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moving on from that ad for Chlorox….
so…you know how you miss your window of telling someone something if you wait too long?
like if they have spinach in their teeth and you don't say anything for the whole meal and you say something as you get in your car to leave?
or you find out you are pregnant and don't tell your friends and then you dont see them again until you are obviously showing and it's weird like "umm…hey….i forgot to tell you i'm pregnant" "When are you due?" "um….next month." (i have had that happen)
there is a window to share big news before things become awkward.
i missed that window.
so….in the spirit of all this awkwardness….
we are moving.
this weekend.
i know. i know.
craig and i have been talking about it for a year.
our kids are in school in another town (except lauren who is finishing her high school here)
and we have wanted to be in that town all year for lots of reasons…especially for the kids!
we looked at houses, we looked at building, we talked about every option and then
we found a house to rent.
it is the perfect solution until we know what we really want long term.
it is two minutes from school. TWO!! (which is nice considering we overslept today and missed the bus!)
it's adorable….it really is.
and it's in the country!
with a barn!
with a basketball goal….it's so HOOSIERS.
we have been moving carloads there for over a week.
we move officially this weekend.
BUT we are also keeping our current house too.
we will still come here for when our family visits.
when our friends come for a week and we can all stay in one place.
for holidays.
for craft weekends.
for special family nights.
and i will be able to come here and sew and sew and sew.
keeping this house opens up ALL kinds of new and FUN possibilities!
i am still processing all of it emotionally.
it's a little bit crazy to do but it's also a little bit awesome.
we are confident in this decision.
four of the five kids are happy and pumped up about it.
we are excited about a big change.
we are looking forward to see what GOD brings before us in this adventure.
there are so many wonderful memories to be made here.
i can't wait.
bring on the country.
so…..what do you think?
Suzanne - My family made the big move to the country 5 years ago, the best decision we ever made!
Best wishes to a wonderful adventure…keep us posted!
Monofoil - That house is a dream! It’s a very beautiful place. You’re very lucky to have two houses, for sure. Enjoy!
Karen - I moved from the city to the country at the age of 21. I missed some things at first, but the quiet intelligence, humility and wisdom that country folks possess never ceases to impress me, as you get to know them! If there were even a major disaster of some kind (God forbid) I’d hitch my wagon to them just for survival! There are exceptions to every rule, of course, but for basic wisdom on the ways of the world, they can’t be beat. I think it’s completely wonderful that you have made a move “for your kids” as you wrote, and I hope God blesses your efforts. You will do fine out in the country, providing you realize the country should change you, not the other way around. 🙂 Otherwise you’re doing it wrong. 😉
Lisa Currie-Gurney - OH MY GOOOOODNESS!!!!! I HAVE BEEN BUSY, HAVEN’T HAD A MOMENT TO READ YOUR BLOG UNTIL THIS MORNING. I WOKE UP, THOUGHT TO MYSELF, I WILL GET MY COFFEE, SIT DOWN, AND GET CAUGHT UP ON MEG BEFORE I DO ANYTHING ELSE. YOU’VE MOVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH MEG HOW EXCITING!!! CHANGE. SO NECESSARY TO EMBRACE, (HUG THE LIFE OUT OF), WHEN WE LOVE AND WANT TO SERVE GOD. HE IS A GOD OF CHANGE, AND YOUR FAMILY IS DOING JUST THAT. SO COOL. WHAT BLESSINGS, CHALLENGES, ADVENTURES, ARE COMING YOUR WAY. WHO KNOWS WHAT GOD HAS FOR EACH OF YOU, AND FOR ALL OF YOU AS A WHOLE!!! I KNOW YOU HAVE TO BE IN HIS WILL TO BE “GIVING UP” THAT AMAZING HOUSE, HAS TO BE A GOD THING. (I know your still “keeping it” for now) WHAT A WITNESS TO US ALL MEG… YOU AND YOUR SWEET FAMILY. PLEASE, THANK THEM FOR ME. FOR REMINDING ME THAT CHANGE IS GOOD. CHANGE IS GOD. CAN’T WAIT TO HEAR ALL ABOUT YOUR ADVENTURES. I CAN TELL YOU THAT OUR GROWN CHILDREN ALWAYS TALK ABOUT THEIR GROWING UP YEARS OUT AT OUR “FARM”. YOUR DOING A GOOD THING. GOD BLESS YOU FRIEND! <3
Randi-Dukes and Duchesses - How exciting! My husband and I were just saying that our dream house would have a barn with a basketball court … I can’t believe you got it!! Wishing you much happiness in your new home.
Ashley - I absolutely adore hearing about people chasing their dreams. So so happy for you!
Mary - Is it weird that a piece of me mourned the fact that your family is moving? I don’t even know you or your family, but I’ve followed this blog for so long. I LOVE LOVE LOVE your house and it’s just so family friendly. I’ve picked my jaw up off the floor and I’m SUPER stoked for you and your family. Yeah…I know, I know…my reaction was bizarre-o. 🙂 Happy Moving Weekend!
Wendy - Hmmm … how did you convince your children to change schools & move?
Jenn - YES! FISTPUMP!
The country is amazing.
I live in a house with a barn (with hoop!) and a shop and fields and woods that my kids will grow up playing in… and it is wonderful. Your family will be SO blessed by this move!
And you know what, if you decide it’s just not for you after a year or so… then you still have a great place to move back to, so no worries there! I am excited that you are excited. Hope this weekend is non-stressful and full of fun as you fill the new home with life.
Kelly - I thought you already were in the country being 30 minutes from Tarjay. 🙂 Just kidding!
This is awesome! Absolutely awesome! I am so happy for you! Thank You God for just wildly fun blessings and please work in the lives of the Duerksen’s in this new adventure as You have planned. Amen.
When I saw photos of craft weekend and the twin beds in the READ room I thought to myself “now why would she want to mess with that perfectly perfect room even one iota” but if you’re moving anyway it makes a lot more sense (not that it needs to make sense to me, you can of course do whatever you want!)
Happy moving! I am so happy for you!
