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a few answers.

you sure had some great questions!
 
i wrote them all down and i am going to randomly answer some now & some later.
here goes:

1. how much time do you spend on personal appearance?

not much.
most days i don't wear make-up, i "do" my hair every other day or so,
and wear capris and t-shirts nearly everyday.

BUT i DO try to look decent most days by the time my husband gets home.
i pop a piece of gum in my mouth before he walks in for a minty fresh kiss…change OUT of my pajamas
from the night before….or my nasty gym clothes from the morning workout that was 7 hours prior.

he has always been sweet to say that he thinks i am a "natural beauty" (aauuuwwww)
so i don't worry too much about needing makeup.
i feel better about MYSELF though when i am wearing makeup. 
if i only have a little time….i will put on powder and lip gloss….and mascara
sometimes.

2. what kind of friends are your favorite? 

confident women.
strong.
loving.
open.
kind hearted.
compassionate.
honest about their lives.
honest about their hurts and struggles.
accepting of my flaws.
encouraging.

not all friends are like this.
but when you find them…you know.
they are the ones worth keeping.
 
 

3. what is it like to have a teenager?

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scary.

there were many questions about raising a teenager…what is it like?  what's your advice? 
 
how do you talk about sex? what are the rules for clothing? chores? cell phones? etc.

guess what….i have all these same questions!!!
 
i have to be careful because my teenager reads my blog.
(she claims she doesn't because it's a "stupid lame blog" but i am smart enough to know better)
since she reads it i have to chose my words differently than if she didn't.
mothers could understand me 100% while teenagers would get the exact opposite from what i say.

so….i will say that…so far….raising a teenager has been….
challenging.

duh.

but really…there is nothing i could tell you that would prepare you for it.
like childbirth.
it's all talk until YOU are living it.

it's hard.
and possibly wonderful at times.
i am hopeful for many more of those times.
and there WILL BE as we all get used to what it means to be parents of a teen and just to BE a teen.
we are ALL learning as we go here.

i TRUST that God is in control.  
HE will cover over my mistakes in raising my children with HIS Grace.
i am trying my best with God's guidance and that is the best i can do.
i pray for "grace like rain" to come over my parenting…please.

she is learning to drive.
it's quite an experience.


4. where did you get the rainbow shoes?
 
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they are from ———–.

5.  do you have an accent?

not really.
i think i sound "normal".
i sound….like american actors on tv…?  

helpful answer?  doubtful.
kansans don't sound like texans if that is what you meant.
someday i will post a video so you can hear me.
 
6. how do you pronounce your last name?

great question!
duerksen is pronounced DERK-sen.
i don't know why the U is in there….it's a german thing i am guessing.

 
7. what is your favorite George Clooney role?

oh my.
i just got all sweaty thinking about all the george clooney roles that i love.

i loved him on ER.
like really loved him.
when nurse carol left the show and HE showed up at the end…i rewound that tape like ten times!
he is dreamy.

i loved him in Out of Sight….he was steamy.

Up in the Air….because he seemed human.

Oceans Eleven….because he is so good at being handsome.

i could go on and on.
but let's just look at him for awhile….i love the gray hair.
  
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George_Clooney - 3 - Good_Night_and_Good_Luck
  



 
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8.  do you sleep?!!

i am a night owl.
i love to sleep in.
i don't sleep a LOT but i do loooove to sleep.
i go to bed late (midnight or after) every day…unless i am sick.
i always have since i was a kid…my poor mother.


9. how did you meet chicago jen?

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i met jenny at our apartment building in Des Plaines, IL. 
i was 22.  (whoa)
we lived in the same hall with one apartment between us.
she and dave were newlyweds….we had been married two years? i think.
we only had little lauren at the time.

i soon found out that her aunt was MY HIGH SCHOOL SPANISH TEACHER.
for real.
Senora Ens was jenny's aunt.
and that jenny had visited her aunt every easter growing up.
in kansas….from illinois.
Senora Ens lived ON MY BLOCK!!!
so our entire childhood….we were a block apart on easter and never knew.
and i was most likely the worst student Senora Ens ever had.
i spent more time in the hall than the classroom and i got a D-…..so embarrassing.
she was craig's teacher too but he transferred out right away to Weights Class instead.  
ha.

jenny and i went to the same church in glenview.
we started a small group bible study with a few other couples….and the rest is history.
lots and lots of history.

love you chicago jen.
and dave…i love you too.
but i promise not to hug you.

 
10. 
can we see the dining room?       

it's not done yet.
craig has done all the work that he can and we are waiting on me! 
he painted for HOURS.
 

i have curtains to make….furniture to paint…pictures to hang.

i PROMISE i will show you when it's done.
why wouldn't i?!!

 
11. are you a shy, quiet person in real life?

i don't think anyone would ever describe me as quiet.
 
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and i don't think that i am shy.

i get intimidated and nervous sometimes.
but i don't think that i am shy.

i like to talk. (understatement)
and i love making people laugh.
🙂

my personality is Sanguine on those tests you take.

 
12. do you and craig ever fight?

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we are not perfect.
did you think we were?
surely not.
of course we fight…but not often.
 

right now…we have very little to fight about.
we try to talk about issues that may come up.
and to speak kindly to each other and about each other when we are apart…aka: husband bashing.
marriage is hard work that takes upkeep and determination.

seriously……we are having so much fun together! 
i spend a lot of time thinking about what i can do for him and i feel he does the same for me.
for example, i made one of his favorite meals for sunday lunch today and he seemed surprised and happy.
that's love.
and later he sent scott upstairs to me with a plate of dinner while i was working.
kind of like breakfast in bed.
it was so sweet.
 

13.  where can i find…..

the rainbow ribbon…….walmart sewing/craft dept

the red EAT letters…….pottery barn clearance 3 years ago.

the red and white bowl……anthropologie 6 months ago.
 
 
 
 
 
   
cute purses………..elisalou

recipe for rainbow cake……..may 22, 2009

be kind to others print………..the wheatfield. 

where i print my pictures…….scrapbookpictures.com 

14. your husband is hot. 


wait….that wasn't a question.
it is fact.

he is scrumtralescent…i just made up a word on the spot.  :)


15. what do you like most and least about blogging.
 

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i love the community we have here in blogland of mostly happy, kind people.
i love the encouragement you give me and the feeling of accomplishment of having my family's
story recorded….good and bad.

i dislike….the time it takes to download pics on a post.
am i doing it wrong?
surely there is a way you could just drag them across from your files to your post?!
it would save me SO much time if you can.

and i dislike people who are mean….leave mean comments…take their time to actually write 
something that would hurt someone else.  
least favorite for sure.
     

 
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i think that that is ENOUGH about me for today!!!

that was probably too much actually.
hope you aren't asleep by now.

eds - I LOVE your question/answer posts! LOVE! I’m sure it will come as no surprise that I love your pictures (they are SO great!), but I also really, really love your words. I am so happy your blog exists!

Blue-eyed Blonde - You know why you like Clooney? He looks like your handsome husband–they could be brothers, perhaps.

Christine Brown - Meg! OMG! First time to your blog and I’m feeling like you and I are from the exact same planet! I posted earlier about your gorg-e-o-s Premier Jewelry…*I* am a Jewelry Lady. And now I noticed your print at scrapbookpictures.com…now that is a place where only SERIOUS scrapbookers print their pictures…am I right?! *I* am a serious scrapbooker…had lots of stuff published in CK, Scrapbooks Etc, Memory Makers, etc…I feel like I NEED to meet you! Unfortunately…I live in WI…but I sure would… LOVE to meet you! God bless you and your family! 🙂 Christine

Heather - Scrumtralescent! Will Ferrell on SNL! LOVE IT!
Great post. 🙂

Kristin S - Might be my fave post ever. I wish we were real-life friends. 🙂
(is that too stalker-ish?)

www.Kellyloves.wordpress.com - i love reading about your personal stuff — gives us more of an insight into you …
I have a post similar – check it: http://kellyloves.wordpress.com/2010/04/30/10-random-things-about-me/
okay- actually, here’s another one: http://kellyloves.wordpress.com/2010/06/18/10-more-random-things-about-me-…/

Kacey - So much fun! I loved reading your answers. You never fail to make me smile.

Kristy - I’m a night owl too…just can’t break it. I LOVE your blog, it’s the only one I read every day. My kids will see me perusing your blog and say, “is that the lady whose blog you like?”. You always put a smile on my face. Thanks for being so honest. You are lovely!

kat - Love it! The “your husband is hot” question/statement really made me laugh. Only because I am sure so many of us also think he’s hot and someone actually had the guts to say it. Thanks for being you and always making us laugh.

karen - haha! I love it! I totally want to see a video of you!! Do it!
If there was a movie about you and yours..I would totally watch! George Clooney would of course play Craig!!

Aljolynn - Thanks for my daily George Clooney fix. I heart that handsome face!

Liz - Wow…I found you when I began praying for Cora Mac. I do not know how I came to “know” Jody Landers…but then you went to Africa with her!
Carol Hathaway and Doug and the Don Henley song? Loved it.
Thank you for your blog. I love my life, but want your house. And Waffle. I heart Waffle.

anna - oh, how i love me some george… *sigh*

candace - great post – thoroughly enjoyed it!

Leslie - Thanks for the reminder of the hotness of George Clooney during his ER days!! It makes me laugh to go back and see him during his Facts of Life Days!!

Shelley Paden - Your comment about mean people leaving mean comments…the only nid-bit-o thoughts I have on that is..mean people suck. Deep thought right?

Sarah - Awesome post…love how “real” you are!!!

Jess Mead - I love your honesty! I am so NOT looking forward to teenagers!!!

Lisa - Thank you for sharing about your relationship with your hubby! I have 4 young kids and honestly they need so much that my husband (who I adore and love) gets the leftovers. You’ve challenged me to try and purposely do “special” things for him more! 🙂

rebecca - i loved this post. this makes me sound internet creepy (whatev.)…but i love when bloggers post personal stuff! sometimes i like learning about the person behind the etsy store, or craft, or bathroom remodeling.
i can’t wait til my husband and i get to the place where we don’t fight as much! maybe b/c we’re newlyweds…we have to fight everything out? at least we get to enoy the making up now! 🙂
thanks for sharing!

kelly - ps…love your Happy Things….so many great things you find & share…Thanks Kelly (again) NYC:)

kelly - hey Meg!! don’t know if someone asked this already… where did you get the idea for the bathroom with the kids drawings? LOVE IT!!! can you show an update of it?
I’m raising 4 teenage GIRLS!! 18,16& two 13’s. like you said each day is a learning day and ask everyday for God’s Grace!!! thanks for sharing your story…Kelly, NYC:)

Leah - Hi Meg! I highly recommend Windows Live Writer. It is free and you can download it here.
http://explore.live.com/windows-live-writer
My blog is a typepad blog (I chose typepad when I started my blog cause I loved your blog so much and decided if it was good enough for your sweet blog it was good enough for mine 😉 Anyhow, my sweet Microsoft husband started me using Live Writer and I have never looked back. I’ve actually never even written a blogpost is typepad. Live Writer is set up to be similar to Word so its super simple and you drag your pictures from your computers picture file straight onto your post. And it even configures(?)your live writer page to look like your blog page so you can easily see how it is going to look once posted on your blog. I really do love it so much! Anyhow, I hope that helps. I think you might use a Mac but I’m hoping it will still let you use Live Writer. I’m not that much of a computer person to know. I’d have to ask my man that type of question.

Jamie - Another question…how did you get started blogging?

Stephanie - i don’t know much about blogging, but i have the picture thing down. i upload my photos to flickr {by clicking on them in iphoto} and then go to flickr -> click on the photo -> all sizes -> and then copy and paste the html code in my blog. viola!
i am a night owl too… blessing and a curse, right?

Ann - Hi – I have a question. Your hubby is pretty hot, my hubby is hot too! But…he passes gas in front of me all the time. I find it annoying and unattractive even though he is hot. Does you hubby do this to you? Does it bother you at all?

Angela - Everytime you do these Q&A’s I love you more!!
As far as having a teen, oh my what can I say? I have a 19 yr old and a almost 15 yr old (plus a 7 yr old). You’re right I’ve prayed my way through most of it. Mine are all boys and we’ve survived our first wreck too! While my husband can lay down and go right to sleep I lay awake and worry about everything that “could” happen, I think that’s why I’m a night owl. Plus it’s the only time my house is peaceful. 😉

Brenda Leentjes - Thank you so much for your blog. I can’t fathom having 5 children and still having a sense of humor. I have a son who is 16 and rolls his eyes and drives me crazy, but also is the best part of life. I always look forward to your posts and your great photography.

j - we’re doing the driving thing here too – I like to warn people who I know are traveling to South Florida.

katie - #7 made me laught out loud. i am calling george clooney right now and telling him that you said you are sweaty because of him. 🙂

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - Meg, you are amazing. I relate to you so much… I have a ‘ten’ager right now and each day is new territory. I will pray for you and grace and me and rain. Amen.

Ruth - oh my… that driving picture is just priceless!!

Deputy's Wife - I burst out laughing of the side-by-side photos of you and your daughter. I needed that! Though, it makes me think of what I will be doing in a few years. Maybe other people will be laughing at me. That’s okay, I love laughter.
Number 11, if I were to answer it would be the same thing. I talk… A LOT… and I love making other people laugh.

Christine Minger - Hello Meg! I kinda new at this comment thing but what the heck here it goes. I have been reading your blog for awhile now and I look forward to reading it all the time. Your blog is wonderful and very colorful and so real and down to earth. In these times it’s so refreshing to read blogs like yours. I love how you share the life of a mom. I too am a mom of three kids and so many times I find myself relating with you right by your side. Your creative heart is so inspiring which lead me to making my own blog.
Your pictures are WONDERFUL! If you want you can check out my blog at http://www.allfreckles.blogspot.com. It’s always fun exchanging blogs through the blog world. Keep up such great post you really are fun to read! Thank you for being so real!

Jaime @ Mamarazzi - Gosh Meg… I came to say what many others already have.
Love the pic of you and Lauren (where she’s driving)…
If this one mean person in particular that I’ve noticed has issues with you/your blog, then why does she stick around, reading and commenting?
I read your blog every day… it’s a must read and it’s fantastic.
I don’t remember what the kansas accent sounds like. The only thing kansas about me is my SSN. =)

Maria - you crack me up…thanks for such a nice Monday post…needed it after the crazy, insane weekend we had.
the ‘hot husband’ non-question is too funny…you all are such a cute little couple.
And that teenager dual picture question…scary…we are getting closer, but not quite there yet…just lots of attitude so far…fun times.
have a great week!

sarah - I love the way you talk about Craig… and your relationship with him.
And I agree you are not shy, but very kind and personable, super friendly 🙂

mkpoggie - I liked how you answered the accent question. Don’t people know that Kansas is where broadcasters have come to learn to make their voices sound neutral?? It’s true. Plays/Movies/TV Shows with Kansan characters train the actors to speak like they’re from Tennessee.
Drives me bananas.
So preach on, Sister.

Janet Biernacki - My mom always said your kids need you when they are teens almost more than when they are toddlers. After raising 3 teens, I have to agree. Art Linkletter said “teenager is not a disease” and Dr.Dobson mentioned ” just get them through it”.
Hang in there all you parents of teens. It goes WAY too fast, enjoy them and hang on for the ride.
Your posts are enjoyable Meg. I ck often too, and appreciate it more b/c I live in southwest KS. It’s a great state.

CarrieBeth - so fun reading all of those! your life is incredibly inspiring to me. i will be getting married in a little less than 3 months (woo hoo!!!!) and i long for our marriage and future family to be an example to other like yours is!! thank you for writing!

tara pollard pakosta - my daughter stays up til midnight every night!
so annoying LOL! I never get a break, so I know how your mom feels! are any of your kids night owls?!
LOVE your posts! look forward to them!
you really are a very amazing person!
tara

Mrs.B@salaknlemonlade.blogspot.com/ - Thanks! Good stuff…I wasn’t bored & I’m not asleep! 😉 The one about teenagers made my laugh & cry! ~duh! 🙂 May God Bless all of us parents of teenagers!

Stephanie - I use Windows Live Writer- I can upload all of my pictures at once. Maybe that helps?

Sara - Hey Meg, I read your blog every day, and I rarely comment, but I had to comment about that pic of you and your oldest daughter. Those photos made me laugh so hard! They are hilarious! You need to save them and make a page for her in an album.

Staci - I just love you Meg!!!! And I especially love the pic of you in the car while Lauren is driving!!!!! HILarious!!!!! Thanks for sharing with us 🙂

jennibell - Thanks! Lots of fun to learn more about you 🙂

Bec - I’ve only had one really snide comment and it was actually left on a guest post written by someone else, but it made me mad none the less. If you don’t like it, don’t read it 😉

jeanne - First of all…your husband IS hot…I am just glad that someone else said it first. Just in case I am ever driving through Kansas and you become a little protective of your spouse. Secondly, that photo of you on the ground is HILARIOUS!!! Third, thanks for all the George Clooney photos. REALLY. We could all use more George Clooney love.

