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can’t forget this

i don’t want to forget….

craig’s mom asking for annie to sing her program song.
she stood up on a chair in front of us all
she shouted very loud waving her arms
“EVERYBODY DANCE NOW!”
not Away in the Manger.
then she giggled like crazy.
so did we.

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craig’s mom opening her gift with annie’s help
she says “we got dat! we got dat fo you at da MOLLL!! yeah…da moll”
nodding her head up and down.
she likes to talk about the mall.

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scott reading the christmas story for all of us on christmas morning.

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annie being sick for all of christmas.
poor baby.

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all the christmas art…
different every year.

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annie knocking over a table in my mom’s kitchen
with a candle, lots of dishes and food on it…
trying to get to her beloved playdoh in the bottom drawer.
we were very lucky that she wasn’t hurt.
wow…it was the loudest sound i have ever heard!
when we were leaving my dad hugged annie and said
“thanks for breaking my dishes”
she said “Wham-pa that was a ass-i-dent!”

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the beautiful snow that almost ruined christmas.
(those are my mom’s christmas lights shining through the snow.
it was nearly impossible to drive in.
thankful that everyone made it safely.

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a really lovely time with craig’s dad’s side of the family.
so nice to just sit and talk this year.
i really enjoyed it.
becky’s house looked so pretty.

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fondue at our house…2nd year in a row.
we love hosting parties.
craig’s family has fondue every year…
anything you can dip or fry – they do it.
lots of food…
then games for the rest of the evening.
chad, ross and gary you are too funny.
“terry brown”
“meat lover’s pizza”

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seeing everyone get excited when they opened their aprons.

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meeting amy’s friends from college
and getting this beautiful handmade christmas greeting…in chinese.

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changing our christmas this year.
giving each child only one gift and their stocking…
and seeing how happy they were.
no complaining (lauren tried to be unhappy but couldn’t stay that way.)

hope your christmas was full of funny special memories too.

Lee Ann - Hi Meg,
Would you share some favorite fondue recipes? I’ve had two pots for many years and have never used them! I know, I know….I’m scared to try something and have it be gross. After those killer chicken enchilladas though, I’d trust your taste any day!

Bonnie - Hi Megan! Just got your Christmas letter & photos! Thanks for the update – I can’t believe how big the kids are getting. I love your blog also & I now feel like I’ve been to your house. It’s spectacular! I’m glad to see that you have parlayed your creative talents to the web!
Take care & Happy New Year!!! Tell us when you are in Chicago next.

michelle - Thank you for sharing, I love your blog. My husband and I talked about switching to the 3 present thing also. I like the 1 present idea even better. This year was such a scramble it seemed to take the fun and the focus off of the true meaning of Christmas. We even talked about doing no gifts and going on a trip instead. There will be a change of some sort that’s for sure.
Happy New Year!

meg duerksen - hi girls.
i am responding to your comments here…it seems the easiest.
thanks for the compliments first of all. very much.
we went to one present this year because christmas just seemed to have become a time of greed and entitlement. it was very frustrating my husband and i. and with 5 kids…it just becomes too much “stuff”. and they need nothing.
we almost said no gifts at all. and we may still do that someday.
we told them that we would pick out one thing we knew they’d like. they were shocked at first but had the month to prepare and it went smooth as silk. i was proud of them.
talby kind of believes in santa but we rarely talk about him…and annie is clueless. talby asked me if i got her the hannah montana dolls and i said yes. they believe in santa for such a short time that i just don’t even mess with it…we let them believe if they want. but we dont’ make a point to talk about him.
their stockings had candy…chapstick…a cheap DVD or CD…little toys…make-up…a pack of socks and a pack of underwear. that’s why they were in boxes…the underwear and socks wouldn’t fit in the stockings. and they ALL needed new socks and underwear. 🙂
so thank you for the encouragement.
it is just our small way of trying to bring christmas into perspective…what it’s about…not what we get.
happy new year!
-meg

Julie K - Hi Megan!
I LOVE your christmas idea of one gift and stocking! I do three gifts each because of the gifts from the wise men, but one nice gift each is a great great idea! Your photos of course are beautiful as always. I’m so inspired.