Oh and that barn equals awesome, awesome! Kelly
DanaD@BoysMyJoys - What a wonderful, wonderful opportunity for you and your family! I’m begging to move to the country, but we just haven’t found the right spot yet. I can’t wait to see a house tour, and to see how your cheerful decorating will impact your new space!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
Sandy - WOW! I had no idea! Of course not…how would I?! 🙂 The biggest thing to me is you (all) are happy and the 2nd biggest thing is that you are keeping your “old” house! You’ve done so much work to it and it’s SO gorgeous! I can’t imagine you not living there, but I know your next place will be even more amazing. Aside from crafts, family visits, etc maybe you’ll consider renting it out to those of us that would LOVE to vacation in it?! 🙂
Michelle - I’m so confused! I hope you’ll give us a little more of a fill in as you get settled into the new house. Lots of luck Meg.
Jenn - WOW!!! Totally not where I thought you were going with that! I am so blown away. Love your example – and so true. I have had house envy ever since I started following your blog, so I am feeling sad to not be able to check out all the cool details in the background of your pics – even though it is exciting to think about you making a mark on a new house, with new inspiration – even though it’s a rental, you seem like a person who would nest anyhow. Your family is beautiful. Love the old house. Hope the transition is super great for all of you, even the 1 hold out…
Jessie - Is it bad that I felt utterly disappointed when I thought I had missed out on a chance to buy your house?! I got over it when I read that you were keeping it though, lol 🙂 Do I smell a B&B in your future? If so, where do I make a reservation?! Best of luck wih the move, and I can’t wait to see what you do with your new digs!
crystal beutler - Super excited for your new adventure!!!!!!!! Good luck with all the moving. My least favorite thing ever. Lucky you have lots of hands to help.
Can’t wait to see it all fixed up. Wish you lived near me because I’m having a garage sale and you could probably use some of my stuff for your old house!!
any jupin - i am in love with that barn!
Lilian - Wow. Must be nice to afford 2 houses. Sure am jealous.
Whitney - Whoa. At first I wanted to check the calendar to make sure I didn’t miss March and this was an April Fool’s joke. Nope, it’s still March 1st. Then I thought, “Why on earth would she want to move from her amazing house?? Hmmm… maybe instead of moving home to Maine in 2 months I can rent her house?” It’s going to be so different to see you in a different location… I feel as if I have been to your house, when clearly I haven’t. Hope your move is easy, stress free (ha, like moving is ever either one)… and can’t wait to see what adventures the new house holds. (I feel less sad knowing I will still get to see your other house still- crazy that I feel sad when I have never met you!) Enjoy!
Melissa l - Okay, you have to tell us more about your move. More on why, more pics, everything. Best of luck and can’t wait to find out more!
amanda - Oh, exciting! Hoping your transition is a smooth one (and that your one of five comes around soon 😉
Janelle - Dude – if you ever sell your house, you should put in on eBay, I can’t imagine what we would all bid for it!
elma - Oh the best of luck in moving!! Can’t wait to see pictures!!!!
Melissa - Wow!!! I hope your family is super happy in your new place. My husband and I have been AGONIZING over the decision to move to a bigger house to fit 4 (maybe 5?) kids in. BUT, I have put so much TLC into my current house that I’m heartbroken even thinking about leaving my orange dining room and teal-painted kitchen cupboards. Thanks for your post!
Kristin Hayne - I think it is AWESOME…. change is good….more convenient for your family and look at that AWESOME property!! SOOOO YOU!!! Glad to hear you are keeping your old home. That would be the best of both worlds for me. It is a win win situation. Good luck in your new adventure…. can’t wait to see what yuo do with the new residence…. and glad to hear you are content with the decision… THAT to me is the hardest part… finding the peace with sucha big change!! YEAH! Good luck!
angie - First, I love how excited the commenters are for Waffle! Lol! Your readers are awesome.
I too was sad and shocked to hear that you are moving from that grand house. I am so glad you are keeping it 🙂 I can’t wait to see what life has in store for you and your family! Country life is so appealing to me. Enjoy!!
Jacci - ha ha ha… these comments have been so funny to read! i’ve read ALL of them. I’m thinking, Megan, if you posted another post of absolutely nothing just so all your readers could talk back and forth about your move, we’d all come comment! We’re shocked. And cracking up at you springing it on us. And excited. And confused. And feeling silly for caring so much, but if ever there were a post to show us all just how much we CARE about you, your family, your house, your blog – this is IT! I already commented, but I came back just to say that **I am praying for yor family as you move this weekend** – for hearts, and attitudes, and details. All that good stuff. Praying.
Vonda - Wow!!! I had to read it a couple of times! I love, love, love your house-but I know you will make this one a beautiful cozy home too! I grew up on 5 acres in the country with a big barn-sooo many wonderful memories! I’m very glad that you are keeping your other house too tho!!!
Deb Meyers - i think? awesome~!!! Country life and a basketball goal…yay for you!!!!
Ashlyn@Pinecone - We moved this summer to Upstate NY and still have our house near Seattle – so that is just a pain in the butt since it is all the way across the country…. But, what your doing is going to be just plain great! I am dying over the pendant lights in that barn – are they gorg or what!
Good luck with everything this weekend!! xo Ashlyn
Valerie @ Chateau A La Mode - I want to live in the country! This will be fun following your journey. Praying all 5 kids will be happy with the move.
Lisa - GREEN! That’s me. WITH ENVY! This is so WONDERFUL!! Congratulations on the new house – it looks amazing – I can hardly wait to see pictures of the inside and of the land you’re on. I’m so happy for you that you are keeping the “city” house – it is such a great house, esp. with the newly renovated bathroom :). Don’t we all wish that we had a space/house for a creative energies to reside and expand and develop? I hope this all works out for you and your family. BTW, I missed that “window” with my pregnancy, too – no one but my family knew I was pregnant until I was in a car wreck and had my baby 10 weeks early and was put on the prayer chain at church. (No, I didn’t look pregnant, even at 29 weeks)Oops. Best wishes for a smooth and “uneventful” move this weekend!
Sarah - Wow, I almost flipped out when I started reading it!!! So happy you get to keep your old house too…it’s too beautiful to leave!!! Love the country too! Enjoy the blessings!!!
Michelle - Wow.
What else can I say.