Sandy - Thanks for all of that! I love the look on your face with Lauren driving…makes me laugh every time I go back and look at it. I have a picture of my son, Seth driving for the first time. Good (and scary) memories.

Dana D@BoysMyJoys - I just can’t imagine how anyone could have mean things to say to you- or about the things you post! It reminds me of a common bumper sticker in the hippie-chick college town where I grew up- “Mean People Suck”. It always made me chuckle when I saw cars with them! 🙂 Anyway, keep chugging along! You’re great at what you do! 🙂

Juli - HA! I am laughing at the “Your Husband is Hot” comment! He completely is, even more so than George Clooney.
My husband is too and now I am going to start calling him “scrumtralescent”!
I have to wonder, because of your blog, how many woman have been begging their husbands to move them to Kansas (no, not for a sneak peek at your hotty!)
Headline: “Meg Deurksen Solely Responsible for Largest Mass Influx to Kansas in the History of the Country.”
I am Southern Belle at heart but if I could buy a charming home like yours, have neighbors like yours with block parties, quaint antique shops, good schools you can walk to, precious preschools with “grandparents”…you’re living in Mayberry, girl! I’d move tomorrow!

merlin - teen driving….I can’t do it, that’s my husband’s job. For me this is my greatest personal parenting challenge, my fear completely overwhelms me when the teen is behind the wheel (and he is a really great kid)and I am the co-pilot(it truly is my issue). No, I will be doing the driving until I am no longer legally allowed. I admire you for many reasons, but right now most of all for your courage and faith in letting your teen drive while you are in the car.

amy jupin - love it. all of it. especially the hilarious/perfect pictures and honest answers. and i still say if we lived closer, we could easily be bffs. like totally. 🙂

Suzanne - you make me smile Meg!

Charlene@Adventures-In-Mommy-Land - Love the answers – especially the teenager one….as a mother of teens myself (I have 6 kids from 5 to 17), there really isn’t any other way to describe it. It is more scary than words can say. It is more difficult than people think and anyone who thinks it looks easy, doesn’t get the whole story. It is just like you said….like childbirth – you just can’t put it into words, you just have to live it or go through it. It is extremely challenging.
I also loved that you shared the other day about your fruit flies. I have them too and I thought man, my kitchen must just be disgusting LOL, but then you posted and I thought – great, I’m glad I’m not the only one LOL!

Stacia - Aahhh! You answered my question! I told my husband it made me feel a little bit famous – even though that doesn’t make sense:) Loved the entire post; thank you!

Amy Lynne - Thank you! You’re awesome!

chris - Are you freakin kidding me Lauren is learning how to drive that is crazy , how old do you have to be to drive in Kansas , mine won’t be driving until at least 16 or 17 and I think that is way too young , scary , good luck

Krista - I love your Q&A posts! Waiting for more!!

pam - When I went to Europe with some NYC kids they thought those of us from Kansas had a southern drawl….NEVER understood that. As for teenagers…pick your battles and ride the wave….they are AMAZING people in the making…they just haven’t figured out that they are amazing. This sanguine loves to pop in here and find the happy so many days…so full of life. I’m in awe that you sleep so little with such a full house of active kids. Oh and we have told our girls since they were REALLY little that we’re just giving them topics for future therapy sessions…it’s what we parents do.

Heather R. - A smile on a Monday morning. You did that for me. 🙂 Cheers, (coffee mugs) ‘clink’!

Emily - Love all your answers! About the pictures on the blog, you have a mac, right? There is something called Blogo that you can download and it seems pretty easy. I just got a mac last week and I’m still figuring everything out. Just from playing around on it, it seems like you can just drag pictures over from iPhoto into the post.

Holly S - I loved all of the photos!!!

AshleyAnn - That was fun to read, I am looking forward to the rest. Sanguine…I am the opposite. I score the LOWEST on sanguine every time…

Sally Mangham - Hi Meg,
It’s always great to see your Q & A! Last night I was reading http://www.theidearoom.net/2010/07/okay.html and she was speaking about how people leave RUDE/MEAN comments so she adddress it which I admire I and I think is pretty smart of her. I have to say it surprises me and makes me sad becaues you are honest and open and you are willing to give a snap shot into your world and for that I am grateful!!!! I learn so much in blogland i.e. organizational & parenting tips, sewing, photography, recipes, etc. Doesn’t anyone abide by the “If you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything at all” Didn’t their parents teach them this?
Again, thanks for keeping it real like Shawni http://71toes.blogspot.com/2010/07/thing-about-blogs.html
Hugs, Sally

Tara - you are so very REAL. I can’t say enough how refreshing it is.

Jill - You are too awesome. Every answer seemed to be perfectly you. This is why we all come back for more of your blog! I am always in love with your house, but I am also secretly loving that your dining room isn’t done yet. It makes you normal! 🙂 I’ll just have to be patient to see the “after” pictures. Thank you for always putting yourself out there for us.

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - That picture of you and Lauren…hysterical! You crack me up. I loved learning more. Thanks for being real.

katie - you ARE a natural beauty!!! loved this post!!!

Suzette - Is it too late for a question? I would love to know what blogs you read every day. I read yours EVERY day for about a year now. I truly enjoy it. Thanks for sharing. I adored the George Clooney part and the teen driving part (I have a 15 year old & 13 year old).

Kimberlee J. - When Carol left and HE came back…with that Don Henley song playing in the background. I bought “I’m taking you home” on iTunes as soon as I could. I wish I could watch that episode today. Sigh, double sigh. I’m off to listen to the song and sigh some more.

Lori - I think Craig is right, that you are a natural beauty…your personality shines right through! I think you were smart not to go into too much detail on teenagers…everyone’s experience is so different, but it boils down to just what you said – challenging, with ups and downs. Thanks for the reminder that God’s grace will cover our parenting. Comforting! Looking forward to more answers….

Lorie - LOVED all your answers. I never miss a day of you. You are so creative and real, and I love to read about your life, because then I know there really ARE people like me out there!

Shann - I wondered if Lauren was learning to drive. My daughter Shelby is as well. It is hard isn’t it?????? My land I can get so freaked out at times while she is driving. This mothering is hard work. And you are right….I also pray that God’s grace covers my parenting like soft gentle rain….especially when I am not-so-gentle. 🙂
Have a lovely day Meg.

Alicia - I loved reading your answers! Bring on more! (Since you haven’t answered mine yet haha!)

Holly - God questions….and answers,lol. I guess I am slacking as a reader because I didnt even know about the dining room! And the teenager thing…Oy! I have 3 girls starting middle school today!

Jessica @ This Blessed Life - What a great post! I’m a relatively new follower but I love the way you write. I’m not sure if it will work with Typepad, but I’ve been using Windows Live Writer for about 4 months now and I absolutely love it. You place the photos *exactly* where you want them. Of course you probably already knew this, but I figured it couldn’t hurt to tell you in case you didn’t. 🙂

LouBoo - Brilliant post – honestly, really enjoyed it. George Clooney – swooooon. Liked your answers – brutally honest as always and that’s what we like about you! Lou x

Sophie - Haha, you seem like exactly my kind of person, Meg (:
I take it Lauren is learning automatic? I’m 17 and I live in London so almost everyone drives stick here. Took me 9 months to learn how to drive and now I’ve passed my test I’m SLOWLY getting better (:

Julie - That was fun to read! 🙂
Can’t wait to see the dining room!

Elma - Loving this post!! Here it is 3:53 am and can’t sleep:( Love your blog!! Can’t wait to read more of your other answers!! Have a great Monday!! Happy August!! Darn time just flies by:(

Blue lilY - Ok #2 had me rolling… Your picture, haaa!

Gemma - A great post : ) Looking forward to reading your other answers!!!
Gemma x

marta codina - fIrts: He excuses for my English evil. Read you for months, every day from Barcelona, Spain. I am charmed with it your familiar anecodotes, your photos, your cushions…
I am 40 years old and I am married with two children Bruno of 10 and mafalda of 6.
looks ALWAYS a happy family as if nobody was getting angry ever and everything was perfect, already I imagine that it is not like that but thank you to give me so many ideas to realize with my family, we also we have now the list of what we want to do this summer and every day li firstly that I do the computer to the enceder your page is ller and to put on the batteries. THANK YOU VERY MUCH AND NOT TIRE!

Daniele Valois - Ha, that was so much fun before bed. and…my husband is totally snoring, so I am going to go sleep with the baby! Night!

Tiffany - What a FUN post!!! You always bring a smile to my face. Thanks for sharing so many fun facts and photos of your life. Have a wonderful day.

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tuesday.

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i still have TONS of michigan pictures to share.
but i wasn't in the mood today.

talby is gone this week visiting my parents.
i miss her.
have i ever mentioned how much she cleans?
she cleans up all the time….seems to love it.
her siblings….do not.
not at all.


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i took sean and annie for their school supplies yesterday.
what a difference to have only two along side me.
it was a REALLY nice day together.

annie got rainbow tennis shoes.
they are THE perfect shoes for my baby girl.

sara jane….loved running into you at target!
 

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i am thinking of going back to no sugar again.
but i am also thinking about making julie's peanut butter fudge today.
or pioneer woman's blueberry crumb cake.
 


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i am so happy that there is a drink i love at starbucks that is under $3.
Venti ice coffee.
yum.
$3 is better than $5.

(my weird logic that i doubt craig agrees with) 
 


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we have XM radio in the surburban.
when i am driving it is almost always on Symphony or Pops.
if lauren is in the car it's on country.
and when i am tired of XM radio it's on christian music.
but my iPod is full of all kinds of music…..lots of everything.

AND we have been listening Micheal Buble radio on pandora….ALL. THE. TIME.
it's got a mix of modern and old.
it's a good one.


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there are 24 days until school starts.
we have 23 things left on our summer list.
hmmmmm……
we had bettter get busy.
 
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so…..do you have any questions for me?
i am feeling talkative.
or lonely?
whichever it is….now is your chance to ask me something you've been dying to know.
like "how did you get that lovely figure i saw in your video?"
answer: birthing 5 babies and lots of hostess cupcakes.

Lisa - Well, I’ve got a few questions for you….
-Where do you shop for your clothes/jewelry?
-Do you have a favorite outfit?
-Would you share what size in clothing you are? (I know very personal, but I think a lot of us would benefit from knowing!)
LOVE your blog by the way!!!

Colleen - Love your blog! I saved your kitchen before and after photos for inspiration for my own remodel. Love the wood floors, dark counter tops and white cabinets. My question is how much did your kitchen remodel cost. A ballpark figure would be fine :-)!

Michelle Whitlow - Love your blog!! I come here every day 🙂 We were actually in MI the same time you were, only at different parts of the state. We were in southern MI visiting family & then went to Mackinac Island for a couple days. So I have a question ~ just wondering where you live. I mean, not your address or anything! But I thought you said Kansas one time maybe? Your street looks like such a family oriented fun place to be…esp after those block party pics you showed. I miss that. I want that again. We’ve been looking into different states we might want to move to. Just wondering if I should look into your neck of the woods!

Debbie S. - I love your blog and am wondering if you have ever had it printed into book form? I write one for our family and am thinking about having a book made for each year that I’ve posted.

midwestmom - My question is where did you stay on your Michigan vacation? My husband would love to go to Michigan. I want to thank you for the margarita recipe too! I’ve made it for my friends and they all love it! I love your blog and read it everyday.

Darcie L. - I love seeing a photo of your nightstand, with books, and just STUFF on it! I just cleaned mine out yesterday – it was full of books and foil (?) and “Your Baby’s First Year” (she’s two now) and even some noodles, journals, a set of coasters and scraps of paper. I thought, “You should clean this out. Your nightstand could look nice and pretty and neat, and not have so much junk in it.” So I cleaned out the drawers and moved all the junk to my bed in order to put it away, then it got moved to the floor, where it still sits.
Anyway, good to see that although you seem to have it all together with your kids and house and photography and family vacations, there are a few places in life that can just be cluttered and it’s okay!

Amy - I love your blog – even though I fear that you are a Jayhawk fan! 🙂 Do you ever visit St. Louis? If you are ever in the area a few girls I know that read this blog would love to meet up with you!

Kori - You crack me up! I think your figure is great, especially for having birthed 5 babies-and if you love Hostess anything, GO FOR IT! Yummy!!!!!!
The big question on my mine is where do you get your hair cut, but it doesn’t really do me any good because I live in SoCal and you do not. Ay any rate, I love your hair and it seems to suit you perfectly!! Kinda funky, kinda classic.
You have a beautiful family…thanks for sharing them with us.

Melanie - I love your picture of all the books by your bedside. I am a book lover too.

donna - hi meg. thanks for your happy posts. they always cheer me up. i love michael buble too! i listen to pandora all the time – i bet you would enjoy joss stone – give it a try 🙂
have a wonderful day (well night for me right now).

candace - whoa…can’t believe i missed this post yesterday.
questions.
1) because your lovely picture sparked this question and i am in a total back to school mood, what is your favorite chilren’s book? why?
2) what advice do you have for first time mothers?

Kristin S - I love that your bedside table looks just like mine. Tower of books and lip balm are crucial.

Kari - I have a question . . . how do you have such a strong faith? I grew up with no religion and my husband grew up in Catholic schools. We have been attending a non-demoninational church here since October and I LOVE it. I am learning so much about the bible.
But since I lived most of my life without praying, and feeling like I was a good person with strong morals, I still find myself questioning so much. I would love to hear your story!

CAROL B - wondering what is your tried & true and one of your favorite Dinner recipes? O and where did you get that beautiful red bowl?? Love your blog…you inspire me to be more of what I am?

Suzanne - Hi Meg,
Love your blog. I talk about you so often my family thought you were another mom at the pool during swim practice. I had to tell them no, I have never actually talked to you face to face – they think I need help! Phewy on them!!!! Anyways, where to you get your hair done and what products do you use. Your hair looks so sassy!!

candice - Ok do you and your hubby ever fight? You seem very in love and I love that! Thanks have fun with the millions of questions you have to answer!

Amy - Hi Meg,
I love your blog and wish I had more time to look through it. I LOVE all the color in your pictures and it amazes me how you can take pics of random things and make them look so amazing.
My question is this: A while back ago, you had mentioned someone who makes awesome purses. Can you post her link again or send it to me if you have time? I need a nice size purse and the ones on there seemed like what I was looking for, but I can’t find it again.
Also, I agree with a lot of other people: Thanks for keeping it real. With 2 kids under 2, I struggle with feeling like not a good mom, and it is just nice to read your blog and see how real you are willing to be with people.

Molly Pearce - Hello Meg! Do you have a quirky habit? I have some that most would think is *crazy*. just wondering!! And what’s your favorite book of the bible, mine is Esther. Have a great day!!
~Molly P

Susan - Can I ask two questions? What camera lens are you using these days? And where did you get the awesome granny square afghan you have in your family room?

Amy - Your blog is my favorite- hands down.
My question is- Does your blog have a search function? If not, could you add it? It is a little hard to find specific posts.
I emailed you a while back about a craft room. Do you remember? You are so cool for emailing back. Love that.
What is your heritage? I am part Italian and you look a lot like my family members.
How much TV do you let your kids watch, especially Annie? I have a 4 year old and it is a constant battle.
Your family is beautiful. You inspire me to be a better mom. And I love that you adore your husband. So cute.

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - I love these random posts that you do. Isn’t it weird to enjoy learning so much about someone you’ve never met?? I like knowing the details. My nightstand looks just like yours. I’m in the middle of 4 books right now. Can’t remember the last time I read any of them. I really need to get back to reading.
Oh and I’ve lightened up on my no sugar thing too. But the problem is I’m seeing it creep in more and more. So I think that the NO part is imperative to me. I’m definitely a sugarholic!
Okay so question for ya. Why did you start blogging and how long ago?? This is a sidenote…I guess I’m feeling chatty today too…when we were driving home from Colorado I spent probably a solid hour reading through your blog. I read through your lists and looked through your recipes…drooled over your stunning home. That’s when you know you have an awesome blog when you can get lost in it. Just wanted to thank you. I read your blog before I ever started my own. YOU are what made me decide to try it for myself.

paige - love your bedside book stack
the love languages…i totally dig trying to figure out how my children are wired & what helps them feel loved the most. i sadly feel as if i fail at it on most given days.
i also have the praying scripture one, isn’t it purple hardback? LOVE to do that. so much power in praying scriptures.
when godly people do ungodly things….is on my list.
michael buble on pandora=bliss

Susan - Ok I will ask a question? I also have 5 kids and am expecting my 6th in less than 2 months. My oldest is 7. Do you Ever feel overwhelmed and you just don’t know where to start or finish? You seem to have it all put together and your kids are always so happy. I NEED to hear you say that you get overwhelmed, PLEASE~! The laundry , the cooking, the grocery shopping, the working, the crafting? Lately I have spent a lot of my time in tears because I just don’t know how I am going to be able to do it with a baby. I try to stay organized but there is a constant tornado of children messing it all up. So, please let me know if I am alone here and perhaps should start signing my kids up for therapy or is there anyone else out there like me?
Susan Wilke from Wisconsin wilkefamilyemail@gmail.com

stacie - I LOVE your blog and feel like I know you. You inspire me daily. I always want to ask you questions. I really wish I could sit and have margaritas with you or coffee 🙂 Anyway, right now I’m curious … what cameras do you use? Do you use your phone as your point + shoot? I’m struggling because I want to keep things simple. I forget my big camera on outings sometimes so my iPhone just has to do … that camera just isn’t as good. I’d love your advice on this issue!

