i have been thinking about this for over a week.
i am not usually so wordy…
i don't want to give a sermon…just some encouragement.
the study book Women of the Bible that our group finished in may…
but i just finished now (i skipped some lessons) had an entire chapter on prov.31.
it has been helpful to my struggles.
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Proverbs 31:10-30 (New International Version)
10 A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 "Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
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(the words in color are directly from the book….)
how did you feel when you were first introduced to this Prov. 31 woman…
overwhelmed?
angry that God expected all of this from you?
guilty?
determined to become her?
if you are beaten down by this 'perfect' woman, take heart.
i have good news for you.
She is the IDEAL woman God wants to develop all women to be as they follow Him.
did you catch that?
GOD is the one working the transformation.
'He who began a good work in you, will be perfecting it until the day of Christ Jesus…Phil 1:6'.
Seeing what you can become(by His grace and work) should be a catalyst, not a condemnation.
if you are a perfectionist, an understanding of the truth will set you free from trying to be
or do for Him, so that you will allow Him to make you the woman He wants you to be.
the foundation of all horizontal relationships is the vertical relationship – our relationship
with God gives us the security to be real and vulnerable.
it is walking in God's grace that makes us agents of grace to others.
Even our abilities to grant forgiveness & ask forgiveness is tied to our relationship with God.
we cannot make ourselves into a virtuous woman.
but if we walk with God day after day, yielding our lives to His control,
He will keep making us more like Jesus.
The virtuous woman of proverbs 31 is not a standard or yardstick to measure up to,
but the goal toward which women should be moving.
she is the woman God is developing women to be today as they follow Him.
The first step we can change is not gritting our teeth & trying harder to be the perfect woman.
it is surrender.
the most imp
ortant word in the christian community is not commitment, but surrender.
we can be committed in the flesh, but surrender is admitting what we cannot do in our strength.
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it was just what i needed to hear.
and maybe you did too?
i highly recommend the study book Women of the bible.
it's a lot of homework but i have learned so much…i really enjoyed it and i am ready for book 2 this fall.
Karen Gerstenberger - I love this translation of the Scripture passage – and your card! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family!
Grace - Merry Christmas, Meg! God’s blessings to you and your family in the new year. 🙂
Sandy - One more thought – do I recognize that picture as the one Annie took of mom & dad???
Sandy - As I was scrolling down the page I thought to myself that you have an extra square for another baby, but then I saw your name and date in that square. I guess you really are done having kids. lol You are a terrific mother & father and your children are as blessed to have you both as you are to have them. Merry Christmas to the Duerksen’s; I hope it was great and can’t wait to hear about it and see pictures.
angela - Love the card!!!! What a great family!
CLOE - AMEN SISTER IN CHRIST ….. FROM THE NORTHEAST
Michele - Merry Christmas!
Tammy - Hope you had a blessed Christmas with your beautiful family!
danielle - merry christmas, you beautiful family, you!!
our hope has come! glory to the newborn King!
jackie chappell - amen !!! from florida
Jenn A. - Merry Christmas to your family, too!
Lisa - Hope you have a white Christmas in Kansas like we do in Illinois
Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - Hope you are having a great day with the fam Meg. Lots of love:) Merry Christmas!!!
kat - You card is beautiful! Merry Christmas!
Lorilee - Christmas Blessings to you and your family!
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Julie - Merry Christmas Meg to you and your family!
Jennifer - Merry Christmas to you Megan! Hope you have a special day with minimal meltdowns!
Melanie - Hope you have a great Christmas! Your pictures are gorgeous!
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Susan - Merry Christmas Megan!
~Debra - Merii Kurisumasu from Japan!
Nikki - Merry Christmas!
T Galle - MeRrY ChRiStMaS to you Megan! Have a wonderful day with your family!