Okay, congratulations, would be really good and so would
good job at keeping a secret and good job at multi-tasking.
I remember when I first started to read your blog so long ago and was surprised to find that you lived “in town”, because for some reason I pictured your family in this awesome country setting. Now you are there, sort of. Renting is different in a way. However, I’m sure that God has a lot in store for your family and that whatever you do, wherever you go, He will lead the way. Can’t wait to see where this leads.
Enjoy the wonderful bonfires, nights looking at the stars, and if you can, plant a big patch of sunflowers since you are in the country.
Cari - Wow! I’ve been a faithful follower for awhile now, but got out of the habit of commenting because we just moved ourselves — from Arkansas to South Carolina. Moving is exhausting! I hope you find time to rest & savor the moments. What a blessing to be able to keep your home for special occasions! Happy moving!!
gigi - I think I am confused but, “okay.” I’ll follow you. 😉
D. Jean - Wow! What a great idea. Can’t wait to hear more.
Wendy - Wow! Being an ex-military family, we have a bit of experience in “moving”. We moved every 2 years his entire career. We’ve been at this house for almost 5 years now, it seems like forever! Our youngest are already asking when we’ll move again. I’m sorry for your child that’s not happy about it (I have teenagers myself and let me tell you… they were *not* happy about our last move). They’ll get over it, they’ll make new friends… it’s ok. You’re doing the right thing. Good luck with the move (I loved the purging moving always forced me to do) and I can’t wait for pictures of the new house made into your home! 🙂
Seriously Sassy Mama - Hoosier is awesome! A country home! I almost cried when you said you were moving. I was fixing to move to Kansas and buy your home!
Michelle - It looks awesome! Congratulations!
Jenn - You’ll love the country. Your kids will too:) Can’t wait to see what you do with the new house. It’s got a lot of potential! Prayers for you during this busy-crazy time.
Sara - This will be a great thing! So excited for you!
Cheryl E. - WHAT?!?!?!?!? Wow, now there’s a shocker! 🙂
Congratulations!!!! I guess I figured with all that blood, sweat and tears in decorating your “other” home, you would have never moved. Are you able to decorate the rental in the country?
I think it’s a great move for you and your family and I look forward to your new adventures! Happy packing! 🙂
christine karp - i had to stop and think…
is it April 1 today?
is this an april fool’s joke?
i’m still stunned
it’s really amazing!
blessings on your new path!
and good for you in going for it!
i hope it brings much happiness to you and your wonderful family!
Pip - Amazing! Looks likes the perfect place for your lovely family 🙂 love the barn!!
Katherine @ Grass Stains - I’m shocked, but excited about all that this move has in store for you! Sounds like you guys are really (well, almost all of you) excited, and I can’t wait to hear story after story after story about it. I never get bored of hearing your anecdotes, even about the mundane pieces of everyday life. (I have four kids, so it’s all fun to read for me!)
Heidi hentze - Wow Megan,
I was shocked! Good for you, many blessings. It’s hard work to move but worth it. Look forward to seeing your touch of magic applied to your new digs! Love that barn!
Annie Lanka - Yay Meg!!! I hope you guys love living in the country as much as we do! Good luck!!
Karen Gerstenberger - WOW! I am shocked, but happy for you…and thankful that you don’t have to leave the house which I have come to associate with you, the memories of your remodeling and your photojournals of it, all the ways you have put your stamp upon it. I am glad that you will be able to return there for gatherings of family and friends, and most of all, that you & Craig feel peaceful and happy about it.
Carpe diem! God is good. May all of you (even the one who isn’t 100% in favor) find blessing and joy in your new home.
Lisa - Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have to say, I was shocked to read this, I LOVE your house so much and all the time and love you have put into it, it’s hard to think of you and your family NOT living there….BUT, I know that change can be good and I’m sure you will make your new home, wherever that winds up being, a beautiful place too…and we’ll get to watch you do it!
Jenny B. - I just did the whole so-shocked-I-had-to-grab-hold-of-something-for-fear-I-might-faint thing. Whoa! I’m so excited and a little scared (becuase it seems so sudden to me even though I realize it’s so not for you so you shouldn’t be scared) at the same time! Can’t wait to see more of the new place! And how awesome that you get to keep the old one! Wow. That’s all I have to say.
Beth - Welcome!
You will have great weather for a move in March. 🙂
Dee - A house in the country sounds wonderful. And I know you will make it awesome! I drove my kids to and from school for *years* and I can’t tell you the anxiety I felt about making sure they arrived and were picked up on time, ugh. They take the bus now, a lot less stressful.
Julie - I just hope there are a lot of pictures involved once you move in!
Aby - Holy mackrel!! You know how to spring a surprise girl!! This weekend?!? Really?? Seriously???? I can’t keep a secret for more than say…2 days! Okay…1 day….but I digress!! WOW!! You’re good! I am SO happy you’re keeping your fab house!! How wonderful! I’m happy for your new adventure. I’m happy you’re happy. I know you’ve prayed about it and have been lead to your decision. Enough said!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
catie - WOW! Congrats! That’s so awesome!! We just moved from Wichita to the Halstead area (in the country) and we are LOVING it!
And that barn is fab.u.lous!
Jen Allred - I think it’s just so stinkin’ awesome! I will pray for no wind this weekend and lots of peace as your family transitions to country living!
Erin - Congrats! Being a kansas girl myself I love the idea of a city house and a country house. And lucky for us, in Kansas we have areas where it is actually affordable to have both. I think you just got my wheels spinning. Good luck to you!
Suzy - Meg,
That is such great news. And like a few others before me, I have to say I felt like my best friend just told me she was moving TODAY! If you EVER decide to sell your gorgeous house, please, shoot me an email…I would truly move to Kansas (from Chicago) to live there…with my family, of course!
Have fun decorating and getting settled in! I can’t wait to see pictures! I love that basketball barn!
Suzy
Lacy Peters-Brauner - when i first read the post i gsped. I love that house. It isnt mine i know, but id like to think one day id have something very very similar. I didnt realize until reading further and to stop judging, you were keeping the house!!!!!!!!!! I cant wait to see what you do with your new home:] secretly, i wish you wouldnt move, but like you said..new memories to be made:]
Michelle From Australia - OH WOW! I look forward to seeing you made the new house into your home. Even if it is a rental, I’m sure it will be all the more beautiful for being the D family home. I’ll pray that God will send you strength, patience and good weather for moving.