Leonie - Meg I am just happy to read everything you right! you are a woman after my own heart… and I am already in my 35th year and have decided on 35 things before I turn 36 and head/hurtle towards 40!! ewwwwww. thanks for being so honest, I want to know are you coming to visit Australia……???? we are really nice/fun/relaxed etc and I would find the room to squeeze you all in, I am not crazy/stalkerish/or weird…. just a normal mum…. now I am not convinced that saying that makes anyone believe you hahahahah its late and I am tired I have to say ciao before I get silly, take care
Leonie in Aus

Heather - can you show us pictures of some of your favorite parts of your home. i heart your house and your style. 🙂

Jaime @ Mamarazzi - I don’t have a question Meg… just wanted to say great post and wonderful pics.
Can’t wait to see Annie’s shoes!
We are in Arizona and school starts for us on August 9.
I have yet to do ANY shopping.
Wanna do mine?!
=)

Stephanie - I loved the picture of all of the heart shaped rocks! My mom has always made a point to try to find one whenever we travel. I’m driving home from a solo Colorado trip tomorrow with 3 heart shaped rocks I found to surprise her with! Makes me ready to go home. 🙂

Kacey - I still remember the pastel rainbow tennis shoes I got when I was a kid in the 80’s. Oh, how I loved those shoes!
Hmm, a question for you…what’s your favorite photography tip? (sorry, that’s the best I can do. It’s late and my brain isn’t functioning on full power!)

andrea - LOVE.LOVE.LOVE your blog!! I have lots of questions:
anything to do with photography and camera… I have a dslr and need a class on it!
where did you find rainbow ribbon??? we are doing a rainbow party at the end of august and NEED rainbow ribbon.
more specifics for the rainbow cake…
THANKS!

nancy - You seem to be very upbeat. 🙂 Are you shy or quiet in person? Were you ever shy?
Have a good day!

Michelle - Australia - Hi Meg
I’d love to know how your blog came about. When? Why? As well as how. Is that too many questions all at once? Please keep up the posting. I love it!

Melissa - You have obviously lost weight and are really looking fit – are you just running to stay in shape or do you do the gym thing too? I have done the no sugar off and on for the last 9 years – when I start to dream about sweets I go back on:) God love ya for going off it again!
I only keep up with a few blogs, but your photos and “keepin it real” attitude make yours one of my favs – thanks

Kat - Woah Meg, that is a lot of questions for you!! I hope you are feeling chatty 😉
Were you always this popular? :)Lol.
I would love all your best photography tips and info please.
Your blog, your house, your family and you (most of all) always ROCK!!

Danielle H. - Where, oh where, did you get your red EAT letters in your kitchen? I swear if you made them and sold them you would make a fortune!! You rock, sister!

angela - I love your blog! I don’t know quite how I stumbled on to it, but it is awesome. I check daily for updates – you are very inspiring and I know I’d want to be friends in real life with you.
I have a thing about wedding rings. Not in a materialistic way – but more a story behind the jewel or band. Is there a story with yours? Would you show a pic?
Thanks again for blogging!

melissa * 320 sycamore - Meg~you’re beautiful because you love life, plus I think you have GORGEOUS coloring that my pasty white skin would kill for. My question: do you take time each day for prayer/scripture/spiritual time, how do you make time to feed your spirit and relationship with God with 5 kids?
Love,
Melissa

ann wegman - I just found your blog and I must say….I love it! Thanks for sharing your days!

theheavensdeclare@yahoo.com - Hi, Meg! Yes, I have a question 🙂 Is your last name pronounced DERKsen or DOO-erk-sen or another way?
You make me smile.
Jacci (a sista in Ohio)

Rachel / cREaTe - i thought of 3 … •1. how do you plan your days? what’s your method for keeping your day productive [with or without kids]? i’m horrible with time management. •2. how did you & chicago jenny meet? 🙂 •3. what’s the farthest place you’ve been, where someone recognized you from “whatever”? 🙂
love your bedside table shot. i think those are the photos that in 30 years will be such an awesome sign of the times. 🙂 love it.

Vera - I’m going to say ditto to I love your blog SOOOOOOO much!
Hmm, question… I asked Sarah (Clover Lane Sarah) this one too, because I never know what to do – do you interfere in your kids’ fights? Like if they’re bickering? Or if there’s blood? Or do you let them work it out?

Beth - Really? 24 days til school starts? That is not really what I wanted to hear 🙂 That means I have less days than that! Yikes. Our summer bucket list has way more things left on it. I was thinking it was a great big fail, but I looked over at it and 9 things are checked off. That’s not so bad. But really? 24 days?

Katie - I think Waffle deserves his own blog. What do you think?
Can I come visit you?
PS – Your hubby is hot 🙂

Alicia - I have lots of questions!
What’s your favourite thing about your house? Or your favourite item in your house?
How did you & Craig meet?
Did you plan on having lots of kids or did it just end up happening that way?
How did you become a Christian?
Is it hard parenting both a teenager and a kindergartner?
I think that is all I can think of… for now!

Molly - I have noticed that you don’t talk very much about your kids and school. Most stay at home moms I know love to help in their kids classrooms. I see that sometimes you help in Annie’s but seldom the older kids. Is there a reason for this? and do you plan on helping more in your other kids classrooms now that you have a whole day to yourself?

elma - Love your blog!! also the best blog in the world!!! Just wondering if you collect anything??? Did you finish the room you were painting??

susan - meg….love you love you love you..
and now a question..how do you keep your hardwood floors clean?? not mop clean, but dust free…broom? swiffer? i know you do not like to vacuum:)

Heidi Hentze - Hi Megan, Love your blog, your positive attitude and creativity. I work with foster parents and I have referred some of them to your site to see the craft projects that you do with your kids. I love all the colour in your life! Do you have an e-mail that we can write to you at or does everything have to be publically posted? I hope to get a blog up and running but so far haven’t found the time, in the mean time I am photo journalling my every day. Thanks for the inspiration! Heidi.

Flower Patch Farmgirl - 1. Honest to goodness, I thought to myself, “How can she possibly look so lovely whilst hurtling down a slip-n-slide?” Honestly. Truly.
2. I see a book in that stack and it makes me happy.
It seems I’m plum out of questions tonight. Maybe the sun burned them right outta me?

linda lou - michael bulbe i love his music and him also you’re talken cupcakes yummy (michael) (:
blessings,
lindalou

marci - can i just tell you that sometimes you get me through the day. thanks for being so real about being a mom and that it isn’t always easy. sometimes we just need to know that we are not alone in all this!
i want to know where you got those bowls in that top picture and i think you told us once before but i can’t remember…where did that picture come from in the background?
also i love that you use lots of color…sometimes after seeing all of the beautiful white houses out there i think i’m the only one left who loves a little somethin bright! then i feel like a loser like i’m out of touch and old or something.;D then i see your house and i know you are hip and cool so it lets me think that there is hope for me yet!

tasha roe - this has to be in my top 5 of favorite blogs. i should make a list of top ten, laminate it and carry it in my wallet. lolol
are you finished with your dining room and can we see pictures? 😀
since you designed your kitchen what advice would you give? i’m scare of putting too many cabinets in but i love all of yours. suggestions?

Shauna Howington - I love your blog and pictures! I do have a question for you. It’s a two parter, hope I’m not being greedy. 🙂
I’m just beginning to get people to ask me to do photo shoots for them. How do you get over the awkward shyness of shooting strangers? I feel like I will be in a rush, instead of taking my time and getting the right pose etc. Ok, next question. When shooting groups, what f-stop would you recommend? Where do you focus? Oh wait, that’s 3, oops!
Have a great day!

Taryn - Hey girl! I’ve got a question…what’s the best gift you’ve ever given Craig?!?!? Ok, don’t answer this, i already know. The subject just came up this weekend with some other friends and it made me think of you!!!:) Oh how i could use a little dinner and girl conversation with you and the other Mrs. Jost. Think of you often! Thought the video was AWESOME!:) Way to be a “cool” mom! Love ya!
Taryn

Jen M - I can’t stop thinking about #20 on your summer list: family pictures in a sunflower field. Where is there such a field and when do they BLOOM?

Mary-Beth - Meg, I love your blog and visit every day. I’m 28 and a new stay-at-home mom to my first baby, 5 week old WIlliam. I want to make a craft/art project that will capture all his sweet babyness (I know that’s not a word, but it should be) but isn’t cheesy. What do you suggest? I’m scrapbooking and picture-taking like a madwoman out of fear that someday I won’t remember all the details (his little curled toes when he sleeps, the shape of his profile when I’m feeding him).

Sandra K - Question 1 – I would love to know where you bought Annie’s rainbow shoes. My baby girl also starts Kindergarten this fall (sniff, sniff) and they sound right up her alley!
Question 2 – I am dying to have some fabulous family photos taken but our budget is almost non-existent. I also don’t have any good friends that are good with a camera. Any suggestions?
Love your blog, love your house, please keep up the super work!

Sally - Hi Meg – BTW – Love, Love, love your blog!
My husband is going to a work cookout and needs to take a dish – I always love your recipes, so simple and so yummy. Do you have any ideas. We are Brits living in America, so never know what to take.
Would love your ideas.
Many thanks.

jeana - Hello! I was wondering where you get you decor inspiration (I’m sure lots of places, but what are your favorites)
Also, I’m not sure how much you would want to share, but I was also wondering if you do the budget in your home? We have 3 boys, we home school, and I can’t seem to get my mind in budget mode when it comes to other things I like to buy like…hmmm well you know stuff on ETSY, or flea markets. =] Do you guys use a program for budgeting? Thanks Meg!

Kimberlee J. - Which Clooney movie is your favorite? Or were you a bigger ER fan?

Dana@Bungalow'56 - Oops I forgot to ask a question….What do you like most about blogging? What do you like the least? Is there something we don’t know about you that would surprise your readers? I should probably stop at three.

Dana@Bungalow'56 - Megan,
I’m having as much fun reading all the questions everyone is asking as I did reading your post today. What a bunch of fun ladies. I think you need to throw a virtual party : ) Wish I could meet everyone in person. I think it would be a good one.
Dana

Janelle - My question is where do you come up with ideas for decorating? Any specific websites? Also, do you ever sleep? You seem to be always doing SOMETHING but with four kids of my own by the time they go to bed I just want to go to bed!
I LOVE your blog. I find you so entertaining and full of new ideas (I made rainbow cupcakes last night) and yet you are so normal…loved your post of the messy living room. Thanks so much for sharing everything.

purejoy - as usual, lovely photos and massive comments. you rock.
and you use carmex in a tub. girl after my own heart.

Lindsay - Hugs from Seattle! You’re inspiring. My friends and I love your blog and would probably try to meet you too (like a post above said) if we were closer.
Questions: What did you want to “be/do” when you grew up? Do you think you would have enjoyed it?
What are your kids current answers to “I want to be…”? and what do you think of their answers (good fit to their personality, will grow out of it, etc.)

shelly - I adore you Meg! We live fairly close to each other and run in almost close circles. We have never met, however, I am certain, If I saw you in public I would shy away in awe of your celebrityness{um, yeah that is a word}

lifeologia - I was so excited about your no-sugar diet – that was the same time I started mine – I am still pretty good at almost 6 months (with some cheating) or I call REWARDING 😉
You are such a bright inspiration for me. Keep up the great work.
And you look TERRIFIC 😉

Catriona - What would be your last meal, death-row style?

Jessica - Do you have rules regarding modesty of clothing for Lauren? I have noticed she wears shirts under tube tops, etc. I think how she puts things together looks VERY good, btw!

Kat - Hee, hee Meg, did you ever get a lot of questions! I won’t ask you anything but I wished i could hear more about how the book, “Crazy Love” affected you. We read it last year, and it’s something that I still think about everyday in application for my life (i remember you posted it in a give-away or something). I love hearing how the Holy Spirit worked in others’ hearts through that book… It’s amazing how a book can make you feel both passionate/joyful and lonely for it to be a reality at the same time.

Deanna - I totally have my pandora radio on Michael Buble station too! 🙂
Love reading your random posts! And of course the gorgeous pictures always. 🙂

Susan - I would like to know what camera you use and what is yout favorite lens?

Karen - Hi Meg!
No questions. Just wanted to share how I love clicking your blog open on my reader to see what you have to share. Your mothers day post had me wanting to give you a hug. I completely identified.
Please add a summer “to do” on your list that is close to Olathe, KS so I could possibily see you and give you that hug. Is that scary?

Sarah @ Clover Lane - No question but have to say this… I laughed out loud reading the titles of your books…because in all that seriousness, inbetween “struggles” and “ungodly things” I see an IKEA catalog. And that’s why you are awesome.

Tiffany - Before I ask my questions, I want to thank you for a few things. First, the pictures of Annie made me realize I was being way too tough on my daughter over her clothing choices. Before, I would not hesitate to make her change her clothes if she did not match or wasn’t what I considered “appropriate” for whatever we were doing that day. But now, because of you, I have let go of the expectation that she should dress exactly the way I want her to, and as long as she has on clean clothes and doesn’t try to wear flip flops to school when it is snowing, she gets to make her own fashion decisions. This has been a HUGE blessing to both me AND my daughter.
Next, thank you for showing the good, the bad, and the ugly and not trying to give the impression that your life is a fairytale. Honestly, those types of blogs only make me feel bad about myself. The fact that you are so “REAL” is what brings me back to your blog everyday. 🙂
And finally–for your mom’s margarita recipe. It is hands-down the best I’ve ever tried and now I make them all the time!
Now my random questions: 1. What type of cell phone did you end up getting? 2. At what age do you think a child/teenager should be given a cell phone and what is your reasoning? (my daughter is OBSESSED and I think she is way too young) 3. When and how do you find time to go to the gym?
Thanks for taking the time to read all of this!!

Bec - What is your go to lens for shooting pictures? What lens would you want to add next to your camera supplies?

Sally Mangham - Hi Meg, Did you decide to use Photoshop or Photoshop elements? Which one did you chose? Have you had a chance to try it out? If so, I heard the learning curve is steep. What do you think? Thanks, Sally

julia - When you read Michael Buble really quick do you ever think it says “Bubble”? I do.
When you look at your feet do you ever think you have six toes? I do.

Lane - First of all….GIRL..you look GREAT! I’ve had one baby (he’s 22 months) and wish I could look as good as you! You are rocking that mom suit, for sure!!
I love that red and white bowl!
I LOVE your blog! It’s definitely one of my favorites. I love getting ideas for kids and although my son isn’t there yet, I keep these ideas hidden away for when he is! Thanks for being so open and honest!!
I’d love for you to share a new dinner recipe! I’m trying your lasagna next week and can’t wait to try it. I’ve been married for four years and I’m always in a dinner making slump. I feel like we eat meatloaf and mashed potatoes every night. I’d love to get some ideas for EASY and family friendly dinners!! 🙂

Edie Steinmann - Hi Meg! I’m Edie from Georgia, 29, married to the only boy I’ve ever dated, and mom to a 2 year old and 6 month old. Do you have any suggestions for daily devotional/bible study type books for moms? I’ve been reading your blog for several months, and I always look forward to new posts!

Dana D@BoysMyJoys - oooooh, I’d like to know what’s in your camera bag, too!
🙂
Not really a question, but it’s been awhile since you posted a recipe. I’m running out of summertime meals, and need a boost! Got any good recipes to share?

Stacia - I love you and your blog too. Like a lot of people on here, I wish we could know each other in real life. 🙂 My question is: how much time do you spend on your personal appearance? I only have 3 little ones…but it seems like I am always wishing I looked as cute as other moms – like you!

Jennifer - I want to know more of you love story…basically all of it!

