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noodles & ham…my kid’s favorite meal!

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i have a loooong history with my friend Lynette.
i first met her when i was a freshman in high school.
she was the youth pastor’s wife at the church youth group i had just started Β atending.
i was stuck like glue to her.
i needed her during those hard teenage years from all the drama i created around me.
she was easy to talk to and i loved being around her….and her family too.

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then i got married on her birthday!
and made her wear that floral print dress with the lace doily ON HER BIRTHDAY!

years later when i was visiting her with a bunch of my little kids….she served us dinner at her house.
i think talby was a newborn!
we have been making Lynette’s dinner ever since.
Sean even had it for his birthday dinner this year!

this is what you will need:
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(this is not a meal for watching your weight…which means it’s yummy)

mix all the ingredients except 1/2 c. milk, cornstarch and ham.

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when it’s all combined in a saucepan….add the ham.

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after 15 – 20 minutes add the cornstarch to the milk until it’s dissolved.
add the milk to the sauce to thicken it.

serve it hot over spaghetti or egg noodles.

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my kids love this.
me too.

happy birthday lynette!
thank you for being so special to me for 20 years.
(can you believe that?!?)

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oh and it’s still my anniversary too.
all these years later.
sixteen years.

to celebrate we are going to light 24 candles that sparkle like stars.

ha.

we have the weekend all alone…..no kids.
it’sΒ going to ROCK!

 

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evelania - Measurements would be great if you wouldn’t mind–thanks!

patty - congrats on your anniversary & have a wonderful, restorative weekend! {ps: love the mirror in the kitchen, too!}

KaraM - I LOVE the bow in your hair! I just got married…can’t wait to see what I think of my pictures 16 years from now!!

Valerie - So excited to try your recipe! I love food that isn’t calorie sensitive…tastes sooo much better! I just found your blog! LOVE IT!

Janie Fox - Happy Anniversary!!Enjoy your kid-free time… how about baby #6??
The grandkids and I made the rainbow wind catchers today. Big hit!! thanks!!

Kathryn S - Happy Anniversary! That meal is a way fancier version of the ham gravy my grandma taught me to make (hers was just ham in a little butter and then simmered with water to make gravy). It’s one of my favorites and one of the few things both kids will eat willingly!

Laura - Happy Anniversary!!!

jenn - Happy Anniversary!!!!

Tonya @ More Than Enough - Happy Anniversary!!! Enjoy your alone time w/your boyfriend!

Life with Kaishon - Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Wishing you the happiest of anniversaries : ) The meal looks scrum diddly umptious. And so does that lace doily : ) Lace collars are pretty as can be! : ) Or not. Super nice to meet you. Visiting via Farm girl paints.

Dar - Great recipe we have a similar family fave. My family requests this for birthdays, too. Have fun in California. Come visit us in Huntington Beach:)

Megan Bellomo - Wow, I can’t believe we share the same anniversary (name too, crazy stuff). I have been reading your blog for a little over 6 months or so now and find you and your family to be so normal. I enjoy looking at your photographs and fun ideas with the kids. I hope this doesn’t seem odd, but I love your blog because you are so NORMAL! Any-who Happy Anniversary and enjoy your time away from your children, I know we will enjoy time away from ours for just the 2 of us.

Julie - Cool people got married in September. I love that your youth pastor’s wife had such a role in your life. I hope that I can be that to our students as the decades go by. Happy Birthday Lynette! Happy anniversary Meg and Craig!

Courtney Walsh - Aw, Happy Anniversary, Meg! πŸ™‚
Oh, and YUM.

Tanya H - Happy Anniversary!!! We had our 11th on Wednesday! πŸ˜€

Jamie - I will have to try that recipe! Yum!
Happy Anniversary! Enjoy your weekend alone!

Elise - Have a great anniversary!!!

Transparent Mama - It looks yummy. Happy Anniversary. Have a fantabulous weekend.

Michelle - Happy Anniversary!!!

amy jupin - happy anniversary meg and craig.
enjoy your weekend ALONE!

Suzanne D - Have a wonderful anniversary!!

Sugar Mama - Looks like a great comfort food dish… especially when the cooler weather is just around the corner.
Am I the only one that can only eat comfort food when it’s cold out? Is that strange?

Alexis @ Finding Prose - I’m visiting here from Farmgirl Paints.
I have been trying to find some new recipes and the one above looks delish! This is why I love blogging because you can find recipes in posts and you also find some great blogs to read while cooking!
Congrats on 16 years of marriage! You get the house all to yourself??!! I’m so jealous;)

Colleen/And Baby Makes Five - Happy Anniversary … and Hooray for a kid-free celebration!

Shelly Reil - Happy Anniversary!! Must have been a popular day, its my parents’ 45th anniversary and their great friends’ 47th anniversary. Have a great weekend, love your blog!

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - Yummo! Happy birthday Lynette & Happy anniversary to you. 24 years is something to hoot and hollar about. That’s amazing! Loved the pic of you two. Have a great kidless weekend.
Oh and I am sooooo not alone with my blog crush. Apparently everybody else loves you too…WHAT?? I saw you first;)…ha!!!

Nicole Q. - This post made me cry because Lynette has such a special place in my heart and life too!! I’m glad she’s touched your life!
Have a rockin weekend with your man!
Happy Anniversary!

Meg's mom - Happy Anniversary Megan & Craig! See the kids later tonight – that’s at the Flying J!

Mindy Harris - awww…happy anniversary, guys!
that recipe looks easy..i’m all about easy.
i see you used some pillsbury flaky biscuits with jelly on top? we love pillsbury around here. so terrible for us but SO GOOD.
i am up to running 2 miles now; i tried your focal point idea and it worked…i run on a treadmill though (and just stared at a splotch on the wall).
xoxo!

sarah - Happy Anniversary, have a great time!

Staci - OH MEGAN!!! Sooo glad you get a weekend to yourselves!!! It’s going to be great! Hope you guys have a super anniversary!!! And Happy Birthday to Lynette!!! So thankful for gals like her in our lives πŸ™‚

debbie - Happy Anniversary. Enjoy your child-free weekend!