Mindy Harris - aw, megan, the house is so cute and it sounds like you have made a really wise choice for your family!
i would love to live out in the country..we are in the heart of wichita (not in a scuzzy area) and it’s right up to a main thoroughfair and we hear TONS of ambulences, sirens, traffic…i am a noise sensitive person (wish i wasn’t) so the country sounds so appealing!
good luck with the rest of the moving process.
so excited for you!
Tina I - Wow! What an exciting adventure! We recently moved across the country because of my husband’s job and decided to rent until we could figure out exactly what we wanted to buy. I feel like a rental takes a big weight off your shoulders. A home you can enjoy without being stressed:-) My 12 year old is the one (of 5, like yours) who isn’t excited about the move or the new location. While part of me feels for her and how hard it is, the other part of me wants to say, “Buck up. You’ll survive. Do you know that people in this world have REAL problems!?!” Without betraying your daughter’s trust, would love to hear how you handle the upset kid vs. mom/dad know what is best for our family….
Jody - Whoopee!! Country living with all that space AND 2 minutes from school?? How perfect is that?! I love the looks of your rental (the barn!!!!) and Waffle will be able to RUN & chase squirrels all he wants. How exciting!
Enjoy the adventure & embrace the unknown!!
Tanya - Country = dreamy, simple, perfection.
I’m happy for you 🙂
jessica kiehn - You didn’t move just to be closer to school, right? Like, that’s nite the ONLY reason right? How are you going to live in both houses?! I am confused! I say sell the other one and make your new cool country space awesome like you do so well!
How fun for your family. I love the new spot:)
Belinda - The Lattimore Acre - Goodluck with the move. Hope all runs smoothly. We also made to move to the country. Room to breath. Room for the kids to ride motorbikes, have chickens and listen to the birds. Enjoy xo
Lindsay - Wow!!! I can’t believe that! I am so glad you are keeping your other house because it is so dreamy. But who wouldn’t want to live in the country?! I am so happy for y’all!
mollie's mom - How exciting and what a great new place. Loved the old place but I live in Atlanta so all that space is amazing to me and I must be honest – I have barn envy!!!!!
I think you all will do great things with “whatever” comes your way 🙂
Looking forward to some great posts on this new and exciting adventure…
marcie
Dana @ Bungalow'56 - Love new adventures. And best of all, we get to share it with you. Damn I like blogging!
Dana
Sarah - Can you reveal a little bit about what you didn’t like about the schools near you?
Jenna@CallHerHappy - But you just redid your bathroom! 🙂
Many blessings to you on your move. How exciting!
Jenna
callherhappy.com
angela - WOW!!!!!!!! How in the world have you done all those craft weekends and pack boxes and move all at the same time?! SUPERWOMAN! So glad L is getting to finish school where she is now. Cannot wait to see the inside…love it! 71 Toes is moving too!
sharron - oh my goodness you GET to decorate two houses!!! how exciting!!! i am gonna love following your new journey!!
blessings!
Vicki - I’m a little bit jealous. But y’know, we live 5 blocks from my son’s school in a city and it is AWESOME! I’m all about living within proximity. It creates immediate community, saves gas and it’s just danged convenient. Plus, my parents live in the country, so we get the best of both worlds.
Best of luck to you guys on this new HOME! yay!
Gail - Cool! If you need someone to stay in your city house occasionally, I would be happy to come up from Wichita and do that. Just saying..
Yby5 - Holy Cow…is this a a joke?? I’m so surprised…wow, you’re really, really good at keeping a secret 🙂 Very happy for you though and know that no matter where you land you can make it home. you have a knack for bringing your family to life in your space…awesome for you guys and can’t wait to see more of the house. Good luck moving this wknd…have boxes of Krispy Kreme on hand and coffee 🙂
tara pollard pakosta - wow! the country? that’s awesome! I LOVE IT!!!!
tara
ginny - ditto, all of the above. 🙂
Amy - I read this twice too! A shock to all your blog fans it seems, it’s funny how we all feel like we know you 🙂
How exciting and I’m sooo pleased for you getting to keep your current house too.
It’s such a beautiful and unusual character filled home, it seems to mirror the fun of your family 🙂
The move to the country sounds perfect (I think Waffle talked you into it!) and you’ll make another gorgeous home there!
Wishing you all every happiness there and looking forward to reading all about it.
More AWESOME times ahead!
xxx
Ali - Okay that is really cool news! You are all so amazing! 🙂 Neat that you get to try out this option!
Please give us more details! This is exciting!
~ Ali
karen - why is everyone saying they can’t wait what you do with the rental? Are you aloud to renovate it?
I say build! A custom home would be ideal…and i bet your’s would be just awesome.
Rachel B. - YAY! How exciting for you all! I’ve always wanted to live in the country 🙂
Shannon - Wow–very exciting news and I am happy for you! Congrats!
Tina Jacobsen - What the What!! I think it’s totally cool that when you are confident about something you go for it!! Life is to short to sit on the sidelines!! Dream and Dream Big!!
Tina
Andrea - Ok I’m sorta in shock, but extremely relieved your keeping the City house. I can’t wait to see what you do with this new house.
jennie - wow! i can’t wait to see what you do with your rental house. i pretty much love everything about your current house, and have it all pinned for my own “someday” house. my fingers will be crossed for you this weekend. and the 1/5 of your children who still aren’t sure about this whole thing.
Janine - Good luck! You have to do what is best for your family. I hope it all works out. At least you will still have your big house to come back to if you change your mind.
Jennie - What do I think?? I think I moved this past weekend, and I will be saying lots of prayers for you and your family this weekend. 🙂 I hope it all goes wonderfully, and I’m super excited for you and your family. Also can’t wait to journey with you as you decorate this new home!! Congratulations!
Maria - Wow. That is some seriously big news! So happy to hear you are still keeping the other house though…I might cry a little if you left it completely. Ok, maybe not. Or just a little.