Andrea - loved seeing all the beautiful pictures of your christmas. I really have enjoyed visiting your blog this year and look forward to the same next year. I am glad to hear that your one present thing worked out so well. My husband and I decided that next year we would do something similar. I had seen on another blog (and can’t remember where but thought it was brilliant ) that each child gets something they want, need, something to wear and something to read. Santa brings them one special presents and some fun stocking stuffers and that is it! Would love to hear about your 1 present. Was that from you or santa???? Happy New Year

Dana D - Hi! I recently discovered your blog, and am hooked! Your pictures are beautiful! I also am inspired by your sewing and decorating projects!
We’ve always let our children pick 3 presents, to symbolize gold, frankincense, and myrrh. This year was the first time it didn’t work. Our oldest changed his mind the week before Christmas, and it was just too late to do anything about it. I’ve been telling my husband that maybe we should narrow it down to just one thing. You’ve inspired me! I’d love some ideas on what types of goodies you put in their stockings.
Thanks for sharing!

Jennifer P. - Once again–great pictures, great stories! (I promise I do other things besides sit in front of the computer, even though I’m always first to comment–if I have something to say, I’m gonna say it :)!) The apron recipients were very lucky. SO cute! We do the one gift and stocking thing too, then let the boys draw names amongst themselves so they’re only buying for one brother. Kids really are pretty content if we let them be, huh? Glad you made so many wonderful memories. Thanks again for sharing your photographic talent with all of us!

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christmas memories

what a wonderful christmas.
really really lovely.
lots of snow and lots of family.
happy kids
happy family
lots and lots of laughing.

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“stockings” came in boxes this year.

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“knee high socks!!”
she will only wear knee highs this year.
so she was thrilled about 4 new pairs.

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hannah montana and friends.

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heeleys.
shoes with wheels in the heel.
this was what scott wanted.
now…how many days till a broken arm?

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sean received legos from everyone.
he said at my mom’s
“this is one of the best days of my entire life!”

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i hope you all had a wonderful christmas too.
we all got new jammies…even me.
this is my official christmas break uniform.
messy hair, no make-up and giant coffee cup required.

Shannan - Holy moley. This is from ONE YEAR ago. No wonder I missed it. I didn’t even know you a year ago. 🙂

Shannan - I am digging around here for your ABC crayon craft and stumbled upon 2 or 3 Christmas posts that I somehow missed. Horror! We were probably out-of-town. Anyway, I love that little row of babies with pacies in their mouths. Where did you find them? Ruby would be all over that.
And PS – I’m trying the ABC crayons for Calvin’s non-edible birthday treat for his friends at pre-school. I wanted to give them each a little bag with the letters of their names. Only problem is…I cannot for the life of me get an S, M or N that doesn’t crack! Is there some trick for this? Plan B is going to have to be a bag of random, compliant letters.

traci - fun christmas pictures – thanks for sharing. love the jammies and big coffee mug. you look so comfy!!

Christine - Heeleys seem to be the gift of choice this year. My nephew conned my parents into getting a pair for him. He is so excited. Your Christmas sounds wonderful. Hope you and the fam continue to enjoy the spirit of the season.

amy - Love the sock monkey jammies! 🙂

Jennifer P. - Thanks for dropping by! These are REALLY great Christmas photos–so much fun! The doll ones are the best (not a lot of those around here). I also adore your sock monkey jammies. And yes….my decorations really are all down. My little ones seemed to sense that Christmas was over and all bets were off concerning not un-decorating the tree. I left a few “wintery” feeling things out and I’m making my banner like you did tonight. It’s a “Happy New Year” one. Thanks again for the idea!

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gingerbread man

it started out innocently enough…

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grandma had gingerbread men for the kids to decorate.
great idea grandma!
we made sure there was plenty of frosting.
no one had to wait to create.

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mmmm….looks yummy?

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Gabrielle - I bet they had fun doing them….My Dd made one at her school…which came out pretty cute…but while I was having her take a picture I had her tilt it and the guy fell down and broke his leg and arm…we had to take him to the gingerbread hospital for some surgery…

Mom - Hmmm…I didn’t really have time to notice how they looked! No wonder they were as hard as a rock! I watched Sean trying to eat a big piece = it was pretty funny. Merry Christmas, everyone! I sure had a good time with everyone at my house.