Kelly - Happy anniversary!! Happy birthday Lynette! Kelly

AshleyAnn - the candle comment…that is funny stuff

Heather R. - Happy Anniversary! To many more.

Laura - I am hoping that your secret to a beautiful marriage is hidden in that ridiculously fattening recipe!!!!!
have a lovely weekend Megan with your handsome hubby….
xo

Krista - Have a great weekend & Happy Anniversary! Gosh a whole weekend alone, how will you ever fill the hours (wink, wink)!

Sophie - Happy anniversary Meg!
And a very happy birthday to Lynette, too (:

Dana Banana - I am such a DORK!! Happy ANNIVERSARY not birthday…. that will come soon enough!

Dana Banana - Happy Birthday friend!! Hope your weekend is fabulous!!!

Holly - I am soooo jealous of your weekend without kids! Maybe for our anniversary someone will volunteer to watch ours……i think I am going to arrange that! Have a great weekend Meg!

terri - hi there! i found you thru farmgirl paints! i love your blog and your photography is amazing! adorable house, home, kids!!! nice to ‘meet’ you! xo

tam - Happy Anniversary. I hope you have a FANTASTIC weekend (I’m a little, teeny smidge jealous πŸ˜‰

Lori - Enjoy your special alone time with your husband! And thanks for sharing the recipe…

jennibell - I love that picture of your heads together. . .I don’t think I’ve seen that before. So intimate. Have a *great* weekend. . .don’t even know what I would do with an entire holiday weekend with no kids and no responsibility except being with my man. Enjoy every minute of it!

Tracy - Oh the recipe sounds and looks delicious! YUMMY! Congrats on your anniversary and the alone time with the hubby! Have a great time and a relaxing weekend! xoxoxo

se7en - Oh congratulations!!! What a special friend, what a happy teary post!!!

Gemma - Happy Anniversary!! Lovely idea about the candles : )
Hope you have a fun weekend! Don’t be too naughty heehee!!
Gemma x

Susan - I just found your blog. My friend told me tonight that she thought I had sent her here, but no, this is my first visit and I have really enjoyed looking around. I love photography too and hopefully someday it will be more than just a hobby. Is that a labradoodle you have? I have one. Love your house. Oh my, it is beautiful. So my question is how do you edit if you don’t use photoshop yet? I have PSE8 and it is a bit overwhelming. I can do a few things, but I have so far to go. Anyhow, just wanted to say hi.
Blessings,
Susan

Julie - Happy Anniversary! We recently celebrated our 23rd ~ time flies when you’re having fun!!!!

Dandy - Happy Anniversary!
That dish looks great.. do you have any measurements?

Alicecrumbs - Ah! Congratulations! Enjoy every second of your kid-free time. Xxx

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - Happy Anniversary!! No kids?! Sounds like trouble πŸ™‚

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date night

so we get out of the car at the restaurant and realize that pam and i match almost perfectly….
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capris, brown flip flops, green shirts.

but so did the boys!!!

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we looked like such dorks.

but….our dorkiness aside…date night was just what i needed. (thanks pam and eric)
getting encouraged.
being heard.
laughing.

it was so good.

i love date night….i wish it was every week…it reminds me that i am a wife not just a mom.
it's nice to have a conversation without being interrupted by someone who wants their sippy cup refilled.


i'm curious…

how often do you have date night?
do you wish it was more often?
        

melissa - oh date nights! i wish we had more of them. we just had one on saturday, but it had been a month since our last one…we need more of them, really bad.
glad you had a great one!

Karen - Near as I can remember, the second time since we were married was our tenth anniversary. I pushed and pushed for that night and all hubby did was grouch about it. I gave up. Can’t recall it happening since, without friends asking anyway. We’ve been married almost 29 years, and still have a good life. Those years were tough though, I’ll admit. Very tought

Carolyn - My husband and I had date night last night. Neither of us could remember the last time we had one. Pretty sad. This date night was for my birthday. the next one will be next month for our 15 yr anniversary. There’s no telling when we’ll have another. By the way we saw Eclipse (my choice) and we ate fajitas and drank beer (his choice). It was perfect!

Talysa - We have a rule in our marriage…dialogue daily…date weekly…depart quarterly. :-)And yes we make every effort we can to stick to it…it’s like a treasure to us that we fight to protect. The “depart” may just mean one night in downtown Nashville while the kids are at grandmas but it suits us just fine.

Melanie - My hubby and I just have a date whenever time allows. We only have one child (16 yrs. old) and he goes with us some of the time. When you only have one kid, you can find a lot more time to just be together and talk. With 5, I would think that it would be difficult to find time.

Jennifer - You should check out Project 52 at Simply Modern Mom. She and her husband are doing a once a week date for a year. She’s got lots of easy and fun ideas. πŸ™‚

amber - it seems weird to have a date night, I guess b/c we only have one kid and it feels weird when she isn’t here. We probably should do it more often, for our own sake and hers….we will see. Glad you had so much fun

Jennifer - We never do! We just have our two girls (8 and almost 10), and I don’t have a regular reliable sitter. When they were little we got to enjoy parents night out through the church/preschool, but now that they’re older, unless my parents are in town, it doesn’t happen. We do have the opportunity to eat out once a week when they are at dance for nearly two hours, so that’s something! But aside from that…. πŸ™

jodi @ back40life - I’m super blessed that my in-laws get our kids most every Sunday afternoon just after church/lunch and then keep them overnight and we get them back late Mon afternoon/evening. We’ve been trying to be more and more disciplined to go on a Sun night date and just really enjoy being together instead of just having time when the kids aren’t there. It’s fabulous! We do a large portion of our dreaming on those Sun night dates…so good for our well-being, marriage & the whole family!

Jenn - Our kids are still little so we have an ‘at home date night’ every Friday night. We give the kids a fun meal for dinner and then after they go to bed we order sushi, watch a movie, we talk, but most importantly we don’t use our laptops or iphones. Best night of the week!

Julie - Date night? Occasionally. Double Date Night? Never! I think we need to have one! Too funny about the outfits ~

Lisa - So funny. Date night? Hardly ever…it’s terrible! We do a cheater date night – a movie on the couch after the kids are in bed a couple times a month. But a babysitter/dinner out – not as often as we should!