We are thinking of moving in the coming years, but would probably keep our house as a rental (It will take a lot for me to leave my kitchen sink and faucet though…I may have to buy duplicates…)
Anyway, congratulations on your new adventure in the country…and on sleeping in a bit more on those rushed school mornings!
Gina f. - Looks awesome but more importantly it sounds like the right big picture decision for your family
Kirsten P - My immediate thought when I read you were moving was….but you just renovated your bathroom and you absolutely love it! I was so sad for you.
But I kept reading and you said you’re still keeping the old house and will be back often for family events, craft weekend and sewing, etc. And you’re much close to school. Okay I wasn’t so sad anymore.
I’m looking to seeing spring photos of the rental house.
Krissy - Congratulations!! Totally feel your pain on moving, but so happy for you! And i LOVE the country. :))) I grew up between Derby and Wichita, so not really country, but country enough to know its amazing!! Cant wait to see more pics of the new house! You will still be in Kansas though, right? There’s no place like home!!! haha sorry corny joke….
Gretchen - Wow!!! We’re walking the same path right now! We’ve been in our “process” since July and I’m just now blogging about it. Yeah, I think I waited a little too long. 😉
Thrilled for this next adventure for the duerksen family!
sara @ it's good to be queen - whoa. all that i want to know is, how the heck do you do everything???? craft weekends and packing and redoing a bathroom? holy moly. and oh sigh…to live in the country. that is awesomesauce.
so excited to read and follow along with your journeys. blessings to you all!!
Sarah - Like lots of others have said, I had to reread this to make sure I didn’t miss something.
Then I felt a little sad. Like I have any say. HA.
I love your other house so much. It’s kinda my dream home… that craft room you have is like a little secret hideaway and I wish for one of those.
But the rental is awesome. I love country and land and a BARN! I see some great photo opportunities in your future. Look forward to hearing/seeing more about this.
Sarah @ Handbags*N*Pigtails - Im a total dork but I found myself (asking myself) whats the date today? Is this an April fool’s joke? Im stunned,literally. I love your current house so much(I think b/c its alot like my own which I just adore). But I have to admit, it’ll be fun to see what you do in the rental. And Im sure Waffle will love the room to run(maybe it’ll take his mind off of hamster stalking?):)
Kerry - Woooaahhh!! I went back and read it 3 times to make sure I read it right! Wowza’s – I just know your new country home will be every bit as awesome as your home now. Enjoy the adventure! xxx
Tiffany - I hate moving. But not if I got to keep two houses, BONUS!!! I wish my 2nd house were on a beach though, aaaaaaaaaaaaah…. The intro was great. Will you start blogging with a country drawl? ha ha, I crack myself up.
tina - We live in the country and wouldn’t have it any other way!!!! Good luck!!!
Erika - The country rocks. Can’t wait to see pictures of the new place!
Kelly - Wow!! Awesome news! I was always the last to know things growing up because they claimed I was the first to go tell!! Good luck at your new place. Loving the indoor basketball barn!
Meredith - I can’t help but imagine how excited Waffle is going to be with all that space to roam. Space is good for everyone’s soul and being close to school simply changes everything about how you start your day doesn’t it? Congrats to you and Craig for making big, brave decisions.
Wish I could send you a big tray of cinnamon rolls to welcome you to your new home. Meredy xo
This Farm Family's Life - Wow! Congratulation and best of luck!
nicole @ deliajude - awesomeness. i think I have a small pang of envy but that is only because I live in the uber overpriced SF bay area and could not fathom 2 houses! God has a great adventure for you and your family.
jodi @ back40life - we live on 9 acres out in the country and absolutely LOVE it! there’s just nothing like it…last night we had a bonfire/campfire and roasted hot dogs and marshmallows…absolutely love it!
enjoy, enjoy!!
Laura Lee - I have never met you in reality and my first emotion when I read that was MAJOR sadness about you not being in your awesome house!!! so weird. And then big relief to hear it will still be yours. lol. I can’t imagine a cooler house than yours. Good luck this weekend! excited to see more 🙂
ingrid - I’m laughing…..cuz even tho I don’t KNOW you, I feel like I KNOW you. And it seems like something you would do. Waffle is going to love it there!
Southern Gal - Wow! You definitely know how to keep a secret. I think I’ll call you next time I’ve got a big secret I need to tell, but need to keep to myself a while! That’s fabulous. I love the barn. And being able to keep both houses is a sweet bonus. Congratulations.
sandee prince - First 71toes announces she is moving yesterday. And then you?!!!! Makes me wanna move too! lol
Kidding on that last one. We just moved into our new house and LOOOOOOOVE.
Congrats on the new house. I really like that barn 🙂 Can’t wait to see all your new transformations!
sue - What !!!. You can’t leave that house. You don’t have to tell us the real reason Why, but i am in shock. I think I can guess though !
Cindy - I LOVE IT!! So excited for you! At first, I was wondering how you were ever going to walk away from that gorgeous house you’re in now…so glad that you don’t have to! Can’t wait to see the beauty you bring to the new one 😉
katey - What are you going to name your old house that is sure to become your “bed and breakfast craft retreat house” new business venture? 🙂 God has big plans for you Meg Duerksen!!!
Ali - WOW WOW WOW!!!!! Congrats!! This sounds like the BEST of both worlds to me!!!!! SOOOOOOOOOO awesome!!
Michelle - Very, very INTERESTING. All I can say is, keep those blog posts coming!
Andrea @ Big Creek Cottage - Wow….I am in shock……or something….I was ready to miss your house (I love your house and I have never been there…how silly is that?)….but your new house sounds great…..so what is not to love. I can’t wait to see it and what you do with it…..Congratulations! Hurry and post some more pictures! (when are you having a barn party????)
elisa - I thought for sure it was going to be kid #6
But moving?? You just want to be like me 🙂
Haha. Can’t wait to follow you on this adventure!!!
Meredith Salmon - That is great news!!! I have to admit I was thinking “how could they leave the other house?”, but you are keeping it. Your house is my dream house and until I read on I was in complete shock. Congrats and you will love it! God bless!!!
amber - Exciting!!! I cannot wait to see you decorate the new place!