Jennifer - Meg..can you tell me what size are the pillows you make? Do you get your material and pom pom fringe online? Where do you get your pillow inserts? Also- can you show us a picture of what you did in your dining room? I love your blog!!

sara jane - Hey! we loved running into you at target as well…possibly we could go together when school starts minus kids?! Could we dream that big? 🙂 Please be sure to tell Annie that Ellakate calls her ice cream notebook the “annie notebook” I think i should have bought 12 more 🙂
sara jane

Meaghan - I love your “random” photos posts. And I think you look great in your mom suit and like you are having so much fun in the slip ‘n slide post! I have a mom suit, too, but I still look like I am 8 mos preggers in it. 😉 My hubby says I should go off the diving board and not care what I look like, and your video has inspired me to do so. It’s about having FUN and not worrying how we look (although like I said, you look very cute in yours!). Thanks for the reminder.
Okay, sorry.
Here’s my question- How do you paint the wood trim in your house, do you use primer or sand it first? We have a similar old house and I am ready to paint some of the dark wood! Can’t wait to see your dining room reveal!

Danielle @ Transforming Home - Love your blog – I read it everyday, rarely comment. I have one simple question – where did you live before Kansas? Did I read in the Chicago area somewhere? We live in the western suburbs – just wondering. And did you have a nice, old house like you do now? Or was it more cookie cutter?

virginia - meg, do you talk with an accent since you live in kansas?

Leigh - Hey, me again (Leigh). I asked you about teen-agers. I meant to also ask you about wether Lauren knows you were a pregnant teenager? How did you explain it to her? How do you discuss sex with a teen-ager? I realize these are really personal questions and I DO NOT want to violate Lauren’s privacy (or yours)at all, so I understand if you need to tread lightly or steer clear of these issues. I’m just curious and scared! Thanks for always keeping it real.
FYI — My kids are 8 and 10. So Lauren seems alien to me. Your Annie stories break my heart in a million pieces. How I crave that age. I cried like a baby when she graduated from pre-school. Those were my favorite years. I’d do anything to go back in time.

Niki - Hi Meg! I was wanting to know if you are planning on running any more races? I just committed to run the 10 mile turkey trot and the longest race I’ve done is 2 miles (though I’ve run longer distances than that!). I’m scared to death!!! I find myself bored to death with my play list lately…what music do you run to?

Sarah Mahan - What’s in your camera bag…what brand of camera do you own…what lenses do you use???

Ashley Stinson @ The Hillside Home - love this post. i have a question! i love your photography. have you taken classes? or are you a self-taught talent? do you edit your pictures? what are some of your favorite effects/edits?

tara pollard pakosta - I just adore your blog, I truly do!
and I LOVE all these pictures!!!
totally AMAZING!!!!!!
LOVE your collection of heart rocks!
what are all your kids full names and why did you choose them?! that would be a COOL post! along with a recent photo of each child!

Julie - Want to know another reason to love the iced coffee? If by chance you have a leisurely afternoon to spend at your local (ha!) starbucks, you can get a refill of iced coffee for only 50¢. Or you can drink it crazy fast and get one. Either way… yay for iced coffee and spending less money there.

Amanda - Is the “Praying the Scriptures for Your Children” any good?

Stephanie - are you going to answer the questions? 🙂

Lisa - I too love your blog 🙂 I admit though, sometimes I only look at the photos. (the best part)
I have a running question…I know a few times you have mentioned running. I used to like to run many years ago (10-12) I want to get back into it now. I actually want to run a 5K. Any tips for getting started??
Thanks

Sara @ It's Good to be Queen - lovey love love that last line. you are hysterical!
ummm, you MUST show a picture of the rainbow shoes.
is the iced coffee sweet? Or do you just get black iced coffee?

Angie - rainbow shoes! perfect. My daughter would love them, too.
My question: when do we get to see your dining room?

carrie - Do you use a photo editing software package?
Can you give any photo tips?
Do you sleep? Because I really don’t know how you do it all.
Can I come and be part of your family? You are such a fun, real family. I love it!

Danielle - I like your logic about a $3 coffee instead of spending $5. And I know my husband would not see the logic in it, just like Craig. My hubby’s response would be “there you go again, spending money to save money”!

Donna - My question is random, for sure, but was happy that you asked that today!

Do you have a recipe for your rainbow cake?? Or is it just yellow/white cake with food coloring? I have not looked back through, but I wanted to make it for my kids!

Also, Thank you for writing about things that I can totally relate to…you get to do all the things I hope to one day! When I quit my corporate job, I want to follow my dreams like, become a “real” photographer, buy/sell primitive antiques and do fun things with my kids! Thanks for the continued postings of what we all consider “normal”!

RLG - LOVE you, Meg. Tell me how to get Claire to go #2 in the potty. She has roughly a month to nail this otherwise preschool is off her things-to-do list! LOL She pees fine, what’s with the reluctance to poop??? xoxo

Teresa - What will you do now that all your kids will be going off to school?

Jemm - My 11 year old daughter has spent the ENTIRE morning cleaning her room. Voluntarily. As in swiffering and sweeping out the floor of her closet. Then she asked if she could vacuum the downstairs. Do you think she was switched at birth? Also, where does one find rainbow shoes? We’re going back to school shopping with Grandma Thursday and they sound adorable!

denise - My question is where do you get your photos printed, I know that you posted it once, but I can’t find it. Thank you and I love your blog, cause you make feel normal 🙂

Kelley - I saw a Love & Logic book on your nightstand! I love that series and have found it has given me back so much patience that I thought was gone forever. Are you finding the teen L&L very helpful?

Lisa - I think I like your blog because you seem very real. You share the good, bad and ugly! It makes me feel more normal! I want to know how you handle chores in your house? And how you discipline? Consequences etc. I feel like sometimes I get stuck trying to figure out what good consequences are for the daily repetive issues. Like forgetting to do chores, or eating in their rooms etc. I’ve got 4 kids and am always looking for new ideas! 🙂 (I can’t remember if you’ve ever talked about these things)

Suzanne - I just love your colors on your blog and also the books you are reading…found you on my lunch break blog hopping around…

Barb - I have a question! You said you got a new camera. What did you get? I’ve been dying to know…

Georgia - ****Questions!!!***
I really want to know your initial first reaction when you realised you were pregnant with Lauren…
Whats your favourite Movie?
And…is there any country in the world you would like to goto, that really interests you?
(I love that you have the Ikea catalogue in a stack of books, im currently flicking through the Ikea brochure dreaming up a new bedroom design…)
xox

Jodi - blessings..lol

Lori - Meg, you make me laugh. And cry with you at times. Like all these other commenters, I feel like I know you. Two questions, when do you think you will go back to Africa? and if you had to take someone dinner (they are sick, or just had surgery, or a baby…) what do you take?

Jodi - Hi Meg!
Your blog is awesmome as always. What is your favorite U2 song and why?
Peace and blassings to you,
Jodi

Anna Marie - Have you ever had a blog reader randomly show up at your door and want to meet you? If I lived close to you I think I would. Because I like you that much. But not in a creepy, stalker way. But just because I want to meet you in real life and be able to say that I met Meg Duerksen. And I would probably ask to see your awesome house and take my own photos and then do a “behind the scenes” post on my blog. Kinda like MTV Cribs! Bahahahah…….
I know you probably don’t consider yourself famous but to many of us in “blogland” you are. What does that feel like? Are you “weirded” out by that?

seb - I love your blog. It’s a fun place to land each day! 🙂 I know you take a lot of pictures and was wondering how you organize them all? Do you digitally organize them or print them off each month and put them into a photo album? Just curious as I love to take photos too but stop short of any organizing technique.

stephanie - Hi Meg-
My name is Stephanie. I live in Chandler, Az and read your blog daily. Once you even sewed a pillow for me…it is on my daughters bed. We love it!
I was wondering how your attic space is coming along? I think once you had said you were going to start renovation/decorating it. I LOVE everything you have done with your home! Just wanted you to know that your blog makes my day:) BTW my friend gets that drink from Starbucks every morning. Did you know that they will refill it for 50cents? Who knew?
Have a great day:)

Gemma - Hi Meg,
I have a random question to ask you. You take so many pictures and I was just wondering if you keep all of them or delete quite a few? If you do keep them doesn’t it take up so much memory on your laptop?
Weird question I know but it was something that crossed my mind : )
Thanks!
Gemma x

jenni@talkinghairdryer - I gave up sugar for lent. And I liked how I felt off of it. But I can’t seem to get a grip on it and do it in moderation. Yesterday I gave it up again. I’m not sure for how long.
When you go off sugar, do you go all out and do ANYTHING that remotely has one pinch of sugar in it, or just do sweet dessert type stuff?
For me, lent was more about the tendency to need a dessert every time I ate a meal, so I didn’t even eat sugar free candy, weight watchers desserts, etc.
This time around, I’m just doing the no real desserts with real sugar thing. Sugar substitutes like sugar free stuff is OK.

Melissa - Hi Meg! I love following your blog. You inspire me to find time to be more creative- I love it! I am a friend of Amy Jones’ from high school and was lucky enough to stumble upon your blog and have been hooked ever since. I have to admit I copy some of your ideas- I love them! Thanks for sharing your life with us. Keep up the great work!

Heather - You are so funny. I love the random pics.

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - Ok – I agree w/ Leigh… any ‘ten’ ager adivce is welcome. Sweet Baby J and I are entering uncharted territory and I can feel myself wavering all over the place.
And – so, what kind of friends are your favorites? Is that a weird question?

Lindsay - This is a randon question…We are heading to my parents house in a week…and they live close to Chicago and I was wondering where you were when you saw the filming of Transformers 3? My son is beyond obessed with them and would love to go up there for a day and check it out! You can email me at lnreed95@gmail.com!!
Thanks! 🙂 Or maybe I will just email you!

Leigh - I have a question… What’s it like to have a teen-ager? They are a mystery to me, and, honestly it scares me to think that one day there will be two under my roof. It kinda breaks my heart. I’m really interested in Lauren and what makes her tick and her relationship with you and Craig. What does she do for fun? Who are her friends? Does she have any idea what she will be doing in the next 5 years. Any advice? Thoughts? (I hope I don’t sound creepy — I”m just wondering about teen-agers in general.) Thanks! xoxoxoxxo

Staci - Oh man oh man do I wish I could kick the sugar habit!!!! Sooooo hard!!!!!!! And I just love this post!! I think I love anything you talk about!!! I’ll have to think up a question…but right now, I gotta go get kid #1 from golf camp!!!!!!!!!!!

becki - Hi Meg,
You mentioned before you use Picnik to edit photos.
Any favorite features or tips you want to share?

Sheila P. - I’m wondering how your dining room turned out? I’d love to see pics. Your blog makes parenting seem fun. I am a mother of four, and today I am wondering if that is an illusion, a camera trick or what?

Tara - decorating:
where do you go for decorating inspiration?
where do you find most of the things in your home?
parenting:
you seem very “real” about your parenting. you love your kids and you seem to do a really fantastic job training, raising, leading them.
what’s the ONE HUGE PIECE OF ADVICE you would give on raising teens?
we’ve worked with students for 11 years…church student ministry for 9 and college ministry for the past 2…
it’s easier to be part of the leading process when they aren’t your own. (this bothers me about myself!!)

katie - you are adorable and look fabulous for having 5 kids!!!

Hannah - What kind of camera do you use?
p.s. No sugar diets are overrated anyway:)

Christy - Love your blog. Also, I have three of the same books as are in your stack! I must be cool like you!! 🙂

Kimberly - Hmmm…I cannot remember how I stumbled onto your blog, but I am sure glad I did 🙂 I love your photos, your honesty, and your COLOR. Color is my battery. I enjoyed your Chicago pictures and told my husband – see, there is hope! She’s traveling with FIVE kids and we only have THREE! We just need to wait until they are older 😉 I’m looking forward to your Michigan pictures – my family is from there – although we moved to California when I was five – but I hear it’s gorgeous. Oh, so my questions: How did you meet your husband? How old are your kiddos? What is your favorite color? Favorite food? Favorite blog?

jamie - laughed outloud at the last two lines of today’s post. you are a funny gal. so very funny. i think we would be friends in real life.

nicolle - I still wish you would do a photography info post. I’d love to know your “take” on photography, your lenses, how you edit, etc. Just a little info. I love all of your photos, always! Please share any info you are willing to share…..thank you! Love your blog!

angela - How do you make it work parenting Lauren and then all the little ones? My sister is trying to parent two teenage girls and a three year old…It’s tough!

Deanna - Can I pretend you’re my friend?! (hello…psycho!) 🙂 And thanks for introducing me to Piece of Cake (another great friend o’ mine) Let me just say that many of us out “here” really rely on you ladies to tell it to us straight and make us feel less crazy than we do. (or maybe that’s just me?!) It’s great to know you’re (I’m) not the “only one” dealing with this life stuff. Question: how do you feel about putting it all out there? And how is your house so clean!! Thanks pal…. (wink, wink)

Laura Lee - Are you reading all those books at the same time!? That’s what my nightstand looks like but they are mostly books I’ve read that I’m skimming back for my favorite parts…. favorite book of all time? I’m going camping in September and I need some ideas 🙂

Celia - Hi! I don’t have a question, but wanted to say that I love following your blog! I can’t even remember how I found it a couple of weeks ago… one link… led to another link… to another link. I really enjoyed looking through your house renovation… my husband and I are in the process of renovating a 75 yr. old home now and hopefully will move into it soon. I cannot imagine how ya’ll did it while living there… and with five children. You must be super mom! 🙂 Keep up the great posts…. and by the way… if you love PW’s recipes as much as I do… then we must be some sort of long lost sisters or something! HA They add inches to the thighs!! Take care and have a great day.

Tere - I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Pandora. Music fills my house this summer, so much better than Spongebob and that Phenius dude.
Question 1: How’s the dining room? Can’t wait to see BEFORE/AFTER pictures.
Question 2: What are your plans for your upstairs room? I remember seeing the pictures from when you first moved in…ahhh, the potential.

Sarah @ Dream in Domestic - I love your random posts with random pictures and random insights into your life. I too love the Michael Buble pandora station – it always puts me in a good mood!
Wouldn’t life be so much easier if fatty and sugary foods made us look good and leafy greens and turnips made us gain weight?

Lisa - Hi Meg! I don’t have a question, just a compliment for you. You are one of the most “real” people that I am lucky enough to “virtually” know through reading your blog. You have no pretenses and you love your God and your family. I remember what it is like to have kids running underfoot that can sometimes make you crazy, and 10 minutes later can make you thank God for them. It’s a whirlwind ride of a lifetime, but you are enjoying all the special times, good and bad. Thanks for sharing with us. Thanks for all the time you spend on your blog.

Sugar Mama - I DO have a very random question for you. I’m in the middle of trying to add color… LOTS of color to my house. Do you have a “theme” so to speak when you decorate? Do you stick with a color palette? Or are you random and just hope it all works?

Rebecca Kriner - Meg- I love your Blog SOOOOOOO much! You inspire me every day!!! I can’t wait to read your posts!!!! I’ve never made PW’s Blueberry Crumble, is it good? Her chicken spaghetti recipe is probably my favorite, although there are so many chicken spaghetti recipes!

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so crabby

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thought you could use a visual picture of my crabby face.

this 100 degree temperature has kept my kids IN the house next to me ALL week.
and 75% of the time they are fighting….makes me very on edge.

the thought of basketball tournments for two days
that keeps my son playing at 10 o'clock at night..home at 11:00 PM….
that makes me crabby too.

the fruit flies that have taken over my kitchen….super crabby.

the cat sneaking into my bedroom shedding all her nasty cat hair on
 MY pillow…makes me crazy.

going to the grocery store twice this week and still having nothing to eat….

buying ice cream bars for desserts (because i am trying to be a nice mom)  
and coming downstairs in the morining to kids eating them before breakfast…..don't get me started.

missing my best friend that i had to myself for 7 days and still so much we didn't talk about….CRABBY.

the laundry….OH THE LAUNDRY!!!!  it multiplies and grows like fruit flies.

my lazy body….finally ran again this week after much too long of a break….
got a migraine as soon as i got home.  
thanks body!! i try to do the right thing and you pay me back so nicely.

people who hurt my feelings.
or i should say people that i LET hurt my feelings…….why do i do that?
why am i so darn sensitive?
sometimes i wish i was like a man and could say "that sucks" and move on with my day.

AND i think that is enough whining.

i will now ACT like a guy and say "i'm fine" and then go fix something…or mow something.

HA.

more coffee.  some chocolate.

i will be fine.

tune in monday for happy meg
and DAVE's SUPER SIX DOLLARS of MiChiGAN FUN.  :) 
 
 

      

Melanie - I hope you feel better now. I have been on vacation and am visiting my blog friends. I know that I am way behind but sending you hugs.

anne c - oh and p.s. THIS IS A BIG *HUG* we all need it sometimes…well me, OFTEN!

anne c - just wanted you to know I think you are awesome crabby Meg..and real..and awesome (did i say that already?) and a great mother and keep up the great work. I need your inspiration weekly….