Casey - Matching outfits? Greatness. My sister and I do this just to annoy my son.
Date night……about twice a year, if we’re lucky. ‘Tis a result of relocating and moving around the country. Hard to trust sitters in new areas!
However, our kids go to bed early and we stay up late to catch up. We make it work.

Juli - 2-3 times a year. Whenever my Mom offers to watch the kids.

Sheryl - I so wish date night was more often! We only have it for our anniversary and then maybe one other time in an entire year. Ridiculous I know!

The Lady of the House - We haven’t had a “just us” date in FOREVER! We have an 8 month old and pumping just DOESN’T happen for this girl SO he’s always there BUT Granny pitches in about once a month for us to have that time with just the little one and that is heavenly.
So cute y’all matched – you totally planned it didn’t ya πŸ˜‰
Happy 4th, The Lady of the House

Kat - Oh this is too depressing. Reading about all these couples who do regular date nights. Sigh.
It sounds so lovely!!
We have 4 young kids (8, 5, 3 and 19 months) and as someone else said, no one really offers to babysit once you get to 3+ kids!
We get out maybe twice a year if we are lucky and can convince the Grandparents to babysit all four. (last time we took the baby with us and went for lunch. Better than nothing!)
You have inspired me to be more creative with a date night at home.
I had to laugh at the matching outfits.
Hope you ate something yummy Meg!
Btw your hair is looking fabulous πŸ˜‰

sara's art house - CUTE OUTFITS!!!!!!!!!! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Tracy Fisher - Loved your date night story. We had one too last night… triple date and one couple brought all 3 kids (but okay since they gave us the free baseball tickets)… had a blast. Love your posts. It’s my daily indulgence.
Tracy (www.tfisherart.com)

Angela - We rarely have date night. Our boys are 18, 14 and 7 so alot of times we have date day and go to lunch, which is good too. When we had our third people stopped volunteering to watch them all. lol I do wish it was more often. I love your blouse, I have several like that but people always think I’m pregnant. UGH!!

Trish - when my husband is employed full time and we can afford a babysitter we would go out once a week… usually a Tuesday or something like that. otherwise it’s not very often πŸ™

Holly - that is pretty funny Meg! We usually try to have date night every so often. Not as much since Brian has been working to rebuild my Dads house from the floods in May but it is so important!

Gemma - LOL that is crazy!! Date night seems so much fun : ) Maybe when i’m older!!
Gemma X

Donna - We get date night once a month thanks to our free babysitter “Grandma D”. She’s our adopted gramma since ours are far away. We are so appreciative to her. I wish I could go every week too!

Carolyn - Oh my! That is so funny! I love date night. We don’t do it nearly as often as we would like…we try to take advantage of grandparents and have a date night every time we’re staying with either of our parents. Other than that, we MAYBE get one a month at home, with a sitter and everything. In the summer we’ve discovered a wonderful stay-at-home “date” and that is sitting around a fire in our fire pit having a glass of wine and chatting after the kids go to bed. We love it! (our kids are little, though, so they go to bed early!)
I’ve been stalking you for a long time, but thought it was probably time for me to join the conversation here. I LOVE your blog!
I LOVE the pictures of your house…your style is what I want my style to be! We are in the process of buying a new (old) house and I’m SO excited to fix it up and remodel it to be as fabulous as your house. πŸ™‚ Thanks for your wonderful blog!

Rebecca H. - date night for us comes along by chance once every few months if we’re lucky. we don’t live near family, so it’s kind of hard to find someone to watch the kids for us. but when we get the chance, we make sure to take it! glad you had fun!

Jaimie - not often enough. probably once every couple of months. we do spend a lot of time together though, since my fiance works evenings, so we get to spend our days together, which is nice. but we do need to spend more time alone.

Georgia - We dont have children, just 2 naughty dogs which we cant leave unattended for too long. So we usually have date night once a month if we can afford it.
Its usually a meal out, or for a movie.
Tonight we met up with my cousin and her boyfriend for a meal, then back to there house for a cup of tea!!!lol
very exciting πŸ™‚ xx

Daniele Valois - Ha. Funny. So, in the past year, since our last baby was born, we have had 4 dates. 3 of these dates, our oldest daughter said she had to come with us because we were seeing a movie she wanted to see. Finally, last week, my husband and I went out for our first date in a year, alone. However, our oldest really tried to come! πŸ˜›

emily - Your outfits are too funny!
We are very fortunate in that my in-laws LOVE watching our girls so we get to go out almost every Friday! =) Lucky, I know!!!

donna - I love date night. Now that my kids are a bit older – we try to get out once a week. My favorite date night is our once a month “euchre club”……(a card game very popular in Michigan). We get together with 6 to 8 couples and play euchre, eat yummies and drink our adult beverages……..Oh by the way, tonight is euchre night!!

Kelley - Date night comes for us about once every 4-6 months. Weekly would be awesome, but I think monthly would still be better for a reprieve from our two kids. Nice to be reminded you are also an adult and wife, not just a Mom.

purejoy - we weren’t always super intentional about our dates in the beginning of our parenthood days… sometimes it takes some ingenuity to do a date and figure out how to pay a babysitter…
but we try to do it at least once a week.
it’s important to build the bond between you and the hubs. even though you can’t imagine it now… you will have an empty nest one day. and it’s a good thing if you and the hubs have a solid relationship. otherwise, it can be really hard to reconnect after years of child-rearing.
glad you had fun!

Laura - Too Cute! Hilarious with the guys!!! We have a 2 1/2 and 4 year old so date night when it happens is so wonderful. We try to have date night at least once a month more if we can find a family sitter. Everyone keeps saying it’ll get easier to leave (and not feel so guilty) as they get older. πŸ™‚

Jennifer - Ok, that is HILARIOUS!!!
We do NOT have date night enough…once a month maybe.
Wish it was every week.
Once while dating, the husband and I accidentally dressed alike – jeans, same color shirts, and chacos…we got ragged by friends. πŸ™‚

Jenny Wren's - We try to have a date night once a week, but that doesn’t always mean going out. We take turns and on whatever night of the weekend it is, that person’s turn is to cook a nice dinner, or make dessert for a movie fest we are going to have, just something special, where it is just the two of us, no computers, tv, phones…You started out just the two of you, you will end up, just the two of you, so don’t lose just the two of you somewhere in the middle! Loved that you all dressed in the same things, what a hoot!