Victoria - Wow. What cool news. That barn is awesome and I can’t wait to see what you do with the house.
Juli - What!? What a surprise! The house looks awesome and I love the country. The kids will love it. I’ll be praying for your 1 out of 5 who is not excited about it.
Sunny Haynes - What a wonderful adventure for you and your family! Best of luck in your move this weekend! I know I hate moving but it is always exciting to unpack and start new!
pam - I tried to leave a comment on the jewelry post…but I missed the window! ha! 🙂
I’m so glad you posted pictures of the new place. It’s so lovely! Straight out of a book…or movie. 🙂
Miss you. The move will be so awesome.
Ashley - Whoa! Thank goodness you are keeping your house! I literally said out loud reading the post….”WHAT? You don’t LEAVE THAT HOUSE!!!!! Certainly she won’t sell it!!!???” then I kept reading and chilled out! hhaa. I was also for a moment playing over in my head how I could convince my hubby to pack up and move cross country, Just because the most perfect house in the world is on going to be on the market! hahha. Glad you are keeping your house! and glad for your new adventure! Looking forward to seeing what you do with the new rental to “Meg it up!”:)
Sophie - Wow! congrats! I really wasn’t expecting news like that from the introduction!
It seems like a really charming place and somewhere you will all be happy… I’m going to miss seeing your old house on your blog so much though!
jacqui anderson - OMG! at first i had to go re-read it and check who’s blog I was on!!!! then i was super worried about craft weekend!!! and then i was excited for you 🙂
Dani - WOW! I grew up in the country of Mississippi. Actually, I think the entire state is country… Your kids will love it. There will be so many new adventures for them. I will be sad to not see that beautiful house of yours, but look forward to seeing what you will do with this one!
Rachel J - Whoa! When reading this post I felt like my bff next door was moving far away! Even though we live nowhere near each other in real life. And I’m glad you are keeping your house, it’s too awesome to give up. But no doubt you and Craig and GOD have worked it all out 🙂
Good luck with the move!
Barbara - I’m so happy for you and your family, Meg!! Wishing you lots of happiness and great memories in your new home. May all who enter its doors be blessed!
Barbara
Terrie G - Ok girl…almost had to restart my heart! That is until I read you were keeping the old house!!
So, now…I’m jealous…You don’t just have a craft room…you have a craft HOUSE!! Wonder if my hubba will go for that…hmmmm?!
I’m so excited for you and your family! Some of our best family times were living in the country on the family farm stead for 17 years! My hubba made an awesome basketball goal that was adjustable from like 3 feet to the top of the shed. (yes, we had a shed, not a barn)
And…I love Green Works products! Use them all the time! 🙂
tara - enjoy the adventure!
waffle will be in some sort of layer of dog heaven. 🙂
Susan - Okay! So it appears that we are all in shock! I think it will be awesome and so happy you are keeping your beautiful home! Happy moving!
Samantha Bayer - Awesome! Got to love farms….they give kids so many good memories!
Jackie Barnum - Wow! I never would have guessed that! LOL I was going to say I would love to buy your old house. But gosh darn it you’re keeping it. I don’t blame you. It is my dream house. I don’t think I could talk my hubbby into moving all the way to Kansas anyway. 🙁 Your new house looks just as beautiful!
Tere - I’m in shock.
I’m still processing.
I LOVE your house.
But I LOVE the country.
I’m excited….
Can’t wait to see the changes.
xoxo Tere
Linda - BLogland is a funny thing. You have hundreds of people who follow you. And somehow we feel like we know you!. My first thoughts like many were oh my that house!! Maybe I can convince my husband to relocate to Kansas and buy it! How fortunate you are to be able to keep that beautiful home and still move your family to an area you think will be be better for them. You are truly blessed. What a great opportunity for you and your family. The house you are renting is already cute but I know we will all love it when it has your touches to it. Best of luck moving can be such a stressful thing. And I hope the one child who is upset may soon have their spirits lifted. Again good luck!
Kimberly Dial - Oh my goodness! You must have the most peaceful spirit about you to be able to host 2 CW’s, take care of the hubs & 5 children, blog & move all within such a short period of time. I understand how your oldest girlie feels. My family moved clear across the country the summer before my senior year. It can be very hard but an adventure all the same (be patient with her momma – she can’t help herself 😉
Emily - Waffle will be so happy!
Joy - This is so exciting, and I think that I love that you told us just now instead of talking about it a while. I think I may be a little too spoiled with our society’s “I want it now” concept. Yay for moving! This will be so fun to see how you make this house your home too!
Katy @ Live Laugh Love Craft - Oh my gosh.. I can’t believe you are moving! Your house is so gorgeousssss. Well, if you ever do decide to sell, I bet your house would sell in .2 seconds to one of your blog readers. 😉
My thoughts are, whenever you live, I know you will make it beautiful. And you have made a LOT of memories in your “old” house, but you will surely make a lot in the new house, too. 🙂 A new chapter in the life of the Duerksen’s.. How fun!
Best wishes in your new chapter, Meg. 🙂
PS- You made sure that there is a Sonic by the rental house, right?? 😉
Laura Phelps - I think the best is yet to come…..:-)
Heidi Jo the Artist - Super duper excited for you guys!!! Your kids are going to have so much fun! I grew up on a farm and love the country life and crave to be back there for so many reasons. Not sure where we will end up, but we don’t plan to stay in our house forever either. We are in a questionable place too–to build or buy. I love old houses, but land is so dang expensive and I would want more than just a couple acres (love gardening and animals-which both need some space), so we’ve considered building on my parents’ land, but that can be expensive too. Looking forward to more photos of the place!
tiffany gardner - BLESSINGS to you my fav blog girl on this new adventure. I always used to run from change but I now try to look at it as…wow…God has something new planned for me! You will be in my prayers as you become a country girl! p.s. my kids and I read little house on the prairie books and watch the shows and I secretly want to be a country girl too! xo!
bread and jam - Well, I guess I better call that realtor and tell them I’m not moving down the street from you after all.
Ok, now this is really awkward.
Anessa - Can I move in and take care of your house? I love your house! I am sure you will make the new one just as wonderful. What a surprise to throw at us! Well congrats and can’t wait to see pics.
