess it’s over now…so maybe you’re sleeping…but hope it was awesome!! I bet eating well during CW was a little tough. Hope you weren’t crabby 🙂 I would have been. Hope all is well, sorry for this marathon post 😉

Ruth Elder - I have a pretty easy recipe for CCP that I have perfected over the years. Happy to share it, if you are interested.

Lu - Hej,
I love your blog!
And I really liked the Birthday picture: It could have taken place in 1996 and would still look the same 😉
Wishing you a lot of blessings from Germany
Lu

Mindy - A dog, a book and some comfy jammies – sigh…what a way to spend a day. I have been wondering about the Monuments Men so glad to hear your take on it. Our daughter loved Full House growing up and I am a Tom Hanks fan so I am off to check out your video : )

regina - Pillsbury roll out crust< can of veg-all, cream of chicken soup, cream of celery soup, salt, pepper and either canned chicken or "real" chicken. easiest recipe ever and its awesome!!!

Valerie @ Chateau a la mide - Haha, i’m still waiting for my Alice. I love hiow Carol just helps out with dinner, too funny!

Love that Lauren had a special birthday. Glad she is doing well at school.

Loved the Tom Hanks thingy and by the way, I saw the Beach Boys in concert and they stank! I’ve never been to a concert that bad since. It was so obvious they didn’t care to be there. Just a little side note 😉

Happy Wednesday!

Lemonade Makin' Mama - Girl I joined but mine hasn’t come either and I think I’m in a group with Haley not Marta. Still very excited and can’t thank you enough for the prompt!! Man do I need it. 40 is fast approaching and it’s scary. LOL

Kristen K - Meg…if I could do my house/crafts over again, I’d fill this primitive/traditionally-decorated home with vintage treasures & rainbows & polka dots & chickens & pets. Four kids, 2 kittens, and the love of my life is what fills it now (which is awesome!)…and a lot of dreams! But I’ve spent most of my life living to make someone else’s dreams come true, and I’m just plain chicken to ask God what my own dreams might look like. So many have come true in my family alone…but I long to turn my creative gifts and passions into something more, something for Him. When I start to get excited and dream…my brain fills up with doubt, someone gets sick, I forget to defrost the chicken for dinner (I hate cooking…least rewarding mom-job ever in my book!)…and I put off dreaming for another day/month/year. SO…thank you for sharing what’s making your heart sing, with all the speed bumps and blessings along the way. I am encouraged by you and the life you live for God – and I love your blog! Thank you! 🙂

Gail - Meg,
My 21 came yesterday. Ready to get it going. All this KS snow has cramped my running. I hate running on the treadmill. My ADD brain is also going crazy but I think that devotional is what I need. Thanks for sharing.

Kirsten J - What a fun list! I’ve cried over pie crusts before. Don’t cry, though! This is the best : http://zitzmanfam.blogspot.com/2013/01/chicken-pot-pie-crumble.html
Only I cook the crumbles separately or they get soggy. And I add extra broth.

Ashley - I like you. And your blog. And your family. And your dreams.

Barbara (WA) - I feel the exact same way about cooking. And I am going to find that book, it’s just what I am thinking about presently. Thank you!

Rebecca - Our favorite chicken pot pie recipe is Paula Deen’s Hurry Up Chicken Pot pie. You can find it on the foodnerwork. Sooooo good!

Tanya - I’m reading the Holley Gerth book version right now and your description doesn’t seem weird. It *is* a lot to take in. I probably would’ve done better with the devotional.
I am just so happy with the living room pic and your opinion that your house is trashed, cause it just makes me feel not alone in the chaos that can be a house full of kids. Thanks for taking that pic and then posting it – for reals.

dona weigand - My 11 year old daughter Loves Full House! Thank you for sharing that clip, we enjoyed it very much. The beach boys episode is one of our favorites, hahaha

Jennifer - Is the book by Holley Gerth suitable for a man to read too? My husband and I feel that this is his year to determine his dream from God and next steps for the future. I am looking for resources to help us walk through this together but I know Holley usually writes for women.

Edee - Here is our favorite chicken pot pie recipe. It tastes exactly how you think pot pie should taste and it is pretty easy. My family says this is one of the best things I make. We’re having it tomorrow!

http://www.marthastewart.com/933543/chicken-pot-pies?czone=food%2Fchicken-recipes%2Ffavorite-chicken-recipes&gallery=894540&slide=933543&center=897845

Laura - When you feel up for trying again, my sister’s recipe for pot pie is fool proof and delicious. and PLEASE buy the crust! Pillsbury (the roll out one) I don’t make it often because: gluten because: carbs because: cellulite, but the kids love it. Recipe in link below.

http://reigningitin.blogspot.com/2008/09/my-first-ever-cooking-post.html

Kerri - My husband and I are planning to see “The Monuments Men” on Thursday and I’m really looking forward to it. George Clooney – yeah! And I can’t wait to see “Winter’s Tale” that comes out this weekend. Colin Farrell is in it and the actress who played the youngest daughter on “Downton Abbey.” I have a hard time staying up past about 10:45 p.m. but am ready for Jimmy Fallon; he is hilarious.

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