Elizabeth - My son was looking over my shoulder when I clicked on your blog post today. Before I could read the first sentence, he said, “Why are they all wearing the same thing?”
I burst out laughing —

Staci - We never do πŸ™ We are losers and I think it is soooo important!!! You are so right when you said….it’s just nice to be a wife for a few hours without so many demands from the little darlings πŸ˜‰ I’m glad you feel refreshed! Happy Fourth!!!!

Jill - Once a week. During the school year, “date night” is sometimes during the day when they’re at school and we’re both off (we work weird hours). During the summer, it’s more intentional and we make sure to get out to run errands alone at least once a week and out on a date twice a month. Love that time alone with him!

lindalou - at least monthly or more often depending on my husband’s schedule ): but we always try to make time after almost 44yrs this month (:
blessings,

Sana - hilarious! you two dressed the same, but men too? πŸ˜€

Michelle - I laughed when I saw the pic of the two of you, but it turned into a gaffaw when you posted the boys’ pic. Hilarious.

Heather R. - That is funny.
Date nights…not enough.
I hope you had a great time.
~Heather R.

AshleyAnn - sippy cup refills….if it didn’t cause terrible toxic fumes I would have a sippy cup and plastic plate burn party in a few years….after a hot date night….

Kimberly - This has happened to us with our favorite couple friends, except we were ALL matching. It was so reeeediculous!
Hubby and I go out occasionally — we have a great system in place with my friend Liz — we put our kids in bed (we both have EARLY bedtimes) — then we come over to each other’s home and watch trashy TV while the kids are asleep. It’s super easy!!!

Ashley Stinson @ The Hillside Home - right now we are staying with my in-laws while we wait to close escrow on our new home… so we are getting lots of free babysitting for lots of spontaneous date nights! πŸ™‚ it’s so great being able to put the baby down at 7:30 and then handoff the monitor and go out to see a movie. πŸ™‚

Julie in GA - Not often enough…but we did have 3 days home alone together with one kid at camp and the other 3 and Grandma’s house…and it was the best 3 days ever! No tending to kid-needs, no particular routine…just enjoyed hanging out together and doing stuff. It was AWESOME! : )

Laura - Close to never. That is how often we have date night. But hopefully that will change as we move closer to family, ska “free babysitting”.
I am so happy your date night worked out.
And that you got to be a grown up
and laugh.
Ansd be a wife.
This is important.
Not just for you and Craig
but for your kids…
Too see that you are a team…
And that you enjoy edch other
so vital to d healthy marriage.
I think once a week would be ideal…
My parents did that
but I’ll settle for twice a month.
It’s my new goal.
Marriage first…. Kids second.

april - We try to go once a month…..but I always seem to feel guily about leaving the kids behind…

Anna Marie - Definitely not as often as we should. I can’t even remember the last date night we had and we only have one child so far.

shelly @familyblt - We don’t have it enough! We always talk about doing it more and then life gets in the way. And why are the sippy cups always empty!? Seriously πŸ™‚
lol at being dressed alike

traci - Been married 13 yrs. and neglected datenights terribly. Until recently we realized they are not just important but CRITICAL….now we let NOTHING stop us and go out once a week and really make it a date…hold hands, touch hands, etc.

Jenny - I love date night! I SO need that reminder (that I am not just a mommy) as well!! We try to have a date night at least once a month, but I would love to have one every week!

Heather - that is hysterical!!!! i have recently begun the habit of dressing like the baby. i dress her first and throw my clothes together before we run out the door & then as soon as we’re out somewhere, someone notices we’re in similar outfits. what the heck? and why always the baby and not the older kids?
looks like a great group and hope you guys had a great date night!!!

dianereeves - I would love to have one every week-but that is pretty unlikely while my husband is in school full time and and we have three kids. There is a free parents night out once a month through my husband’s seminary, so this year we will get to go out at least once a month-I am so ready for those to start.

Vera - We have a mandatory once a month date night, but we try to go more often. But definitely once a month. When I was on bed rest even, date night was sending the kids away, unplugging the phones and computer and snuggling on the couch with popcorn, candy and a movie.

Kimberlee J. - We do date night once a month. We got married on the 16th of December, and every month near the 16th we go on a date. Sometimes we manage more than one date, but at least we are guaranteed at least one!

Misty, Southern Belle Mama - My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we have 2 young children. We usually go out once a week or once every two weeks. We are so lucky to have both of our parents live in the same town as us so they are always willing to keep the babes when we go out. It is such a blessing to our marriage!

Sally Mangham - Dates are so important! For years my husband and I went on coffee dates instead of date night because we were both in school and working full-time of course this is before we had kiddos. Now we have 2 kids and we still go on coffee dates which really means everything from going on walks, really having coffee, dinner, lunch, etc. No matter what we have learned that we need to get away from our kids and out of the house. I have found as I am approaching my 20th wedding anniversary that it is so important to have that connection with my husband.
One of my mentors suggested that we schedule a weekend getaway every 90 days to really connect with my hubby and role model for your kids that my married is sacred.
No matter how often keep up the dates it worth it!

Tara - when we lived in GA near my family for 5 years, we took a date night every single week…now that we’ve lived in Orlando for the past 2 years….we go out about 1-2 times a month….BUT, we order in take out food (just for us) every single Saturday night…and when we put the kids to bed….we have a date night at the house!
…not the same…but it’s the only way we can afford do date each other in this season!

Sue K. - Its funny we seem to think going to Costco is like sneaking away on a date…pretty much anytime we can get somewhere without the kids…. lucky for us now that the kids are able to be home alone we can have regular time alone with each other. Its sweet!