Brooke in WI - Oh my goodness! I was a little worried at first that you would completely leave that beautiful home. Someday I will get to live in the country again.
Heather S. - Shock. Utter shock. So glad you are keeping your rockin’ old house. It is the complete opposite of mine. Old vs. New, White vs. Colored walls everywhere, multi-level vs. ranch, etc. I love looking at your photos because the space just seems FRESH! I’m excited to see what you do in the new place. Country living. Very cool. Also – my first thought: Why the heck did Meg do all that work on the bathroom just to leave it? But isn’t that typical? Make the house just how you want and then leave it. I’m glad you’ll at least be keeping the house!
Sarah Wolfe - Excited for you and your family. And completely jealous of that barn 🙂
Kerstie Pederson - I think it’s awesome! I think it’s big, bold, and brave! I have been reading your blog for over a year, your home is so much a part of it. So, my jaw did hit the floor!!! BUT, I did have sigh of relief knowing your NOT selling…. pheeew. How fun this will be for your family.
Best of luck…… God is awesome like this….. opportunity! 😉
Tracy Fisher - I love it! It’s fun to do random, out of the ordinary things with just your family. Congrats to you. p.s. my kids would love that barn.
tracy
Lori Bowring Michaud - Wow! How exciting (and terrifying for you)! I hope all those “possibilities” work out for you!
Lori Tacchino - So fun to see where you are moving-it’s just darling! Cant wait to see a tour and how you “doll it up”.
Janelle - So I just logged off, walked around the house, and I just have to tell someone “can you believe Meg is moving.” But I have no one to tell because the kids are at preschool and they have no idea who you are. 🙂
So I’m posting another comment to all your readers to say “CAN YOU BELIEVE MEG IS MOVING!?”
Christine - I had to read this 3x. I was like “what?!?!” I’m sure this is a good choice for your family. I hate packing and moving stuff, so I feel for you. I hope your new adventure is all you hope it to be.
I think I want to see the inside of this house so soon!
Jennifer@beautyinbloom - I think its awesome! Yay for getting to keep your old house! Love the barn too! Hope your move is smooth and easy!
Toni :O) - I too was like oh man, I LOVE their house and then I was like, wow…that’s huge and then I was like, wow again, TWO houses…whoa!!! God bless ya, I don’t know HOW you do those craft weekends and move and run your house (or houses I guess!) and take care of that huge family AND cook?!!! What???!!!! You truly are SUPER WOMAN! I’m excited for everyone, the country house looks fab! I’m sure you’ve made your neighbor Amy sad…sniff, sniff…although now she has an awesome country home to visit you in. Best wishes in making your new home a lovely, snuggly, cozy place of comfort! God bless! :O)
Janelle - WOW. That was my first thought. WOW. My second thought was can I buy her house and move us all to Kansas? Then I read further and saw you were keeping it 😉 I’m a Chicago suburb girl…we’ve always pondered the thought of moving towards the country but I am still addicted to little things like Target. Can’t wait to read about your new house.
BTW thank you so much for your blog. It is the first one…and only one of two…that I have ever read. I know I will probably never meet you but I love hearing about your family/life/activities and it’s fun having you as a pretend friend 🙂
Ashley B. - I love how a lot of us commenters seem to be of the same mind, “How dare you move without consulting us???” as if we’re active members of your life 🙂
As you led up to it, I was thinking “Omg she’s pregnant,”
then, “No wait, Craig can’t have kids anymore since that ‘procedure,'”
then, “Omg what is she about to tell us???”
to, “They CAN’T MOVE!!! What about the pretty and totally renovated, bad-ass house?!?!?”
So, I’m glad to hear you’re keeping the old house. Although, like the rest of the readers, I will need some time to adjust 🙂 I’m glad the majority of the kids are happy about it (and I have a sneaking suspicion of which one isn’t…as I too, ended up moving as a teenager, and wasn’t too nice to my parents as a result). I’ve moved constantly, my entire life (7 times in the last 2 years alone), so I don’t feel like one move should be grounds for catasrophic reactions. Still. It will definitely take some time for this to sink in for me.
Congrats! 🙂
Jennifer S. - This post is like an episode of Parenthood…MORE! I want more. I’m just nosey, though, haha.
It seems perfect! Hope you have an easy move.
Holly - oh wow.. that is awesome…..I think,lol. Congrats!
lynette - Exciting news, can’t wait to see what you do with the new house. I love the idea of being in the country! Glad you are not getting rid of your old house, it is so beautiful! Have a good move this weekend, praying it all goes quickly!
Jennifer - My first thought was “Oh my goodness–you’re leaving that incredible house!” I was glad to see you are keeping it, and I can see how that would be great for your craft weekends, etc. When I saw the other house, I understood the appeal. I love the country! And a barn with a basketball goal? Priceless.
Lori Austin - Wow – you are brave. I don’t handle change well. The house, barn and land look awesome! I agree with the last post – how have you had the energy for all of this???!!!!
Kim - That is big news! Being close to school is a wonderful thing. My kids walk to school – it makes life so much simpler. I hope you enjoy your new adventure. I’m looking forward to seeing what God does!
sarah - I cant imagine how you have done all of that AND had two craft weekends! So fun!
christy - WOW! The hime looks adorable & the space, WOW! What a great place for the kids. Sounds exciting & fun. Glad to hear you are not leaving the other house fully.
jen smith - well i’m a little sad that you are leaving your uber fabulous old house. i seriously am so envious of it. that being said we long for the country too. we long for room to move and breathe and play so i totally get where you’re coming from. cheers to your new home!
Robin - OK, moving is an exciting change, and you’re sure to get loads of comments about it all. Of course, we wonder about all the details, which are none of our business. but it especially makes me want your checkbook if you can afford to keep one house and rent another. best of luck though!
Amanda - WOW! Big big news! At first I was thinking, ‘I have to tell my boyfriend!” and then I realized he would have absolutely no idea what I was talking about. But, WOW!
Kelly - I think I’m completely jealous of the country and barn thing. AND you get to keep your awesome house?!? Very cool!
Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - OHHH!! Awesome! Have a wonderful, wonderful time! 🙂 I’m so happy for you!