Jemm - I totally know what you mean! Men don’t have all these…hormones. At least that’s what I’m blaming my crabbiness on today!

Garner6389 - I read your posts nearly every day.The heat can get to you if your not used to it.I live in the desert and treat the heat with caution.on the other hand I can plan a bbq a month in advance knowing that it will not rain.

Carol - I have a sneaky suspicion that we are living the same life!

Amy - Thanks for making me smile. Not because you’re crabby, but because it reminded me how we are all unique creations of God, but we all share common emotions. Can so relate to your post.

Mrs. Jones - Isn’t summer great! I look forward to it and I dread it all year.
I finally figured out how to get rid of those darned flies. Here’s how I did it.
http://heatherjslife.blogspot.com/2010/07/are-you-tired-of-fruit-flies.html
~Heather

Shar - If you get this far, it is okay to be crabby. Everyone is telling you that. It makes me love ya even more that you are so real and honest and not trying to put on a show for us out here in blogland. Even your crabby post brings joy to us. So, just know it doesn’t matter, like good friends, we are here for the long haul. Happy this week!

Kacey - I’m with you on the crabby. Heat + humidity are miserable. I hope you had a better weekend!

Julie - I would add peanut butter to the chocolate and coffee list…but you know, thats just me with the hershey bar and peanut butter jar today when I too, was feeling CRABBY….then I’m just going to feel more crabby when I step on the scale tomorrow. OH WELL! this post is why i love your blog.

Linda - Some days are just like that! Hope the chocolate and coffee help. I think sensitivity often has a undeserved bad reputation. Maybe one reason that might be is because it makes others feel uncomfortable for being jerks.

Holly - oh Meg! I am so feeling ya! We have one week of Summer vacation left and I think I am honestly ready for the school year to start! As for those darn flies I can’t stand them!

Dana@Bungalow'56 - Megan,
I ended up on a blog site for decorating and there were easily 30 decor, remodeling and design blog sites and at the very end….of course was whatever. I smiled, because I thought now this blogger i will probably like if she has meg at the bottom of her list. Today’s post is the reason why so many of us come back day after day. Thanks for making me smile, and making me feel like I’m normal : P…at least most of the time.
Dana

Kim Howell - my daughter says.. I look like you in crabby mode sometimes.

katie - this is why we love you…

susan woodward - love you Meg!!!!
good to know we all get like this 🙂

christine - it’s good to know that feeling is not just me
seriously
great post
i feel so much better!! ha!
not sure if it was intended for that
but i sooo relate!
what’s the deal with fuit flies this year?
i left a half full glass of wine out
and they loved it!
carry on!

seb - Sorry you are crabby…if you don’t have it already, put on the David Crowder Band’s song
“Oh Happiness!” It’s a great mood lifter for everyone. 🙂

purejoy - wow 65 people building you up. you hardly need encouragement from me.
but i hear ya.
cat hair on my pillow would PISS ME OFF, not just make me crabby.
thanks for reality view from chez you.
hope next week is better.

Kirsten J - Awww…see that’s what we’re all here for. You keep us entertained here and there (or, gosh, daily) and if you’re feeling crabby, come and vent a bit and we’ll lift you up. And tell you about the vinegar in the little dishes (you can leave a pretty big hole in the middle of the plastic wrap- I hate to see them prancing around the top). We never get hot weather here in Seattle, but lately – whew! and I just said to my husband, “I never have fruit flies! and the bread molded in 2 days! and the tomatoes already are rotting – how do people in the South do it?!?!?!” Hang in there, and I’ll be expecting Happy Megan tomorrow 🙂

Krista - That’s why we all love you, you keep it real!!

Jill - OK, I’m sure people have given you fruitfly advice by now but mine doesn’t involve rotting fruit on your counter and it works like a charm. Used it just two weeks ago. Jar, water 1/3 full, squirt of dish liquid, splash of vinegar. Plastic wrap on top, rubberband around the neck of jar, two small holes far apart so the buggers can get in but not out. The vinegar attracts them, the dish soap kills them. Took 24 hours and my house was bug-free.

Stephanie Carroll - Hi Megan
I too am super over sensitive to the point of annoying. This helps me. Memorize it. Say it out loud when you need to. Chant it if you have to 🙂
A (wo)man’s wisdom gives him (her)patience. It is to his (her) glory to over look an offense. Prov 19:11

Trina McNeilly - Oh all of that does/would make me crabby for sure and all at once no doubt. And I so wish I could be more manly in that kind of sense. I hate being so sensative too and over thinking everything. Chocolate and coffee ALWAYS help.
ps- HERE is a way to CATCH FRUIT FLIES!!!! Get some red wine (Grape juice kinda works too) and put it in a juice cup. Cover the top with saran wrap with a rubber band. Poke small holes through the top (like with a toothpick) but not too many. Basically so they can get in and not out. And put by your fruit. I’ve caught like 20 at a time. Good luck!

Jenny - Makes me feel better about the fruit flies…we got back to Wichita after 2 weeks in Colorado and fruitflies and overtaken my kitchen! YUCK!

Lorie - I hope you are in a better mood soon! I think whoever offended you should get a special gift…a visit from your fighting kids. A nice LOOOOOOONG visit! ;D

Margo - I love that you are so open and honest! Sounds like you need my “happy plate” – my co-worker took a paper plate and cut eye holes and drew a very nice, very happy face on it, added hair and put it on a stick – they call it Happy Margo and it is for me to use on days like the one you are having today!

Vera - Aw I’m sorry, I have been crabby this whole week – and most of my reasons were the same as yours. Hope you wake up feeling renewed tomorrow!

Kat - meg, you are absolutely my favorite blogger.

krystall - Ditto over here to all of it!!! I vote for year round school:)

Kat - Aww hugs to you Meg and your crabby face, lol.
You crack me up. Love that you are so real!!
Hand up as another sensitive soul here and letting people upset me.
I think it makes us better people to be sensitive?! Maybe? Somehow?
I hope today is a better day for you.
I think the reality of getting home after holidays always takes a bit of adjusting too.
I am just so envious that you got 7 days with your closest friend.
Wish I could do the same, but mine lives too far away 🙁
Hows the holiday list going?

amy jupin - you are so not alone in this–i promise you i was just about to post something very similar on my blog! too many kids in the house, too much mess, stepping on cracker and pretzel crumbs, tripping over stuffed animals, too hot to do anything!
but then, i sat down with another cup of coffee and started to remember that staples commercial with the mom skipping down the aisles of school supplies while the kids pouted and i smiled sooooo big. two more weeks!!! horrible?? maybe… but totally the way i feel?? you bet!! (and john is leaving all next week on business too! bahhhhh)
and what the crap is that with the fruit flies all over the place???? just one more thing for me to be all cranky pants about.

Nikki - We all have those days/weeks… we’d be lying if we said we didn’t! They’ll be back at school soon and then you’ll be missing them… and when it’s winter, you’ll wish it was summer again…. heat, fruit flies and all 🙂 It’s winter here and I wish I could go swimming!

Joni - OH, HONEY…this week has had some crabby moments for me, too. Well, let’s see Miss Meg: vacations are a LOT of work for mom, as are photo shoots for the family, you did both. Then, you had a glorious relaxing time in Michigan (so glad you liked it here!) and then you drive home, and BOOM!!! Back to reality and all the WORK WORK WORK that mom gets to do once vacation is over! Soon school shopping begins, too right? So you’re allowed this crabby time, in my book! I like you any way you happen to be, crabby or not!
XOXO
Joni

Jess Mead - Oh my! I have those days, but I’m not so sure I’d be brave enough to take a pic of myself. I don’t look as cute as you do on crabby days! Hope tomorrow is better. 🙂

Beth W. from Dirty Laundry - I think the kids need to go back to school. Then all will be right with the delicate balance that keeps us sane. This was also the week that the kids became irritable and bored and irritating! And I am sensitive too. Don’t let stuff get you too down. 🙁

micah - We love you because you’re so real. And we like to know that you have bad days too. Because it helps us relate to you even better. Hoping for happy days tomorrow 😀

edie - I love the comment from your sister and I love the sweet crabby pic! It only endears you to me even more. I know what would cure it but I’m gonna have to drive all the way to Kansas to bring it to you. And I don’t think mocha cake travels that well. Thinking of you dear!

Shana - hope you feel better soon.
do you need me to punch someone in the face for you??

Victoria~ - From the comments you can see you have a strong support group of mom’s who *get you*. I am also one who gets the struggles of motherhood. But I am one of the mothers looking forward to the return of school. I’m a better mom when I get a break. I enjoy reading your happy & crabby posts. It’s why i read it. thanks for keeping it real. (as my 17 yr would say while bumping his chest.) 🙂

crystal - That cracked me up (but I still feel bad that you’re feeling so crabby). I HATE it when everything piles up and works against me!! And you’re so right about the man thing. They move on so easily!

Micah - Thank you so much for posting about your crabbiness. I’m having a “why did God make me so SERIOUS!?” kind of day. I keep trying to refocus and have. some. dang. fun. but stuff keeps getting in the way. And its tickin’ me off!
LOL so THANKS! Your post makes me feel human. Maybe I should go fix something…. or maybe just break it! LOL

Lorilee - I completely understand. I was developing a real downer of a mood last week after returning from a weekend away. Mine got better after I spent two hours clogging (dancing) with my clogging buddies!
Blessings,
Lorilee

Dana D@BoysMyJoys - I can’t help with much, but here’s a link to what I do at my own house to completely and totally wipe out fruit flies in a harmless manner: http://frugalliving.about.com/od/doityourself/qt/Rid_Fruit_Flies.htm
It REALLY works! I keep a canning jelly jar out all the time with the mixture in it.
🙂

Amy - I know it’s been said, but you gotta do the fruit fly trick!
We had the same problem…until my hubs put a little red wine vinegar (that’s what I had) in a jar and covered it with plastic poked with a few tiny holes. The flies checked in and they couldn’t check out!
I hear you on the crabbiness…so good to see it isn’t just me!

Georgia - My mum always told me if your feeling low, moody, angry what ever… just go with it. Dont fight the mood, just let it pass. 🙂
Go find a quiet cupboard to hide in and read a book…:)

sandy toe - OH MY…I laugh about the ice cream bars before breakfast…we have had that here.
sandy toe

lorel - Aren’t you glad we didn’t come now? Then the cousins could also be fighting over littlest pet shops and my little ponies and who is bothering who and who started it. Hugs to you sis. hope your day gets better

april - I had the same crabby face but mine included lots of pimples and the rediculus dark spot on my forhead from when I had my son 2 years ago…can they do anything for that? Oh well…I totally hear on the fruit flies…no matter how much bleach I dump down the drain they always come back a week later…YUK!!!! I think its ok to complain sometimes…especially when you have a blog universe who feels the same way….;)

Amanda - Fist time commenting…sorry but had to laugh as I could have written this! The fruit flies, the kids fighting, the 2 yr old sneaking downstairs while I’m in bed dragging popcycles out of the freezer and leaving it open and them melting all over the kitchen…..sigh.
I’m not the only one counting the days until school starts am I? Please tell me I’m not because I feel awful! 😉

Lisa sharp - I am there with ya and the 100degree heat! Very crabby! Tip for the fruit flies…get a small ramekin or bowl. Add some apple coder vinegar and squeeze in some dish soap. Before u know it u will have hundreds of dead little bodies floating in the mixture. We live next to a peach orchard and it works like a charm! Good luck!

mary beth - Add ants all over the counter and we are twins! It reminds me of that poster I’ve been seeing all over blogland that says
“keep calm and carry on”! Every day is an adventure or a bust…we have to chose. Love your post because it’s you telling us we are all normal and we are all gonna be alright!

amy j. - Throw the kids in the pool and next time go to MI for 10 days. 7 with family and then you and Chicago Jen stay for 3 days alone. 🙂

linda lou - meg….i have days like that and my kids are gone but i do have two new kittens “Regis” and Kelly” cute (: they are. no food to eat i say we eat out or call it in(: Blessings,

mel h - Oh Meg,
Im pretty sure I have never left a comment for you before but I am a faithful follower and I loooove your blog. i am such a fan of yours mainly because you and your family are so “normal” and also because I have five kids also (16,12,9,4,3) so we have alot in common. Also same genders so I face alot of the same “crabbiness”. But then God always seems to remind me of Rachel Barkey (that I heard from you) that I need to serve with JOY. So then I just thank Him for my crazy life and try to put a smile on my face and get happy. If that don’t work, go to Starbucks. 🙂

carolyn - you made me smile.

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - Oh sweet Meg… I completely relate. I’ll be sending you a virtual nap and some chocolate. Head up.

Jessica @ One Shiny Star - Fruit flies suck – we used those sticky paper rolls you hang from the ceiling (or where ever) and they worked really well. The flies were gone in just two days. Good luck!

Lori - Oh I can relate. Sometimes things are just really sucky. Isn’t it great that they get better? Hoping your sucky times get better soon.

Nina - we all get crabby sometimes……it’s ok! here’s an internet hug for you all the way from Virginia! ~~HUG~~

Michele - Thanks for keeping it real! Laundry is bad any day of the week but after vacation it’s SO bad! Grocery shopping after vacation is awful too. I had to make 3 trips to get stuff. Glad it’s not just me. And the hurt feelings thing, glad that’s not just me, too. I get it!

Megan - I was just walking around the house telling my kids why I was so crabby and several of your things were mine also!
Fruit flies – check
Laundry – check
kids home driving me crazy fighting – check
not ice cream bars but cake for breakfast
hopefully we will both have a good weekend!

Nicole Q. - I hear ya!

Emily - Here’s another fruit fly trick- put a half cup or so of apple cider vinegar in a small bowl. Add a squeeze of dish soap. Set out near where they’re congregating- gets them every time!

Shelly - I’m sure the poor girl in the McD’s drivethru thought the same thing about me!!! (too many storms, no electric half the time and a town’s botched water system…plus drivethru at 8 am makes Me Crabby!!!) And, just to make you feel better….I found my boys eating ice cream sandwiches at 7:30 am yesterday:) Nice to know I don’t have the only sneaky kids on the planet!

stodd - You crack me up! Hang in there and know that we can all relate and we love you because of this… thanks for being normal! I know that when I’m super crabby, magic margaritas sometimes helps. 😉

Tere - It’s the back to reality shock (plus laundry) after a week of vacation. So sorry. It does suck and justify the crabiness in you.
I have 4 — why do siblings have to fight and bicker so much?
Wishing for a restful day.

Jenn Thomas - At least you didn’t get a dead rabbit on your front porch!Once Amy gets back we can get a girls night out organized.

Staci - So sorry Girl 🙁 Hate that come-home-from-vacation blue phase 🙁 Makes it hard to deal with reality ;( And this heat—well, it just plain sucks here in OK too!!!! If it helps, I haven’t even been on vacation and I was so crabby to my kids for asking me for ANYTHING last week 🙁 I know that you’ll feel better very soon (in four weeks when kids go back to school!) maybe you should make some margaritas tonight 😉

colleen - In Richmond Va where I live it has been the hottest summer on record. today marks the 18th day over 100 degrees… not in a row but since summer. That’s not factoring in the heat index so I guess it is like Hattes here. Thank goodness for a/c and icees. Totally can relate to the going shopping and nothing to eat syndrome… happens to us all the time.
🙂
Colleen

sarah deakins - Keeping it real sister! i love it as we all have these days! I am a fairly new reader and I love your blog. Thanks Sarah

Wendy - Oh, Meg! I’m so sorry you are feeling crabby. You have every right to vent. I hope your day turns happy. Just be glad you don’t have a “Man Cold”, sweetie.
Love,
Wendy xox
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Maria - wow…thought I was the only one…I think I mentally checked off just about everything that list and then some…summer is almost over for us here…just a couple weeks to go…hang in there!

Tricia - Oh how I can relate! I can’t help with much, but I can offer advice about the fruit flies.
Take a jar (any jar) and put a piece of banana in the bottom. Cover tightly with plastic wrap. I use tape, after I wrap the plastic wrap over the edge. No openings. Then poke a few tiny holes in the top of the plastic wrap. Some smaller, some bigger. Maybe 6 total. Let the banana rot and the flies will come. It’s grody, but cool for the kids. lol. Works great! You will need to change it every couple of days.
Good luck! Happy Saturday, girl.

Dineen - Oh, how I can relate to the hot, sticky, humid weather and the kids inside fighting! Stay cool!

cathy - this is why I love your blog-you are real…hugs.