Lori - My husband and I are sorely in need of a date night! We have two teenagers, so there’s no babysitter to get or pay. Thanks for the reminder!

angela - Life is a date night for us right now. Three kids, grown and married. We’ve been married 35 years. Life is a honeymoon. Not to rub it in or anything. Keep up the date nights. Pretty soon it will be your life.

kristine - omg that’s hilarious! i love your necklace!! we RARELY have date night πŸ™ boo! my sister has it every friday night!

Michelle - We decided once a month. And it is now July (to state the obvious as what other month would it be????) and we’ve managed date night ONCE this year. Note to self – have to get out on date night more often! Thanks for the reminder Meg.

mary - i can’t remember the last time i had date night. i need to start letting my husband know whats more important. the easy chair with ‘cops’ or ‘most incredidble car whatevers’ or us. thank you meg for this reminder.

Kae - Hi! I saw this episode of Oprah…it was about..organizing your life or something. But the expert there said that having a date night once a month…is better than going on vacation! That totally opened up my eyes!

Sophie - We’re supposed to have a ‘date night’ once a week when we turn the tv off and just talk and then once a month go out for dinner/movie but neighter of those has beenhappening with any regularity recently! πŸ™ Never had a double date though! How funny that you all dressed the same!!

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - We used to… but since we’ve moved, we haven’t in @ 2 years… we need to get on it!

Lori - We used to have date nights but we stopped. We are going to start again! You have inspired me! Thanks!:) Lori

PaisleyJade - haha – that is so funny!!!
My husband and I have one once a week at least – but we always stay home and watch a movie with yummy nibbles etc. Don’t go out alone that often – but we should!!!!

Esther - Meg….sounds like you all had fun. Date nights are so so important!!! celebrating our 27th year of marriage in a few days and we have always thru our marriage have gone on date nights. We all need them. Keep it up.

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chicago

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we went to chicago for our anniversary.

15 years.

it doesn't feel nearly that long.

i have been with him longer than i haven't.

that is such a safe and lovely place to be.

we flew out on friday after getting the kids settled with grandparents.

(we love that grandmas watch the kids!)

dave picked us up at the airport…did a trip down memory lane through the old neighborhood…

yes.

i saw you old neighbors sitting inside your homes…marybeth.  you were on your computer.  :)

you too sue.

it was too late to just show up unannounced.

i could spend a week with jenny easy….but i will take what i can get.

we talked till late.

we went to IKEA on saturday.

oh my love for ikea will never die.

i fit as much into my carry on (that i made craig carry since it was so heavy) as i could.

these lights are fabulous.

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they are HUGE.  hold out your arms and that is how big each one of these lights are.

and they are made of paper!

so creative.

i didn't get one though…

we went for our usual gluttonous family style meal at maggianos.

we were short a few people that are usually with us….but we managed just fine.

who knew only four people could eat so much?!

we deserved a free t-shirt…or complimentary stretchy pants.

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that's my bff…chicago jen.

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the first night was at jen and dave's.

the next night we went to a hotel…the airport hilton.

i had LOW expectations.

and i was so pleasantly surprised.  it was nice!  and SO quiet.

i think i only heard one plane…and we are across the street from the airport!

impressive hilton.

well done.

and i was glad (for many reasons) my kids weren't there because the windows would have given me

a heart attack.

AND they opened!

it makes my heart jump just thinking about it now.

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we rode the train downtown.

we spent all of sunday in chicago.

walking around just craig and i together.

we didn't have to go into any lego stores even.

i got to see everything i wanted…hey except what about pottery barn? did you trick me craig?!

craig was checking out all the architecture…

and going into buildings we have never gone into…just to see them.

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craig's favorite.

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we ran into our friends from newton…they were in chicago for their anniversary too.

they had run a half marathon that morning.

they are awesome.

they were headed to american girl place. 

(we knew they were in chicago but we weren't planning on seeing them downtown…just later for U2) 

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the bean is just so cool.

i could sit here all day…i love to people watch.

everyone is smiling here.

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i told craig i think we should live on the top floor of that middle building.

"just a simple home for two"

i thought we should just have the whole floor.

i dream big.

those windows are gorgeous!

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ok…this is gross.

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i am sorry.

i just had to share.

it was so crazy…

she put her kid by the fountain right in front of us and then just bends over to take a picture.

showing us all her goods!

AAAAAAAAAA!!!

she did it several times…so i took her picture.

i just had to.

if you are reading this lady….thank you for at least wearing the underwear.

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we met up with the kansans and dave & jen for dinner.

stuffed pizza….YUM.

then we walked to soldier field for U2.

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this was the stage before they started.

it was super big….like rock star BIG.

with gi-normous screens.

U2

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he didn't bring me up on stage.

i thought i heard him calling me but no one else heard it.  

ha.

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U25

U2 junkies.

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you must click on this one.

make it as big as your screen….and then just think of what it would be like to be Bono.

can you even imagine all those people screaming for you?!!

it is unreal.

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it was amazing.

you should go to their concert.

you won't be disappointed.  

i promise.

even if you don't know all their songs…you will LOVE it.

we made it back to kansas monday morning.

the kids were happy (most of them) to see us. 

and we were ready for them…we missed them.

they loved their chicago souvenirs.  

i love getting away with the
craigster.

he is my favorite.

so…now you have been reading about me waaaaay too long.

you should go get something done.

me too.

bye.

tami reed - looks like you had a great time! You should have taken pics in front of Harpo studios lol. Im use to live in the midwest too! Cleveland, Ohio! We were neighbors lol

cufflinks - Wow!
How amazing does that look.
I love U2 but never had the opportunity to go and watch them live. I had heard that their gigs are something special but looking at your pictures it looks absolutely stunning.
I wish i was their!
I can imagine your aniversary must have been really special.

Kristine Robb - omg you crack me up! the lady… the craigster… the going and doing something else besides read your blog…
your pics are so great! makes me miss my sweet home chicago… my husband used to live in marina towers (the corn cob looking bldgs on the river – 48th floor) the year before we were married. it was amazing!
i had several friends at the concert. glad you had a blast! your pics gave me the visual for what they had to say about it!