Jennifer P. - My three year old especially loved this post (he’s sitting on my lap right now!). He’s a big marshmallow fan! What a neat idea! Never thought of making them oversized before!
Hope you have a very Merry Christmas!

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exciting day

we finally saw santa.
he happened by craig’s office yesterday.
with rudolf and the grinch.

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this is talby’s face she makes when she is nervous…
always.

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annie was keeping close eye on that grinch.
but they weren’t afraid.
and there was no crying.
santa misunderstood what talby was asking for.
she said “it’s okay…when he brings me that i will just give it to annie”

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just as i was about to get the perfect shot…
annie was done.
“see ya”

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upstairs on their way to craig’s office
they saw him again through the glass wall.
knock knock knock
“santa!! santa!!”

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then some time to play on daddy’s marker board.
and computer.
and mess up all his drawers.
and eat cookies from their christmas party.

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then we went to the carwash.

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seriously…this was the highlight of their week!
better than santa?
better than cookies?
these girls know how to party.

Jennifer Peterson - I love the car wash photos as much as the Santa ones!!! I remember well the day my kids went from screaming in terror when I’d go in, to actually laughing and enjoying it. You have a brave daughter to hug a big green hairy monster :0!

prairie daze - i remember so clearly what it was like to sit on santa’s lap…how strange it was in some ways…
i was probably like annie…suddenly all done.
: )

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sledding

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we got some snow.
the kids immediately wanted to go sledding.
this year i went…just for the pictures.
i haven’t gone for years.

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as soon as we got out the car
i remembered why i don’t go sledding.
i hate being cold.
oh my goodness it was cold.
but i got annie to the top of that hill and then she was hooked!

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after 15 minutes her little pink cheeks couldn’t take it anymore.
and i was right there with her.
i was done being cold.
we sat in the truck watching everyone go up and down again & again.
we were warm.
but i really needed some hot coffee.

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i am so glad we had snow.
it feels like christmas when it comes in december.
the bad part of snow….

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melissa @ the inspired room - I hope, I hope, I HOPE we get some snow for my son to sled this winter. What fun!
xo

Mom - Are you going to tell her that’s not your mud room! HA!
Looks like you got about the same amount of snow as we did. Had to cancel our Ashmore gathering again!

Jennifer Peterson - I don’t mind the cold, but cold with wind is the worst! Sure looks like they had fun though, and it made for some great pictures. Looks, too, like your mudroom comes in pretty handy!

traci - what a fun day!! we got the snow later in the day. my kids went sledding too, but at our house in involves a four wheeler, rope and sled (or whatever they can find to hook to the rope and sit on). they had fun, but i too stayed inside. i don’t like the cold either.

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pretty

some shots from around the house.
the house seems so much prettier at christmas.

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something different this year.
craig said it looks “very narnia”
he’s right.
i was inspired by this.

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i showed this before…
but the first one was for someone else.
and mine is just the vintage paper and the letters – no color.
i love how it sparkles.

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ready for santa.

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these are my nativity mice…mary & the wisemen.
(the purple mouse had a gift but one of my kids was too curious)
my great aunt and her sewing group made these.
they are so precious.
the detail…tiny little beads and sequins.
pretty amazing for her 90+ years

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enjoying a cup of coffee…reading a magazine…
this is my favorite spot.

Jackie - I’m new to all but just wanted to comment on your beautiful pictures and home, tahnk you for sharing. Jackie

Liz - Your home looks just beautiful! I love the Narnia tree.

Rachael - It does looks so peaceful. Love the nativity mice:) Merry Christmas and Blessings – Rachael:)

Sweet Remembrance - I love your home & decor!
Simply elegant…
Happy Holidays,
Priscilla

Jennifer Peterson - Wow! 19 comments–you must have very inspiring Christmas decorations! Everything looks so pretty. The way everything is lit, and the all the silver glitter is lovely. The little mice have to be my favorite too. One of a kind!

Rebecca - Your home is absolutely beautiful! Thanks so much for sharing your photos with us. I thoroughly enjoyed.

Emily - You’ve done a fabulous job decorating for the holiday! I love how you used the branches!

Mary Alison - I have to say your house is one of my favorites from the tour. Simple and Elegant. Thanks.