Bath - i can relate to this whole postright about now.
the heat is killing the kindness in my voice towards my kids.
the only coffee in the house is decaf.
there is NO chocolate in the house, and i’m too lazy to go to store for any.
packing for kids church camp (which i am a counselor).
looking forward to the 5 days at camp because i don’t have to cook for anyone including myself.

Jen - Sorry you are crabby! I am dying to know if the fun was a “vuvezela”???

katie - THIS is why i read your blog, Meg. now i’m off to go about my business and fantasize that we are friends. 🙂

jamie - seriously, the fruits flies. i know, right? where in the world do they come from? and i {heart} your crabby face and i so understand your life.

Suzanne - Keep Calm & Carry On!
LOVE the crabby pic…lol

Ashlyn - I know what you mean about being too sensitive… I do it to. I soooo wish I could change it.

Michelle - Chin up + mainlining coffee works for me. Happier days ahead Miss Meg.

Daniele Valois - You’re awesome. Awesome Awesome Awesome, and it’s ok to be crabby when you’re so awesome!

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winner and wednesday

the winner for the pillow is….

And one last time I voted for it.


Tammy…i emailed you at the address that you use to leave comments.  (tammygilliam)

THANK YOU FOR VOTING EVERYONE.

i won second place.
not an iPad but an ipod touch.
and you know….that is pretty awesome too!

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i don't know if i will listen to the Howling Bells….but maybe?
i am so excited to get it!

an iPad would have been great….but this is just as great to me.
and my kids wouldn't even think of asking to share this with me.
the iPad…they would ask everyday.
and mine would end up like Pioneer Woman's…i am sure of it.

Peanut Butter Baby won in the end.
and he was a really cute baby.
i am happy for her.
she said her husband would be using it for med school…..so that is awesome!
good for her….congrats Kierra.

you know what?
i am feeling good this morning.
i haven't even had coffee yet.
but i am feeling good….God is good….my husband rocks…my friends are fabulous….i am happy.

so how about two more winners?

and now vote # 2….you are still in 1st place girl!

vote #4 – man i hope you win!!

YAY!!!
i can't wait to make pillows for you.
i love my blog readers.
you have no idea how all your kind comments and encouraging words lift me up each day.

TODAY….
my mom is visiting today.
two bathrooms need to be deep cleaned.
i have photos to edit.
and we are having another overnight guest.
i bet you know her.
i have never met her in real life….or her family who is coming with her…and her cat and hamster.
i will tell you about it tomorrow.
but right now….i need to change the sheets, vacuum the rug and scrub a toilet so she can be comfy.
remebering Rachel's video today "i am here to serve with joy"
i forget so quickly.

i am calling on two verses today:


Roman838 
Whtverse

i always love the whatever verse. 🙂
 
go out today and be kind to others.
 
LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.

i hope that all of YOU have a wonderful day today.

ymcmb hats - I really wish I hadn’t seen this as I really want one now!

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Jodi - Congratulations on winning the ipod! I love Howling Bells, her voice is just mesmerizing. Gary Lightbody recomended them on either SP’s website or in his Q The Music column a while back. I downloaded radio wars and love it.
Glad you are enjoying sunny happy days with your beautiful family 🙂

Megan - meg, i totally needed to hear those two verses today. so thanks!

Janie Fox - Yay happy happy joy joy – you won an ipod touch! I am wanting one! Love your scriptures too. My favorite is always Romans 8:28 but I have several others that fall close behind. Call me a Jesus freak…I like it!

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - Hi 🙂 Congrats… So happy for you!

Alicia - Your blog is always so fun Meg! Congrats on the ipod touch…my kiddos would take mine if I won…enjoy your new toy!
Alicia

maribeth - i hope she brings you a piece of cake!

Kirsten - Yay for 2nd!!! Just so you know…I only have a lame phone that’s about 5 years old and totally on it’s last leg. And just this morning, my 10yo said if she didn’t get a phone or ITouch, she would “die”.
Yeah…when I was a kid, I had an AM transistor radio.

Julie - Howling Bells opened for Coldplay last year. My niece downloaded some of their songs right after that – she really liked them!
Thank you for those verses!

tara - http://weirdfriends.tumblr.com/post/735649667
saw this and thought of you…it came up randomly in my google reader feed. not too sure of the remainder of the site.
just realized that this totally looks like spam. hope it’s not for you…
thanks for encouraging me to use color – and for sharing your life with us on here!

Lisa - Have fun today Meg. Looking forward to reading about your antics with your ‘guest’ and her 357 children.
Meg your post today was gracious and kind. You handled the ‘nasty’ commenter so well. Glad you won something, that you came second. I am fairly sure people voted for you because they genuinely liked your photo and not because they were in to win a cushion. You photography is awesome, your blog is too. i love the read.
Now how about sending a cushion ‘down under’. Ha ha

erin stivender - sooo excited about winning…think i’ll go buy a lottery ticket now. can’t believe i got that LUCKY!

Sara Taylor - Thanks for posting the Romans 8 verse today. It was on my mind all day after being with my friend’s family who lost a nephew this week.
Also, your posts about the reading nook in your guest bedroom and your newly decorated back porch have been so inspiring to me! We just moved to an expansive Craftsman era house, and there are so many nooks to decorate. I was thinking of your porch pictures when I went to an antique mall yesterday to pick out dusty treasures for our porch/sunroom. Thanks for sharing!

Ruth - eeeeek have fun with laura… i can’t wait to read all about it. like whether she’s as short as she says! (the cat looks dangerous though)

robin - You are my favorite blog, too. So much, that I linked to you today…hope that’s ok! Thanks for passing along the positive energey about being good to neighbors. 🙂

Amberleedesigns.blogspot.com - Hi MEG!!! You are by far my fa.vor.ite blog! I send everyone to you. Even though you didn’t win first place in that giveaway maybe you can win first place in mine! Check it out. I hope you enjoy!!!
http://amberleedesigns.blogspot.com/2010/06/my-first-post-yay-its-giveaway.html#comments
Love Me,
Amber Lee

Gemma - Well done to all winners!!! 😀
Hope you have an awesome day.
xXX Gemma

Jaime A. - hehe… I was going to say the same thing abt the iPad – Pioneer Woman’s is kaput! You are prolly better off! 😀
Enjoy your iPod Touch!
Have a wonderfully, beautiful day, Meg!

Jill J - Romans 8:38-39 has gotten me through serious times. Every time I read it, I get the chills! Praise God that we are not responsible for our salvation! None of us would make it. 🙂
Congrats on winning 2nd… Sorry I couldn’t vote. 🙁 I don’t have a Facebook or a Twitter account.

Elizabeth - Are there any more weeks to enter?? I vote you enter the pic of Waffle wearing those glasses (or that wig!) and we can all try voting again!

Brooke Whitis - Meg, hope you have a great day.
I am kind of sad you didn’t win the ipad, but you are a gracious loser. I really, really wanted you to win. 🙂 Hope you have a wonderful day….lucky girls that won those pillows 🙂

betsy - I LOVE my iPod Touch! You’ll love yours, too.
There are tons of fun apps out there, too. Just don’t tell your kids! 😉

Kimberlee J. - Love everything about this. Love your neighbor as yourself. Indeed.

Katy Stone - You’re so encouraging! My mom is coming today, too! I’m recovering from back surgery and preparing to move across the world (literally). Her visit will be so appreciated, plus, I always love spending time with her.
And, congrats! Have fun with your touch!!

Tara @ the cinnamon post - give Laura a hug for me!
you’re so lucky to meet her…
she’s so lucky to meet you…
have FUN. Your happiness is contagious Meg..thank you.
~tara

Heather @ Cookie Mondays - ahhh! it’s laura! i wanna come too 🙁 i’ll bet she’s expecting french toast…

Shana - YAY! for mini iPads! 🙂

candace - Congratulations on your win! You are such a good sport. Thanks for the encouraging, pick-me-up post. You rock!

Lisa - Congrats on your win! I’m sure you and Laura will have a great visit, it’s sure to be great blog material!!! 🙂

Amy James - I bet I know who it is! I have been following her trip daily on FB. We may have a hurricane heading for Texas but you have one heading for Kansas! Have a great time!
Amy James

Tammy - oh Wow! What a wonderful surprise to wake up to! Thank you Meg! And a big congrats to you on the iPod Touch. It’s a pretty cool toy.

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - Love this happy bubbly post. I can see you are full this morning Meg. Hope you have a wonderful visit with your mom and company. Always a joy starting my day with you:)

Melanie - Congrats on winning an IPod Touch. $300 less that you have to spend!

DreamGirlLisa - Congrats Megan…hope you have a great day and can’t wait to hear about your guest….

Lindsey - congrats on winning the ipod! i am in a great mood too today, and also have not had my coffee….weird for me! hope it stays, we have a hurricane coming to texas, so we’re stuck inside all day. have fun cleaning lol, i will be doing the same thing! happy wednesday 🙂

amy jupin - oh my goodness…is it laura? piece of cake? on her xcountry trip??? please say YES! THAT, my friend, is GREAT BLOG material! (you should see me smiling right now. it’s ridiculous!)

Dana D@BoysMyJoys - Hope your day is fabulous, too!
Can’t wait to see who is coming to visit!
Have fun!

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smoothie

after my pineapple cutting demonstration…i made a smoothie.
i almost always do.
and it’s nothing special.

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ice.
 
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pineapple.
 
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banana.
 
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frozen blueberries (even if they have ice crystals all over them…)
i use frozen because they are cheaper.
i will use fresh this summer…maybe.
 

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orange juice.
 
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blend it.
and that’s it.
no measurements…i just add and pour…if there is a bunch then i share with my kids or craig.
or not.
sometimes i add strawberries…sometimes not.

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sabeen - Wonderful!. This looks tasty. I like your idea. Your photo help is really best. This is good work. Thank you so much.

Laura - Would you mind sharing what kind of blender you have? I need a new blender and want one that will blend such things well.

Cortney - Dr.Sears has a great recipe you can google. I know you were just posting what you use not asking for suggestions. Oj has a lot of sugar and you wont miss it if you add a banana. You have to watch yogurt as well if you are watching sugar. Silken tofu is a great source of protein.

Rach - We love smoothies over here. Great way to get miss picky eater to get some good nutrition in her. Now if only I could make a spinach and broccoli shake taste good. 🙂

April~Living The Sweet Life - Hi Meg so happy you found me through Country Living Magazine. This recipe looks wonderful. I am on a smoothie kick right now.

Courtney Walsh - you make it without milk? This is great news because I can’t have dairy! I’m going to try this! 🙂

Molly - Yum! That looks delicious!
Molly
http://www.mypeaceoflove.com

Gemma - Yummy! That colour looks amazing. You’ve inspired me to go and buy a pineapple today : )
If any of you get a chance please take a look at my blog…I want to make some new friends!
Gemma X http://musings-of-a-gem.blogspot.com/

anne - you win the best freckles award.
🙂

Tanya - I need a blender

No.17 CherryTreeLane - I just bought a huge watermelon and have some banana’s and frozen berries. I wonder if that would work.
Hmmm…

Melanie - I could drink that right now:)

linda lou - yummie for your tummie (:

Vicki - You know it’s spring/summer time when you can whip out the smoothies…there’s just something about drinking a smoothie in the winter that just isn’t nearly as satisfying as when it warms up outside. Cheers!

Staci - Met some friends just this morning to have a smoothie and chat 🙂 I chose the chai tea one this morning…never had one before and it was super yummy 🙂

tami reed - that looks yummy, my hubby makes the best smoothies too lol

Karina - Yum! I love making those for the kids, smoothies are so versatile, you can throw in bananas or not, yogurt or not, it’s really flexible. I thought everybody liked them until I had a friend and her daughter over; I made smoothies for the whole gang and our guests were the only ones who left their glasses barely touched. I thought, how ODD, and what a WASTE of smoothie!! I’ll save them for us next time; maybe guests could use a taster spoon like they do at an ice cream counter before I commit to pouring them a glass!!

beth - I second that…YUMO!

Maggie Rose - I use frozen stawberries too, and no ice. I usually add something creamy like a little yogurt or soymilk.
Looks so good right now! Our blender broke so no smoothies for me for a while 🙁

Christy - Yumm! Makes me want to make a smoothie right now.
*LOL* @ Jill – I didn’t notice until you pointed it out, but I have those glasses too. They are indestructable!

kristine - i use frozen berries so i don’t have to use ice. then i just eat the fresh fruit when it’s in season 🙂
great self-portrait. isn’t it nice to actually start being in the pictures?!

Staci Danford - YUM… Wow I love smoothies.. I am going to the store today and buying some fruit, getting my blender, and making me one.. LOVED it..
Staci

Jill J - Oops, I mean “they’re” not “there”

Jill J - OK… Does everyone on the planet have those drinking glasses? I don’t even go to Target to get replacements anymore, there always at Goodwill. 🙂

The lady of the House - Yummy! Smoothies are delish aren’t they! Have a smashing day! The Lady

Trina McNeilly - Yummy yum yum. I need a blender bad. Can’t believe I’ve gotten by without one for so long..but now I need a smoothie.

Georgia - I like the look and the making of a smoothie, but i just cant drink them.. lol
Looks a lovely purple colour though!

Dana@Bungalow'56 - I just have to say, I am still loving the new haircut. I take notice of it every time you share a picture. We put yogurt in our smoothies. The kids think they are drinking a milkshake.
Dana

Jodi - This looks like a yummy combo. I usually make a peanut butter banana with soymilk and ground flax in the morning. I want to try this though, it looks lighter for summer. I cracked my plastic blender though and patched it up with duct tape…classy right?

anna - yay! thanks for posting that! looks so good!

tara pollard pakosta - YUMMY! we all LOVE smoothies here!
We usually do strawberry/banana/apple/flax/spinach/juice!
I use frozen berries alot too>
delicious! I love your blog!
tara

Pamela duMont - smoothies are a daily drink here…we add flax oil, protein powder and sprinkle some wheat germ in for good measure! I make mine with yogurt…and BTW..go see the movie BABIES. you’ll love it. I took my daughter on Mothers Day..

Lee Ann - we love smoothies too. Here’s my trick. I chop/freeze the bananas….especially if they’re getting to old to eat. Freeze them on a plate until frozen, then dump in a bag or container. This way you don’t have to use ice. We also love to add spinach…..even my kids!…..oh, and peanut butter for protein.

Amy - just wanted you to know that I went and bought a pineapple after your last post and will not buy canned again! My kids are enjoying a smoothie this morning too! (minus the bananas…ewww, mama doesn’t like them!)
you are too cute and thanks for just making me smile when I read your posts! Makes me feel that life is just as normal as it should be!

Erin from Skoots and Cuddles - i wish i made smoothies… they always look so yummy… but seem like a pain to make!

Bec - You should throw in a little spinach- can’t taste it but it is good for you! (use the fresh kind, not the can 😉 )

paige - we love those around here too…can get a little expensive making daily smoothies for 5 with fresh fruit, but yum yes!
trying to find some great protein to add to them…
suggestions?

Nancy - my girls are all over the “smoovies” as my youngest calls them. My oldest just whipped it up herself. I find that when she makes it, she eats it. Love that. Pineapple will be in our next one, now. A little bit of Hawaii. If I can’t get to Hawaii, I will pretend!

Dianne - YUM!!!! I have a pineapple at home that may be destined for a smoothie tonight 🙂

Tam - delish! I wish I could make one right now! I need to get groceries 🙁

Emily - I add 1/4 cup of egg whites to make mine a protein smoothie, and it’s tasteless!

Nicole Q. - wish we could sit and chat over a good smoothie today!

jess - yum! i am on a “green” smoothie kick…adding spinach to mine!

megan - thanks for posting that. i wondered if you put yogurt in it when i was reading your “pineapple post”. smoothies are such a great way to crank out your 5-a-day goal!!
have a great day!

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the end of an era….

on friday annie finished her last day of preschool.
forever.
which also means that my 12 year run of being a preschool mom is also over.
5 of those years were at new creation preschool with ms. kristin.
i met her just weeks after moving to newton.
i called the school…she answered and told me "i hadn't told anyone yet but we just had an opening"
it was meant to be.
annie was a newborn in her carseat when we took sean in for his first day.
i am so thankful for this school.  for kristin.  for her graceful way of teaching my children.

so i cried it all out on friday…in my car….in the wendy's parking lot.
(and now again while i am typing this)

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when i took this picture….it clicked that this was over.
i don't know why.
this picture.
i got all choked up, alone in annie's preschool room while they practiced their program upstairs.
 
                   
 
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check out kristin's rainbow skirt.
loooooove.

so there it is.
over forever.
annie is my last baby.
she grew up overnight.
and now i am a mom of school age children.
no babies.
that is really hard for me to come to grips with.
i know i have five kids….i know i am tired and worn out by them….i know that what i have is enough.
but i really cannot believe that the baby stage is over.
that i will never have another baby.
it makes me feel too grown up….old.
i don't really want to start dealing with only BIG kid issues…driving, talking back, grades, sex….