Diana aka "knzus" - wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! what a great place to go for your anniversary… and btw, Happy Anniversary a few days late! have missed reading you, been so busy, and ill with my migraines, and busy, and well, life gets in the way of regular blog reading, heh-heh LOL! geesh, that lady with the goods that aren’t even good, oh my *rolls eyes* sure glad we don’t have that here… or do we???? always love your pics… love that you share your world with us, thank you for that… inspite of the undie fashion blunders ROTFL! {{hugz}}

Joni Lloyd - we used to visit chicago every summer while my parents did wholesale shows at the merchandise mart. it was a tradition to eat at portillos and try to catch a cubbies game if they were in town. thanks for sharing the pictures. brought back lots of memories!

Teri - Happy Anniversary! I am so jealous! My last anniversary that we got away, we lived in Chicago and went somewhere else. We didn’t know we’d be moving a month later. We are planning a huge family trip back, but to walk with my hubster all to myself.
Did you know- that you can order Portillo’s and it will be overnighted? We do it for Christmas every year.

Diane - Hi. I normally don’t comment but I love reading your blog.
First, great pictures … always love to see your what you capture … and that lady? Now that was hilarious. Couldn’t stop laughing!
My husband’s cousin was at the U2 concert as well so I shared the pictures. And the one that you say to enlarge, well, she did that and found herself in the picture!! She was so excited! So thanks for sharing.
Diane

Sam - Ok, seriously that women needs to invest in some longer skirts. Nasty. Definitely agree about the apartment. Imagine what great light you would get…..

Heather Anuta - I love your Chicago pictures! I am from Chicago but go to school in Ohio. I love whenever you even mention Chicago. I was home the same weekend you were there. I was actually there for the half marathon your friends were there for. I love the Portillos pic.. I had to get some before I made the drive back here.
I, too, could spend all day at the bean people watching. It’s just the most beautiful city! Thanks for sharing!

Jen - OH. MY. WORD! I cannot believe the lady in the fountain! Can I have your permission to post that on my blog with a nod to yours? I could use it for a post I’m ruminating over–seriously!
Chicago is my VERY favorite city! My husband and I are probably the ONLY people in the world who want to retire to a loft apartment in downtown Chicago. Hey–dreams are free!!
Thanks!

sara's art house - LOVE the Chicago pics!!!!

Melanie - Guess what, Megs? Me & my hubby were on the FLOOR of that U2 concert! Yep, I won radio station tickets and we had floor access. It was SO awesome looking up at those thousands and thousands of people. Not to mention that we were on Soldier Field where the Bears play. Too cool.
Glad you enjoyed Maggianos…we go there every July to celebrate our oldest son’s bday, as it’s his favorite restaurant.
~Melanie
http://www.melathome.blogspot.com

jessica - chicago looks amazing! awesome photos!A congrats on the anniversary. πŸ™‚

Jenny - What a great weekend!
The photos of Chicago look fantastic. I would really love to go there.
I love those light shades at IKEA. I was looking at them last weekend. IKEA is one of my favourite places.
The U2 concert looks amazing. The stage is incredible. I saw them last time they were in Sydney – they always have amazing effects.

Dawn - Chicago . . . what a fun city! It is one of my favorite cities to visit! Loved seeing it through your eyes!

amy - I have enjoyed starting to read your blog. Check out ours…thebradsmithbunch.blogspot.com. Ordered Ed Emberly books today for crafts for my boys…they will love them. I’ve always wanted on of his books! amy

Kimberlee J. - The other night I asked B what he would like to spend money on more than anything—you know what he said? Seeing U2 in Norman, OK. He loved the pictures and you are spurring on the cause…maybe I should just send you with him???

Nicole - WHat a great trip . . . made me want to get away with my man! THose times are AWESOME!!! I’m with you on the IKEA love, I miss mine in UT! WHAA! THat lady bending over was HILAROUS, like I laughed out loud!! Glad you had fun, have a great time at the craft fair!!

Jaime @ Simply Arizona - Happy Anniv, Meg! We celebrate 15 years this year too (and I have been with my DH over half my life as well)… =)
I was actually born in Chicago… but we moved when I was 18mos old. I want to go back for sure – and your pictures just proved the point even more (except for the underwear lady, I could do without that scenic view!).
Thanks for sharing!!

Jaime @ Simply Arizona - Happy Anniv, Meg! We celebrate 15 years this year too (and I have been with my DH over half my life as well)… =)
I was actually born in Chicago… but we moved when I was 18mos old. I want to go back for sure – and your pictures just proved the point even more (except for the underwear lady, I could do without that scenic view!).
Thanks for sharing!!

Andrea @ Big Creek Cottage - Happy belated anniversary…..your pictures take me there!

Sandy - Once again – great pictures! I’ve never been to Chicago, but between yours and my daughter’s pictures I REALLY want to go.
The picture of the lady bending over – you should send that in to …what magazine is it?…Glamour??…that has the DO and DON’T fashion pictures. Maybe she’ll see herself in there (although I doubt she reads magazines like that). They will insert a nice black rectangle to protect her privates. …maybe she should have thought of that!

Elisa - I saw them many years ago when I was at UT- great concert. I would love to see them again!
Glad you got away, always a good thing πŸ™‚

pve - Guess I need to post mine.
It is coming – the anniversary.
22 years, so I have got you beat.
You kill me with all you do,
you bend over backwards –
with all your shots.

Mary Beth - True Story. Swear to Gawd.
1981 or 1982…a band called U2 was playing in Ames, Iowa.
We went.
( I went to Iowa State University back then.)
Didn’t LIKE them or didn’t GET them….AND WE LEFT!!!
And we had to PAY SEVEN DOLLARS TO GET IN.
After all these years, I’ve wanted to call that old boyfriend and ask if it WAS U2 that we left. I’m pretty sure it was.
Really nice pics, Meg!