Cindy Roberts - Beautiful! So serene and peaceful! Happy holidays!

Cindy Roberts - Beautiful! So serene and peaceful! Happy holidays!

Cindy Roberts - Beautiful! So serene and peaceful! Happy holidays!

traci - your house is absolutely beautiful!!! i love your decorations, so different from mine – but both so pretty!!!

Alison Gibbs - Love the tree on the table in the corner. Very serene.
Alison

Brittany - I love your “Narnia tree”!! And your little mice nativity is just adorable!!!
:)Brittany

Becky - Love the white tree branches in the urn. The nativity mice are so cute.

Becca - Those nativity mice are adorable!! The white nativity is beautiful too. Lovely home!!
🙂

Monicaa - Thanks for sharing your beautiful home! I agree it looks like it should be in a magazine for sure! Such wonderful vignettes!
Happy Holidays 🙂

Cindy - The mice nativity are darling. Love your stockings.

blog@theinspiredroom.com - Love that fireplace. Your house is my favorite, even without the decorations. My house wants to be your house when it grows up.

jessi nagy - everything is so fabulous!!!
gorgeous!

Susan at Black Eyed Susans Kitchen - The nativity mice are my new most favorite ornament. I have got to find a pattern to make them. Fabulous! Thank you. Susan

Jill - I love the twiggy tree! Everything looks wonderful.

Southern Heart - Very, very lovely…everything is so pretty and festive! Your urn in the window is stunning, and your fireplace is amazing. Thank you for sharing your home with all of us.
Happy Holidays,
Andrea

kkarla nathan - I’m linking you to the party right now, thanks for coming!

Mom - Looks beautiful honey! The naria tree reminds me of the Easter tree we used to make every year when you were little. Very nice.

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christmas tree

this year we got an artificial tree.
our first one.
we bought it from our neighbors when they moved.
and it’s nice…but it’s not real and there’s no doubt.
it doesn’t really matter right?
i have to keep telling myself that.
but…if better homes and gardens calls…
(a girl can dream)
that tree is out of here.

i know, know…
it’s what’s on the tree that matters.
and the tradition of decorating it.

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this is our star for the top.
we’ve had it a long time.
then a few years ago…i was tired of it’s plain silver paint
so i got out the glue gun and the box of sparkly stuff.
it’s crazy looking but i like it that way.
the tree is for the kids and i think this screams “kids”

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this is my favorite ornament on our tree.
my great aunt (who is now 97 years old) made it when i was little.
she made many different ones.
she still sews handmade felt crafts with her sewing group.
but i am always drawn to this cat and the pink ice cream cone below.

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we cut big snowflakes and hung them all over.
the kids’ handmade ornaments are always so sweet.
pipe cleaner snowflakes…beaded candy canes…foam gingerbread men
i miss our illinois church’s christmas craft day.
every room in the church was set up with different craft ornaments
for kids to make…all provided and ready.
our tree would be bare without it.

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and who doesn’t love sock monkeys?

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even though the tree is fake…
it looks beautiful with this little darling in front of it,
waiting to go to her christmas program.

kristin - okay, looking at your star has me know you will like the ornament eliza made tonight…was supposed to be for her nana, but this one she said “for my annie.”
: )

Cre8Tiva - i heart the ornaments…how big is that tree…it look gigantic with your beautiful girl in front…blessings, rebecca

traci - i love the hand made ornaments on your tree. so cute. the sock monkey is adorable – never seen one on a christmas tree. we have a fake tree too. they are all beautiful when we decorate them with our favorite stuff, and that includes a beautiful little girl in front of it. have a great day!

M&Co - What a fun, briht and festive tree! With such decorations, who needs a real one ;-)!

M&Co - What a fun, briht and festive tree! With such decorations, who needs a real one ;-)!

amy d - I think your tree used to be my tree that I sold to Neva cause it was way to big for our house….it was left by the previous owners when we moved in. It always needed a bigger space to be appreciated. 🙂

Jennifer Peterson - the tree looks great! Sock monkey is my favorite. I love that all your kids ornaments have a place. This is our first year going fake too. I had to get a pine smelling plug-in air freshner. Not quite the same, but I am enjoying not watering and sweeping up needles daily.

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