  

and then annie took off riding way down the street without waiting for me.
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kind of like she did growing up.
she never even asked me.

i am sure that my new "freedom" will be great.
i will get so much done and that this is a new stage and it will be good.
this baby/preschool stage was my normal for the past 15 years.
now i am done.
it is very surreal.
 
i hope my kids still need me…
without sippy cups or potty training or floaties or shoe tying.

don't feel sorry for me.
my pity party is at max capacity already. 
 

np - We have the same exact things going on in our lives! My baby(of 5) is also heading to big boy school, in the fall. I enjoy reading your blog b/c you mother with such purpose and love…. thanks for the inspiration.

katherinemarie - I recognize that CLASSROOM as one of my favorite preschool rooms EVER!!! What an amazing preschool experience for your little Annie. I hope the memories of all that color-wonder-bliss-creativity will ease your mama’s heart as you say goodbye to such a wonderful school experience.

jaz - What a DELICIOUS classroom! Ooooh so gorgeous!! And what a beautiful girl you have there. You captured these memories so beautifully xox

Trina McNeilly - The colors are spectacular… love them… makes me happy …after a whole afternoon of talking back and big kid drama.. coming from a 1st GRADER.. whats up with that? I think baby crying is easier…. i might change my mind at 2am though. But time does go so fast. I’m sure that is a crazy feeling everyone done with pre-school.

Erin Leigh - This blog makes me so happy. The colors + the photos. I teach kinder + it’s good for me to read these comments to have a little empathy for my weepy moms on the first day of school. The ones who ask me what their child ate and hand me sunscreen to chase them around on the playground with. (i know this not you)My little guy is only 2, but i already feel weepy thinking about him growing so fast… my turn will come!

Kelly - such a good post for me to read. I’m just starting with the whole baby thing and right now not getting any sleep and am exhausted. reminds me to cherish. kelly

Maria - loved this post.
We just had our prek graduation last friday too…our last after being there for 8 years ( 4 boys worth).
Not quite sure I will know what to do with myself next school year with no one to tote back and forth to prek for once.
We will go from 4 schools to 2 schools next year (probably the only year that will happen) and that I am really looking forward to.
such sweet photos of your preschool too..hang in there…

krystall - now I’m crying too! I have thought those exact same thoughts and had those exact same feelings. I was crying over my boys getting married one day and leaving me, they were 3 & 2 at the time:)
I have one more little chick with me at home during the day and I think this post made me realize I need to apprecaite what I have instead of fretting about what’s to come,
thanks for the reminder to grasp each moment with them
Krystall

Andria - Meg,
My youngest is finishing kindergarten. I am right there with you. I have found myself bursting into tears so many times while watching a show with a baby in it. I am a baby-preschool age mom, its my favorite time. My heart aches that I will not have another even though I am busy with my 3 boys. My husband tells me all the time we have enough on our plate but I still yearn for another. So I have been soaking every minute of kindergarten, every minute my youngest puts his hand in mine.

Courtney Walsh - Meg,
I still have a baby at home (well, he’s two) but this post still got me teary. And I don’t tear. I’m not a cry-er. It’s so hard in the midst of the “stop!” and “don’t do that!” to realize that when they are grown, they are grown… and we can’t stop it. I hate it. 🙁 boo. I am going to go hug my hobbit now.
Annie’s preschool looks absolutely amazing.

Kate - Beautiful post. Mine is not in preschool yet, and I am actually dreading that transition…every stage is hard! If it helps at all, I am 39, and I still talk to my Momma every single day…I still need her. Momma’s are always needed!

ashley - Beautifully said. Gorgeous and fun classroom. What was in Annie’s book, if you don’t mind me asking?

Sophie - Such beautiful photos to capture beautiful memories.
And you still have your babies. Sure, they might not need you to help them read or tie their shoes, but I’m the youngest of three, and even though I’m seventeen, I’m still my mother’s baby (:

kristin - for one of the first times since friday that i’m crying. i’ve been in a weird place of grief over this ending…it is so so so so bittersweet. today it seems mostly bitter.
oh, i will miss your family. your support. your enthusiasm.
ugh.
thank you for the pictures. again.

Brooke Whitis - I LOVED her preschool!! That place was such a blessing…such a creative, awesome teacher and a place that even had a BLOG!! She inspired me as a teacher 🙂 I hope you enter the next stage with as much joy as you have the last! You are a wonderful mom 🙂

Carol S. - Mine are 5th grade and sophomore, and I was just at your stage yesterday. But, I get lifted by friends with older kids (college, married, grandparents) who say there are JOYS in every stage! Truly, it will be there. So briefly mourn the loss of one stage, and then quickly throw yourself into finding the JOYS of the next. (That’s my plan)

Joni Lane - wow, what a beautiful preschool. how wonderful that it has filled you with so many wonderful memories.

jeanne - I cried just reading this. I think I cry a lot reading your posts.

Susan - Oh Meg, I am feeling your pain right now. I am going through similar growing pains – my baby (by nine years) and last child is STARTING preschool this summer (pre-preschool), and I am sooooo sad to say goodbye to the era of having my babies all to myself and home with me all day everyday. I find it so difficult to leave each stage behind, but, as you know, the new stages bring their own triumphs and joys.

DreamGirlLisa - I know how you feel, it’s so sad when they grow up, and THINK they don’t need you…but they always will 🙂 You will love having that time alone once you get used to it, enjoy!

Nancy M - In a few years you can look forward to grandbabies. ♥

Janet - My very wise momma once told me she thinks jr.hi/high school kids need their parents almost more than the younger ones. The tricky part, as you are well aware, is figuring out how to be there w/o “interfering.”
My ‘baby’ turned 21 yrs today.

Stina - Love that school. Love your pictures. So bright and cheerful. I was following both your blog and the preschool’s blog for at least a year before I spotted a picture of Annie there and realized that THAT was where she went. How awesome for your kids. I would LOVE to go to that preschool even now…at almost 30. lol. What a treat. And now on to the next chapter. Of course they will still need you. You still need your Mama, I’m sure. And, of course, we need you and your fun posts. 🙂

candace - YOU should become a preschool teacher!!!!! The you could be around the fun littles all the time.

Kerry Wiebe - Sister don’t be sad!!! You can ALWAYS have things changed if you know what I mean!! I am living proof of that HA! HA!
And if not any time you need a baby fix PLEASE PLEASE Call and I will come a runnin’ 🙂
Love You Girl!!!

elma - Oh I know how you feel I am going thru it this year. Adrian started kindergarten my baby my last one. I cried so hard when he went on his first day all the other mothers thought I was nuts. Our oldest is 24 and Adrian five where did the time go. Eight kids, 24 years gone in the blink of an eye. I to feel sooooo flippin old what do I do next?? It is sad.

Robyn - oh my goodness…. this preschool seems AMAZING! the colors and art and creativity! i wish our preschool, while its great and all, i wish they had this fun stuff! so nice of you to take all those pics too… the teachers must love them!

Karen - I wish you all the best with everything you plan to get done now. It didn’t work out that way for me! My hubby put me to work on the farm even more, and I never had time to breathe. Since then, my babies (all five of them) have grown in the blink of an eye, and I have one grandbaby. It’s not all that bad getting older either. In fact, it’s rather sweet. Enjoy the ride!

Betsy - Love to see the pictures of her classroom. I always wonder what people notice about my classroom.
Did you, by chance, make the triangle fabric “banner” for that classroom? It looks like you and I LOVE it! I’d love to buy one for my classroom ceiling since I have zero clue how to sew!
Etsy idea??? 🙂

Kristin - I want to go to that preschool!

patti - my oldest daughter is 5 and she graduates from preschool at the end of the month. i can’t believe it. i cried when she when to preschool…i’m going to be a mess the first day of kindergarten!

the inadvertent farmer - I was not expecting tears when I read this but alas I sit here with the waterworks streaming…
I thought I was done…I was so sad.
Then when my youngest had just turned 13 along came our only girl…then her baby brother followed…making it 4 boys 1 girl in all total.
Now as I sit across from newly graduated from college 24 year old and my new potty trained 3 year old I just shake my head and wonder at it all!
Good luck with this new phase…Kim

sarah - oh my, this got to me… it’s hard watching our babies grow up.
my oldest starts preschool in august and it seems too early for it.
btw, your photos are really great. they really bring your posts to life.

Sandy - I can’t believe how much that little stinker (said very lovingly!) has grown up just in the two years I’ve been reading your blog.
They will forever need you.

Daisy Cottage - (((Meg))))
I promise you that they will need you even more as they get older. They will need you every single day.
PROMISE.
xo,
Kim

Liz M - I would like to go to that preschool too. Total coolness. Could they have a day for Moms who want to re-connect with their “inner glue and paper collage?” Sounds like bliss.
PS I LOVE Annie’s happy outfits. And that picture of her sailing off down the street just makes me S M I L E.

kristine - i totally have tears in my eyes! i JUST registered natalie (my first baby) in preschool on friday. what different days we had from each other!
i love annie’s school. i hope natalie’s is just as much fun!

Nicole - I was flipping through these photos and thought, “that looks an awful lot like the Preschool Days blog I follow” and sure enough it is! I follow Kristin’s blog simply because she looks like an amazing teacher and her class looks so fun. You are so lucky to have had your children go through her room!!

Audrey - I’ve been feeling the same way…and my youngest is just 18 months old! We have four children and I know that this is our last one. Why does this baby need to be the one that wants to be so independent so early???!!! With every milestone he passes I think that it our last time for crawling, bottles, learning to walk…..! If I’m like this now – what am I going to be like when he goes to school????

Melissa Gruber - oh meg, this is the post i needed to read…thank you! as a mom of twin girls who will be 3 in 3 weeks…i just wish away some of the stages/phases they go through and are in. i need to remember i will never get them back…NEVER!!! so enjoy them…the good, the bad and the ugly and just love them to death.
enjoy your week!

Andrea McKnight - My baby boy “graduates” from preschool Thursday night. Sigh. The end of five wonderful years with Mrs. Storts – which started with my eldest daughter. I too will no longer be a preschooler mother.

citymouse - My guys are older than yours and we’ve passed this milestone already. Like all the milestones with your kids, it takes some getting used to but then you enjoy what comes next. On the complete other end of things, when my oldest turned 21 I felt so old (even though I had kids ranging all the way down to 12 at the time). I kept thinking how on earth could one of my babies be an honest-to-God grown up? But it happened. Now, I enjoy a very new dimension to our relationship that didn’t exist when he was a teenager and it’s nice. (He just turned 23.)

Jaimie - Aw no worries, they will always need you. On another note, you are so LUCKY to have found such a great school. Not all kids get the opportunity to go to a preschool like that, so you are very, very lucky!

Staci - I’m right there with you 🙁 Only our kindergarten is only 1/2 day, so I still get another year to “feel” like he’s little 🙂 You are right, it’s a new chapter…one I am sure you will fill up with new and beautifully creative things 😉

Rach - I have no idea what that feeling is like yet but I am sure I will re-read this post when the time comes and my own tears will flow. 🙂 Thanks for sharing.

Angela - So if I don’t ever send my baby to preschool, maybe she won’t ever grow up, right? Wishful thinking I know. My oldest two are 11 and 12 year old boys. I was just fine when they went from preschool to regular school. But for some reason the thought of even sending my baby girl (who’s only 1 1/2) off to preschool sends me running for the Puffs. Hang in there!

alyssa - Now you’re making me sad. I was already secretly freaking out that Ava is done on Wednesday. Each year is getting harder instead of easier!!!

Kacey - Awww…crying with you. Just think of all the good times ahead!

Lori - I absolutely get where you are. My kids are 14 and 18, but I remember bawling after the final program of my youngest’s 5th grade class (end of elem school for us). But I will say that you get used to having the older kids, and a little freedom. And you need that break to prepare for the older kid issues (yse, they will still need you!). But the older kids are way more interesting, if less cute. 🙂

Dianne Avery - Ahhhh, this made me cry. This is my last babies last few weeks too. It’s true that they grow up so fast.

Sara @ It's Good to be Queen - 15 years is a long time! I’m still smack dab in the middle of the baby stage, but I know i’ll feel exactly the same way when it’s over. i hate change!
but i am a bit jealous of all the free time you’re gonna have come fall. 😉

kari Kim - Oh the tears keep flowing… I have my youngest graduating preschool this week and my oldest entering middle school. I have been emotional for weeks and after reading your post I am even more touched. Thank you for sharing… now where are the tissues?

kari Kim - Oh the tears keep flowing… I have my youngest graduating preschool this week and my oldest entering middle school. I have been emotional for weeks and after reading your post I am even more touched. Thank you for sharing… now where are the tissues?

Tanya - Look at all that fun and color

sarah - Makes me cry…
I adore that picture of Annie and 3 of her friends. She looks so grown up.
These pictures are all so special. She’ll love looking at them when she’s older.
And your kids will still need you. Sometimes they won’t admit it, but they’ll need you.
For years and years to come, they’ll come to you for all sorts of things. I know I still need my mom.

Jennifer - I only have two, but my life and identity was so tied into being their mother, that when my first was ending preschool and getting ready for kindergarten, I fell apart. I stopped being able to sleep at night and had so much anxiety that they put me on medication for a while. Now THAT is lame. At some point I was able to pull myself out of it and enjoy all of the new stuff that was starting. I didn’t realize that the teachers would still need and welcome me to help out (even more, hello PTO!), and the unknown was just awful. I did much better when my “baby” started school in 07, mostly because she was SO ready and so mature. Now my oldest has only one year left of elementary school. My goal is to hold it together and just try to enjoy the ride! New fun and exciting things! But yes, saying goodbye to the baby/toddler times is really tough.

Tere - Sniff, sniff. I’m with you. Lilia’s (my #4) ends too. On to kindergarten in the fall. Bittersweet.
Thank you for sharing your pictures. So careful and fun. Take care.

Lisa - AAAAGH! I’m so relieved to read this post and know I’m normal!! This is my daughter’s last week of preschool and I have been SO SAD, crying every time I think about it. I am so not ready to be done with preschool. It is just the perfect stage. They have their away time, social time, some independence, but then come HOME and have the rest of the day with ME. Perfect. I’m not ready to be a “real” school mom either. Crying right along with you! Hang in there!!

Jen M in Texas - I know exactly how you feel because my little man’s last day of Preschool is on the 27th and it makes me so sad to think that I won’t ever go into the fun happy little school.
Here’s to new adventures as mom’s of school kids!!

Erin from Skoots and Cuddles - no pity, only support. it’s hard for all of us. although we celebrated the various stages in our children’s lives, it’s never easy.

Dineen - I’ve never commented before but this post hit too close to home. I too am ending the preschool years this June. I know I will be a basket case, as I am EVERY June when the kids finish up a grade. I too love our preschool. I hand picked the school for our oldest son who is now 8. Where does the time go? I remember checking out the school when the kids were just 3 and 2 and I was pregnant with #3. Just crazy. I feel your pain. I don’t know how I am going to deal with these years ending either. Hang in there. I know deep down it will be just fine…right?

AshleyAnn - Killing me with this post. It is a good reminder because my sippy cup, diaper stages won’t be over for a while and quite frankly I get sick of diaper changes and sippy cups.
That preschool has to be the greatest anywhere…forget my kids, I want to go there.

Freckled Hen - This is a timely post. I have 5 kids, too. Just yesterday I cried because my youngest is now a boy. A real boy that talks (a lot) and has no more baby pudge, no more diapers. Having teenagers test my patience everyday and younger kids that just want to jump rope and ride bikes I feel less needed. My kids are growing and I suppose I have to as well. It’s so hard!
PS your pictures are very beautiful…I can feel the happy, colorful energy of the classroom.
PPS did I mention my youngest talks a lot? He spoke through this whole comment about a triangle shaped magnet and how his voice echoes in the lobby of Hobby Lobby.

Suzanne - okay being on the other side of things, my children are 32, 30, 28 and 26 and I have 5 grands 10, 10, 9, 8 and 4 months I can say that I remember those preschool days fondly, the teenage years with gratefulness they are OVER and now is the best of all, really. My children are my best friends now and I know everyone hears this all the time but grandkids really are the most amazing of all.
It is hardly over Meg, you have so much to look forward to on the other side 🙂

amy - oh my dear meggie poo, i should not have read this this morning. i have pms like crazy and my hormones are all over the place. and looking at annie with mrs. kristin made me all teary and red-eyed. in august i will be saying goodbye to daycare and ben will be at an elementary school for most of the day. those lovely ladies at our daycare have been my most loyal friends for the past eight years and are already making me cry over saying goodbye in a few months. why is change so hard? when i was younger i remember being excited and thrilled by change. not now. now i’m just a silly ol’ puddle of emotion. let’s have some coffee and butterfinger cake and tell each other it’s going to be ok, ok?