Christina - Amazing, all of it! U2 and Ikea to boot!
Happy Anniversary. I love what you said about your years together.
And as you said…now I’m off to bed!

nicki - I’ve been reading, but never posted before! Anyway Happy 15th Anniversary. My husband and I just celebrated ours as well. Well, celebrating conveys that we’re on the same side of the world…. he’s deployed in the Navy. We have 5 kids as well (4-13) and we lived in Chicago when we first got married. We try to get to a u2 concert every tour, but won’t this time as I just feel traitorous going without him!
Oh and I needed to know, what pizza did you eat? Sometimes I dream about Connies’

Sara - I rarely comment (but am a long-time reader!), but had to comment on this to tell you a.) Happy anniversary! and b.) we probably walked right by each other on Sunday!
I live in Chicago (and work in that big white building behind the bean) but played tourist on Sunday and took my dad and sister on the architecture boat tour. I was wondering if I’m on that boat in your picture of the river! How funny would that be. We saw lots of the half-marathoners, too. They made me want to start training for something, but I’ve never run more than a mile in my life. πŸ™‚
Glad you enjoyed your weekend in the city, and OMW that that girl with the underpants!! Yikes.

Sally - Look how many people love you! 54 comments is impressive.
I love Ikea. I used to live an hour away…now live 6 hours away. It’s hard.

Carol S. - Awesome pics, awesome blog, what a great concert that must have been. I turned down a pair of tickets last week because I had a church anniversary dinner to go to…..arghhhh! I think I’m heading downtown with my two boys for an overnight while dh is on a fishing trip. We love just hanging downtown Chicago!!

Suzanne - Looks like so much fun and I LOVE CHIGAGO !!!!!
Thanks for sharing makes me want to go again.
Just imagine what heaven is gonna look like with all those people (and more) are praising GOD πŸ™‚ awesome.

Jerri - Happy Anniversary! Looks like you had a great time!! The pic of the lady, YIKES!…makes me hope I have never bent over with a skirt on…not that I would wear “that” outfit or anything! I feel like Bono was calling you name but you just couldn’t hear him! ha ha

Melissa Smith - Yeah! U-2 – we are going to the Atlanta show in October – can’t wait. Looks like you had a blast!

Trina McNeilly - Meg….. looks like you had such a great time. i was in the city that day too…..and some friends had an extra U2 ticket.. it was like a giant kiss from heaven…. I had wanted to go so bad but wasn’t able to and at the last minute that day I got to go. I LOVE seeing your pics.. I was like way up at the top…which was fine with me but it is cool to see a little closer. Wasn’t it like super amazing when he sang Amazing Grace? 80,000 people were there is what I was told…wow! So glad you guys had a such a wonderful weekend!!!!! You can never go wrong in Chicago!
xx

Sara Cameli - So happy for you guys that you celebrated alone and out of town! πŸ™‚ You’ve got to cherish the moments…cracked up at funny lady picture. Nice. Real nice. heh heh.

Julie - That looks like the best weekend ever. Congratulations on your anniversary!

Lori - I probably should go get something done….but this is more fun. I’m so glad you had a great trip! And, I think it’s HALARIOUS that you took a picture of that lady. Awesome. But, what was she thinking!?

Amanda - This really makes me want to visit Chicago!

shannon - love your blog! my friend shared the link with me. where can I find you on etsy?

Kelly - Thank you for sharing your trip with all of us. I’ve been married 21 years and have never done anything special to celebrate. You are so very lucky!

Ruth - happy anniversary! and oh wow… these pictures are amazing. those downtown ones with the incredible buildings… gorgeous. as for miss buttcheeks… uh, no words. but classic picture!!

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - Won-der-ful pics Meg. I was just in Chicago this summer and there is just so much to see. Love the pic of the lady flashing you…too funny. That concert looked amazing!! I have two other friends that were there. Unbelievable being in a crowd of 80,000. Great get-away with your honey. Congrats on 15 years. That is definitely something to celebrate:)

Deborah Clark - Chicago looks so beautiful, will put it on my bucket list of places to visit, when the kids have left home. lol

Erin - Looks like you had a great time. I love Chicago!!! Can’t wait till I take my girls there.

Dina - looks like a great weekend ~ congrats on 15 years.
and not to sound all stalkerish or anything, but I like you πŸ™‚ thanks for your blog!

Michelle B - What an amazing trip! I am going to Chicago in October – but for work but staying downtown. Maybe I can talk DH to come with me so we can have fun too. And as I am reading your blog post I am listening to Pandora radio and what came up…U2! How fitting! Happy day! Oh the lady bending over…that kills me. HA!

Sophie - Chicago looks like a wonderful city, I must go some time.
Congratulations to youself and Craig; here’s to fifteen more happy years!

Shana - I like your pictures better than mine.
Is Bono wearing a clown hat in that close up?! I don’t remember seeing that.
Hmmmm….
Nice shots.

Wendy - Looks like an amazing time with your love. Congratulations on your 15 years! πŸ˜€ I second the “icky-poo” comment about that poor unfortunate soul who needs a longer skirt.

jody - great u2 pics!
happy anniversary! we celebrated our 15th in chi-town in july–we met there, what a great city.
yes, glad she had undies on!

Christa - Oh Man! We are going to the U2 concert on Sept 29th! This makes me so excited!

Lauren - Happy Anniversary! My hubby and I have been dying to go to Chicago forever! Maybe one day we’ll actually make the trip from Georgia to the windy city! You’ll have to tell me all the “must-see” places and of course some places for the best food!

Kathy T - Happy Anniversary. We moved from Chicago to NJ 3 years ago. When I go home, it’s for the food. Portillos, Potbelly’s, etc. Oh, how I miss it! Hope you had a great time.

Jodi - You are officially my favorite blogger E.V.E.R!
Happy Anniversary!
Awesome pictures, I’m excited because it looks like your seats are about where our seats are in Foxboro and Giants stadium. It looks like you had an amazing view! 4 more sleeps for us! I am sooooooooooooo excited! Are you on U2.com or Interference?

kasey - yes…that U2 concert was fabulous {we went sat night}.
glad you had fun.