Lindsey - In the country, with a barn…very cool! Change is good sometimes!
Naomi - I was hoping you were onto something with the pregnancy thing… haha!
You must be WonderWoman to have hosted those Craft Weekends while packing to move house. I am in awe of you!
My parents moved my family from a big town to the middle of the country when I was 18. I was ‘that’ grumpy teenager that resisted everything all the way, but I am still alive and the move did not kill me! Hope your one resistant kid comes around 🙂 xx
jennifer - Yay! I’m SO excited for you! I love, love, love moving. Not the packing part, but the new, the change, the excitement. I’m very happy for you and I know first hand the blessing of moving closer to the kids school. We did it a little over a year ago and I was amazed at what a relief it was. Can’t wait to see all that God has for you in the new place He’s brought you to.
Angel/TaDa!Creations - Wow, I am in total shock! Picking my jaw up off the floor. I could never leave that house!!! But when you said you were keeping it, I settled back down again. How exciting for your family and this new chapter. Praying God’s many blessings on you and your family in this new home. Love the barn and the country.
Molly - Wow!! That is exciting news!!! Not gonna lie I am excited to see how you transform this new house into your home!!!
asnipofgoodness - first I was like WHAT???? then I was like HUHHHH?? then I was all something about moving?????? hahaha that was kinda awkward, especially cuz we don’t even know each other really, and I’m all indignant like “she can’t just move”, and “what about her cute house” and “she didn’t even tell me!!” haha, I LOVE the new digs though, so you go girl, more power to you!
jackie - Wow! Love the barn, and how awesome to have two places. Can’t wait to hear all about it, and living in the country, GREAT!
Jacci - What do I think?
I think…
I think, you’re going to get a MILLION comments on this!
I think, I kind of freaked at first. I even got up from the computer and muttered something about how you must be joking.
I think, then I got pretty excited for you.
And I can’t wait to see what FUN you all get yourselves into in the country 🙂
I think, I want to see how you decorate a rental 😉
I think, it’s awesome you’re keeping the other house… for now. It gives us all time to adjust. ha ha.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!! THIS IS BIG!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rita - I love this new rental. How much fun this will be. Seems like most people are in transition I am myself. I hope over time you sell the house you own. Someone will want it and you won’t want two homes to upkeep. But that might not be your plan. 🙂 I’m trying to do garage sale, Ebay, sort and use plastic bins to make my life smaller. I’m happy for you. I believe this will be a great move.
stephany - FUN! Can’t wait to see what your future holds…
Congratulations and good luck with the big move!
beth e. - Pick my jaw up from the floor! all i could think was, OH MY, how could she leave the doodled bathroom behind??!!! and your craft room, and, etc…..SO GLAD to hear you get to keep your home, therefore i can hold on to the dream of someday visiting for a craft weekend : ) sending you good energy for a smooth move this weekend!
Kristin - love! i wish we could find something like that – enjoy the country life. 🙂
Brooke - HOW EXCITING!!!!! Your house would be an awesome Bed and Breakfast FYI! I’m excited for your family and the journey out to the country. Kansas Country is so beautiful and quiet! We just moved out to Bel Aire from the College Hill area in Wichita and I feel like i’m out in the country…we can smell cows…so that counts right? 🙂 I love the quiet. it’s so peaceful!
Jennifer - I was about to be crushed…crazy, huh? I don’t really know you. 🙂 I was like, why are you moving from that awesome house!? Still want to know why, but of course its really none of my business. I’m curious as to why 4 of your kids go to school in another town, but again, none of my business. At least your are keeping your awesome house…whew crisis adverted. Can’ wait to see the inside of the new place. Happy moving!
Anna - The house looks great! It will be so fun to watch you transform it into a home! Congratulations and good luck with the move.
Mandy - Wow! Crazy! Not at all what I was expecting. I love the new house….and the old one – so glad you are keeping it! Good luck on the move! Can’t wait to see what design savvy things you do to the new house to make it home!
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Julianne Brimner - Love it and can’t wait to see what you will do with your country home. Also do you need me to move and be the caretaker of your city home. I promise to bake for you when you come back to visit….okay I guess it would be a commute from southern Indiana, but I love that house.
Tricia - What a surprise!
I hope that your move goes well and that you are all very happy in your new home!
Megan - My husband and I have moved 7 times in the last 6 years, so anytime I hear about anyone moving I automatically feel sorry for them, even in the best circumstances. Moving is hard and stressful… but I truly believe it can be a WONDERFUL thing as long as you remind yourself to keep looking forward, not backwards, and really reach out to make new friends. Although if you’re still going to have your old house maybe your new place isn’t too far away that you’d be experiencing new friends, new people, new everything.
GOOD LUCK… I love the house and I can’t wait to see what you do with it. And how fun to have TWO spaces to decorate and make yours.
A Facebook User - WOW what a suprise. How exciting. Good luck with the move. Can’t wait to see what you do with this house. It’s so stinking cute from the outside. My boys would love that basketball goal inside the barn. Awesome.
Megan - Sounds like the best of both worlds, being able to have a country home and a city home! Enjoy the opportunity and have fun with it!
Barbara Smith Wilke - congrats! when I was in highschool, my family moved into a 22 acre property of woods… on a river! it was so awesome and my friends and I made so many memories I’ll never forget. good luck moving this weekend! 🙂
Anna Marie - I had to re-read some of that.
At first I was like…
“Wow, I am surprised they want to move out of that awesome house.”
And then I was like…
“I want to buy that house.”
Then I was like…”Oh, how awesome, what a neat idea!”
Haha…
I can’t wait to see what your future holds. And I am so jealous of the country and barn! Yay for you, Meg!!!
Amanda Jo - How exciting!!! I cannot wait to see what you do with the place and how your family settles in!!
Courtney - Wow! That’s crazy! It sounds wonderful to be out in the country like that. So happy that you are keeping your beautiful house though! And what a bonus to be able to decorate another space!
kim - I LOVE the barn and Hoosiers (bet I’ve seen it 100 times for the real) I think it will be a great adventure and am so excited for you..from afar..not like some crazy blog stalker…I’ll be going now.