Staci - HOW great!!!! Happy 15 Years!!! We just celebrated our 12th…Brian whisked me away on a surprise getaway!!! I know to some…they would be disappointed, but not me…he took me to an AGA cooking school in North Carolina!!! We cooked for 3 solid days….and I loved every.minute.of.it! I loved learning something new together πŸ™‚ But Chicago would’ve been grand too!!!!!!! We are going to the U2 concert in October in OK!!! I can’t wait after seeing all those great pics of your’s!!! And all I can say about that underwear lady is…YIKES!!!!!!

jennifer - Happy Anniversary! So glad you got to get away. It’s a must! Looks like it was an amazing weekend.
LOVE Maggiano’s! My sister used to live in Chicago and I miss being able to go visit her there.
Thanks for sharing the pic of the lady and her junk. HA.LARIOUS!!!

adrienneK - what awesome pictures!!!you look great! so much neat stuff…and uh that woman is yucky lol

Flower Patch Farmgirl - Chicago! I love it. I’m so lucky to live (relatively) near. Happy Anniversary to you. Does this mean that in 5 years Cory and I get to take a fun trip? We had late-night Papa Johns this year for the big 1-0. πŸ™‚

Jocelyn Stott - WOW – GREAT photos and it looks like it was a wonderful trip. Chicago has such great architecture. Happy Anniversary!

Wendy robinson - Yummm Portillos!

Angela - Wow!! What a great post! My mom was born near Chicago, and even though she doesn’t get to go that often, she loves it. I hope to get to go with her one day. Without kids. LOL
Your picture of the lady at the fountain was like a train wreck!!!

Kristin - Oh So Fun. I live in the Suburbs and just love our day trips to the city. I am glad you enjoyed your trip. The renegade craft fair was in town this weekend and we went in for that. It was great.

Toni :O) - I heart Chicago so much! Awesome town and I’m SO jealous you got to see U2. One of my best gal pals is seeing them in California next month…I think at the Rose Bowl if I’m not mistaken. Looks like you guys had tons of fun and that is so great. Happy 15 years. My hubby and I celebrated 16 in May…awesome to find the love of your life isn’t it? Thanks for sharing your wonderful trip and that lady…blech…sometimes, I wonder what people are thinking…my goodness!

Leslie - Congratulations on 15 years!!!!
Woooohoooo – vacay with no kids…
jealous you got to see U2!
OMG, what was she thinking? Yikes Stripes!!!!!!!!
My retina’s have been scarred for the day.
And, I gotta know, what kind of lens do you use?
Thanks for sharing!
As always look forward to your blog every day!

Beth Ann - We were in Chicago this weekend also for the U2 concert. It was amazing. I love Chicago!! I see there are still tickets available for the OKC show they are doing Oct. 18th. I am trying really really hard to talk my husband into buying tickets. I’m not sure it’ll happen though!

mclare1982@aol.com - Oww, so much fun. I am totally jealous of your trip and can’t wait to go to Chicago someday-yeah, I know…sheltered.
My office heard me laughing out loud when I saw the picture of that lady!
Happy Anniversary! Ours was yesterday, although we are about 13 years behind you.

Tracy - LOVE LOVE LOVE the pictures and storyline, Meg – glad you and Craig had a great time! My husband is originally from Chicago and we are HUGE Chicago Cubs fans but that U2 concert looked like “the bomb” – HA! Happy 15 year anniversary – the hubster and I will be married 12 years this October but we just returned from celebrating our 10 year anniversary in Europe (2 years late) last week. If you have time to check out my blog – I have the first 2 days of pictures up. Have a great day! Hugs, Trac~ :o)

Sarah - WoW MoM! <--- I regards to the lady showing her goodies. WOW. I love the bean. And all your fantastic pictures. Looks like a great trip!!

aubrey - I so hope Underwear Lady reads blogs. So disgusting. Think she’s the same lady that turned a pair of men’s briefs into a sports bra? (Did you ever see that email floating around?)
Chicago looks fun–I’ve never been there and wouldn’t know what to do or where to go, so I’ll have to reference your blogposts about it if we ever do. πŸ™‚

Sara @ Queen of the House - That looks so fun!! Especially the U2 concert and Zero kids!!
I want to thank you for that picture of that lady…just made my morning. πŸ˜‰

Julia - first time I’ve recoiled in horror whilst reading your blog – eew!
That stage U2 was on was amazing – do you think they take it with the where ever they go?

Kathy - Happy Anniversary! What great pictures been to Chicago once and I don’t think I saw anything on your blog starting to wonder where the heck I was!!! Concert looked like a blast. What a wonderful celebration!

Sarah - It looks like you had a great time! Congrats – fifteen years is definitely something major in today’s society. I blew up that picture like you said and you’re right, it is unreal!

Kerri Wood Thomson - Awesome U2 photos. I was thinking about selling my tickets to see them in Norman–but you’ve changed my mind.

Jeannine - Happy Anniversary!
You two are adorable together =)
I just had to leave a comment to tell you how much I love your blog.
Thank you for letting us into your life!
You have to be one of the most amazing women ever.

Keri ~ ForeverFoldingLaundry - What a great weekend! Glad you had fun. Isn’t it nice to still like your husband after all those years?! πŸ™‚

Georgia - Awww looks like you had a fab time away!
Pics are lovely as usual xxx Oh and HaPPY Anniversary! πŸ™‚

callie grayson - happy anniversary! welcome to chicago such glorious weather we have been having this last week!!
I was at Ikea too on Saturday!!! (schaumberg, ikea were you at that one??) with my mum. we also had to go to bollingbrook, the other ikea didn’t have what I needed so I went to both!
that photo of that women, hilarious!!
U2 looked awesome, they always have the best set design.
xx
callie

carissa... brown eyed fox - OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!!! ya KNOW what i am referring too! mouth open! bless her heart Lord!
so that’s where you were! too fun!
AND what a celebration…
hAppY AnnIveRsArY…
15 years is very special!
what a time!
what great memories for your heart!
thanks for sharing ll your fun with us!

Hannah - It looks like you guys had SO much fun!!! U2 definitely rocks my face off. πŸ˜€
My Mom and I just went to Chicago last weekend! We didn’t stay as long as you guys, but it was tons of fun. The buildings are so big and beautiful!!
I love the pictures you took too, you captured the fun of the city! Except that lady…just..no. Unacceptable!
Have a super day!
-Hannah

bopha - so, the lady, can that be for real, with the mismatched tube socks and all!

Anna Marie - Yes! That looked like an awesome time! and YES! I need to go get something done…garage sale this weekend…aaahhh
p.s. That lady….icky-poo!

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