Mary Beth - I LOVE having growed up kids! It is THE BEST.
When Megan finished pre-school, her teacher wouldn’t even LET parents there on the last day because it is too emotional. The teacher cried!
We STILL miss that teacher…..

Vera - Aaaw hugs to you!! This post made me want to get knocked up RIGHT NOW. Ha ha! I have a baby (btw I just posted about his nursery – that you helped me with!) and we decided we’re done having babies, but every time I think about “this is the last time…” I just can’t even stand it! But then I think, if I had 20 children, I would still feel sad when the youngest reached new milestones.
Congrats Annie on finishing preschool!!! <3

Laura Phelps - I have these moments frequently…the “I can’t believe it is OVER” moment..
when I think about finding a man to marry…check!
getting married…check!
having babies…check!
and I CAN NOT BELIEVE it.
It is done.
over.
HOW????????????????????????
But this is what I am believing right now…as we embark as a family with a HUGE NEW CHANGE…
THE BEST IS YET TO COME
We have no idea what is in store…but God has our plan..a new life…a new day…a new beginning..
and maybe…just maybe…it will be even better than the baby stage…
think of the possibilities….

Megan - What a sweet, sweet post! I love her preschool, it looks amazing! I also love her outfit! She reminds me of my daughter Claire who is in kindergarten. I let her wear whatever she wants and sometimes I’m not sure if I should but I am letting her be creative! I love your blog it is just so real!
I am having my 1st giveaway and would be thrilled if you stopped on over!

Casey - Oh honey… this made me cry. I get that way thinking about my kids too. How my “baby” will be 3 this year and we don’t know if we are having more so I am cherishing every little thing! Good luck with everything! Cheer up, be blessed and know that God is GOOD!

Melanie - I only have one child and he just turned 16 yrs. old. I think I am the only one that doesn’t like the baby stage. I loved from age 3 on up. I have enjoyed all of it since then. I didn’t mourn like you are about the baby thing. I am the odd ball out on this one, I know. Good luck with the new stage that you find yourself in. Hope you feel better:)
The pictures are great by the way!

Holly - Wow Meg! It’s only normal to be experiencing such strong feelings. It’s at the core of you! It’s who you are. You’re a mommy. And as a mommy, we invest so much into our children! I’m sure I’ll feel the same way when all of my boys are through that phase. Bitter sweet.

Elizabeth - Gorgeous photos, and I admit to perhaps never getting over the last days of our beloved preschool. It’s been five years! Those are special times indeed, especially when you love the school and the teachers.
Now, onward!

Sarah@Clover Lane - I’m 3 years away from that, but when it happens will you come and pick me up off the school parking lot where I will be laying face down sobbing my guts out?

kristin - Oh Meg,
Wait until you get here…
I am on the pity party train with ya!
Kristin
http://thissweetcountrylife.blogspot.com/2010/05/sadly.html

Amanda - I really can’t imagine the place you are right now, and the emotions that go along. I can’t even bare the thought of mine going to preschool – my days at home with them will be ending in the next few years. This was a great post – I teared up thinking about you crying alone in your car. Ending a chapter after 12 years has got to be tough. Enjoy your summer with them!

jen smith - just wait til the first day of kindergarten.
i am not a cryer. never have been. but when my baby had her first day of kindergarten i cried the whole time she was gone. for the first three days. it was awful. but then i slowly started to realize the freedom of having school age children(after having small children at home for twelve years) and i got over it. now i enjoy them when they’re home and party while they’re gone. it’s fabulous!

`Kelly - Can I join your pity party? A couple weeks ago a friend was in town so a bunch of friends I don’t see often gathered at my house to play & catch-up. As they walked in with their carseat carriers and huge diaper bags and asked me if I had an extra bib or any rice cereal I realized I’M THE OLD MOM! My kids are the oldest and I’m done – DONE! – with all that stuff. Granted my youngest is still only 2 but I do have some in school and am gearing up to send another one off this fall. It’s weird to be out of that phase already. It went awfully fast although it didn’t feel like it at the time.
What a great place your kids got to go to preschool! So fun! I definitely saw some things in that room that I now want to replicate in our playroom. 🙂

Tara - my baby is 3….she’s growing up without asking me also.
*long sigh*
praying for you today.

Krista - I love the preschool pictures, it looks like a wonderful school, such color and so many cool activities with the simplest items!! I am sure Annie will be anxious for K in the fall, it’s too bad they can’t be little forever!

Amanda - I had to comment today, and usually I don’t. What a beautiful post. You are such a great Mom. Your blog inspires me, and I look forward to reading it each week. Your children are beautiful, and so blessed to have you. My “baby” will be done with preschool in about three weeks, and I can’t believe the time has gone by so fast.

Nicole Q. - Your kids definetly had the BEST preschool EVER!!! Everytime I’m on Kristen’s site or anytime you posted about the preschool I was jealous for days!!! It’s the best learning environment I’ve ever seen for a preschooler!!! Enjoy the transition into the next stage of life!! I’m sure it will bring a new kind of GREATNESS!!!

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - I love that you share your feelings. I am sentimental too and think this way about everything. Gorgeous colorful pics. Makes me happy:) Time for a new chapter.

Jen Joy - I have been blessed with 4 incredible free-spirited souls and have these same sorts of thoughts just about every day. You are definitely not alone. I keep trying to remember, though, that they’ll always need me… but in different ways. These days, it’s more about “How do I get a girl to like me?” and “What classes should I take, Mom?” No worries. We’re still needed. 🙂

Nancy - I am right there with you. My youngest is the same age as Annie. We have 4 more weeks of preschool then adios. It is the end of an era that is for sure. a lot of tears too. What a blessing for you to be at such an inspiring school.

Dana@Bungalow'56 - From a mom of three 7 to 14, I have to say the school age family is sooo much fun. Life just seems to get larger and richer, as everyone seems to be able to participate more as a unit. I have to say its been great! Enjoy the next ten years, because before we know the grandkids will be keeping us busy. Oops… maybe that wasn’t the best comment for the whole feeling old bit. Sorry.
Dana

Julie - My baby (youngest of five) turned five in March. I’m right there with you Meg! 🙁

Sarah Mahan - Awww! We are just starting the preschool thing next year. I love this stage and also feel for you! Where did you get Annie’s dress??? Did you make it? Love it! Good luck in the years to come with all the big kid stuff;)

Melissa - 🙁 I hear ya. Crying for you too…so many of those moments as a mom.

martina - Wonderful pictures, soooo sweet! I don’t want to pity you – but tell you that good times are ahead! I’ve got 2 sons, now 17 and 20 (OMG!) – and i must say, it’s wonderful to have big kids. So much fun to have more space and freedom for yourself (and your partner) again. To do different things with your kids – like a relaxed trip to town, going shopping or look at an exhibition and have dinner – the kind of things you did b4 you had kids. And part of you get’s to be a teenager again – which is fun too, You’ll see 😉

Amy - I totally understand. I have an 8 yr old daughter and a 15 yr old son. I so miss the preschool age. But they do still need you. Even though my son acts like he’s got it all under control, he still comes to get his hug every night before bed and tells me, love you mom! I hope that he NEVER grows out of that! My daughter seems to be growing up overnight, she doesn’t want me to pick out her clothes anymore. I miss the cutesy stuff!! But I know she needs me too, today she has to read a story she wrote at the “Authors Tea” at school in front of all the parents. She asked if I could be sure and sit in the front row! It takes time to get used to new stages. I go every other week to church to babysit babies for the MOPS group. I love it, I get my fill of babies and can still sleep through the night!!
I turned 40 this year! I definately feel old!! But it’s so weird cuz I don’t quite feel like a grown up yet! Time flies, cherish every moment!

joy - I love reading your blog! I am sad with you! My two are only 1 and 2 yrs old so we are about to enter preschool but I can only imagine how fast it goes and that I will be at the exact same place you are one day!! Thanks for being so honest on your blog with all of your feelings. I especially loved the mother’s day post!! You’re awesome! Blessings! Joy

LouBoo - Hi – you have pretty much captured how I feel about my son growing up. He is 5 and is in ‘big school’now but reading your post brought it all coming back to me. Especially the bit about them growing up without asking! Over time though I have started seeing the good side of being out of the baby phase, afterall, babyhood is just one little bit of motherhood – a drop in the ocean infact if you think of the long haul! Louise x

Taryn - Love that the first comment was made by YOUR mom……comforting and beautiful! Thinking of you today. Love you!

mom - Beautifully said.

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i can’t believe i did it!

guess what i did this morning?!
 
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i ran a 5K.

i really can't believe i wrote that sentence.
but i really did it.


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(i was adjusting my headphones)
shana is our coach/motivator/hero because she is a real runner.
she didn't run with us today because tomorrow she is running a half marathon…
that is only a measly 10 miles more than me.

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it was jana's goal to run the whole thing in 40 minutes.
i decided to sign up too because i wanted to support her.
(and i wanted to lose weight.)
pam was going to run it too but her husband got stuck with the volcano stuff so she needed to be home.
we missed you pam!
stupid volcano.

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WE DID IT.
jana ran the whole thing!
she ROCKED it!  she was 34 minutes.

at the mile 2 marker i thought it was the mile 3 marker.
so when he said "MILE 2" i let my mind get the best of me and said "UGH…forget it!!"
and i started walking for about a minute.
then i saw jess and amanda and their smiles were all i needed.
i started running again.
i finished at 35 something.
shana grabbed my hand and finished the end with me and of course….i started crying.
because that is what my body does when it's tired. (or happy or excited or nervous or confronted or or or)

i wish i would've run the whole thing.
next time. 

i prayed "God…show me what my body can do" over and over. 
and "thank you for this healthy body"  and "open my lungs and let me breathe!!"
i am proud of myself.
and grateful.

it felt good. 

Christina - What a huge deal! Congratulations! I have been away, but am catching up…I missed a lot! I might have to check out that book. I agree with your winner, Matt Damon is a pretty good choice! 🙂

Art Cant Hurt - run, meg, run!
you earned that awesome feeling of accomplishment! yeah!!!

Corinne - Congratulations! 🙂

Lauren - Wow, your blog is always a source of inspiration to me.

Julie - way to go!!

purejoy - holy COW (not that i actually believe in holy cows) i am so proud of you!! i really want to run a 5k even though running and my name in the same sentence makes me gag just a little (okay, a lot!!)
so proud of you!!
ps
adore your shirt.
have one just like it! 🙂

kristine - CONGRATS!!!!

Trish - on my bucket list… even though i loathe running. i just want to prove to myself that i can do anything through Christ who strengthens me 🙂
good job

Nicole - I check your blog about everyday but I never leave any comments (shy?) when you had the giveaways I thought perfect chance since there will be so many posts! I broke out of my shell and now I am here to say Congratulations! That must feel amazing! I have been thinking about doing a 5k, and with your inspiration maybe I will! Oh! and I found a pillow at Homegoods with “Whatever” on it while I was shopping the other day, it reminded me of you! (I took a picture even… if you ever wanna see! LOL)

miss r - That is awesome! Congrats on completing it. 🙂

Stephanie Carroll - Get it girl! It’s amazing what God can do with us if we let him. My first 5k in December was in 22 degree weather. Glad to see yours was a better experience 🙂

Kristin - So proud of you!

amy jupin - two things: 1) WOOT!!, 2) WOW!
that’s all i got.

Mary - I really want to train up and run a 5K. You’ve given me even more inspiration. And you’re right, God can help; he wants my body to be in good physical shape.

Sarah - Good job, Meg! I’m doing a 5K this weekend and planning on running the Prairie Fire half-marathon on 10-10-10. You should do it. I’m a little anxious about the training for that one but it should be good. Keep running. Keeping our bodies healthy is one of the best things we can do for our families.

Lynn - I read your blog but rarely comment…just wanted to say CONGRATS! I know how that feels! I ran my first ever 5k last October and just did my first half marathon on Saturday!!!! It’s amazing what your body can do! I couldn’t even run a full mile last summer, and I just ran 13.1. Running has shown me that I can do so much more than I ever thought possible. Congrats to you! Well, done!!
P.S. Running really is the best weight loss exercise… keep at it and you’ll definitely see results!

Georgia - Well done meg!!! Looks like it was a hot day too …. 🙂

Pat - Outstanding! Congratulations ~ way to go!

Cate O'Malley - Awesome job, Meg! I did my first 5K last weekend, but, um, I didn’t run. Truly awesome job!

Tara - very proud of you…you’ll be addicted to it in no time.

Dick - Congratulations! I’m so proud of you for trying let alone finishing. Way to go

Dianne Avery - Congratulations!! I’m proud of you! I’m to chicken to even try one. 🙂

Valley + Madigan - You flippin’ ROCK!!! I can’t even imagine!! I was running 5 miles a day hoping to run w/ my brother who’s amazing and does the Marine run….but I got pregnent and all you moms know something happenes to our bodies after babies…my size 4 turned into a whopping 16 and I stink!!
You make me proud Megster!!!

tara pollard pakosta - GREAT!
that is so awesome!
I haven’t ran in an actual race in 12 years!
I really should! I miss it!
The most I have ever done was 4.5 miles!
I want to be able to do 6 miles, that’s my goal!
but first I have to build back up to 1/2 mile!
oh, but before that i have to get my body adjusted
at the chiropracter cause my hip hurts really bad!
that is so awesome you did this! YOU GO GIRL!
tara

jen - awesome!! i hope i can say the same someday 🙂

Jen Christians - Was that Emma Creek? I wanted to do it so bad. All the girlies from my kiddo’s cross country team were there. (one of them who is 11 or 12 took fourth overall! Ran it in 21something.) But Leah had a gymnastics meet in Salina. Bummer. Now I REALLY wish I would have done it. I am so proud of you. An amazing accomplishment. I love your prayers too. I will have to remember that at my next race.

Meaghan - Awesome! You are so inspiring. I need to exercise!!

AshleyAnn - Congrats! I hate running. If I were in track & field I’d be a pole vaulter.

Amy Harris - Congratulations! I ran my first one this spring and I never thought I could do it. It’s such a great feeling to finish. Praise God for strong bodies, minds and hearts. Blessings! 🙂

kbonikowsky - Ugh , I hate running. Way to go!!

Andrea - That’s awesome! I’ve been thinking of signing up for a 5K. I will be walking, though because I’m quite out of shape!

Suzanne Gallagher - Way to go, Meg! I’m getting emotional writing this to you-I hear how proud you are of yourself through your words, sometimes we loose this in ourselves through our everyday life. Great Job!!!!
Suzanne

Courtney Walsh - so proud of you, meg. i have been thinking about doing this too this summer, though I am the farthest thing from a runner (especially with my back issues!) but my body is healthy and strong and there’s no reason i shouldn’t!!
🙂 go you!! you should be so proud!!

Kathi - Great job, you are truly an inspiration. Which seems kind of weird to say because I’ve never met you, but I feel like I have. We have so many of the same interests, I know we would be best of friends if we could.

Amy C. - Sometimes I am struck by how much I have in common with you. I am running my first 5K in two weeks. My husband just ran his first marathon yesterday, so it seems a little wimpy by comparison. I’ve been training for 10 weeks, and this week I have run the entire 5k a couple of times. As a girl who still has 50 lbs to lose, I am truly amazed that I can do this. When I started training I could barely run 1/8th of a mile. Isn’t God good? When I am out running and pushing my body to it’s limits, I always make a point to thank God for giving me the ability to do it. I think running and being a Christian have something in common…they are both quite humbling. Congratulations on your accomplishment!

Niki - WONDERFUL! Meg, great job! You inspire me…I need to get back to it!

Amy Lynne - That is awesome! Congrats on pushing through!

Amy Coose - This is too cool! Congrats!

linda@LimeintheCoconut - LOOK at what your amazing did!! You should be proud…I have a sneaking suspicion that this is just the beginning!

LouBoo - Similar to other comments – I did get abit teary reading this; there is something about this sort of achievement that does that! Well done – I run, but not in races yet, I just like the feel of it, but I think its a great great thing when people take it up. Its the London Marathon today so I am sure I will also shed a tear watching that as it gets sooo emotional when you hear all the stories behind why people run. Lovely. x

Jenn - Great job Meg! I don’t think I could run the whole thing either… you will get it next time! What a great accomplishment 🙂

Laura Phelps - I wish I ran a marathon today. Instead, I turned 40.
ugh
good job Meg

Kellie Dugan - I am so proud of you!!! Keep going and never stop.

DreamGirlLisa - That is so awesome, congrats! You should be incredibly proud of yourself 🙂

Julie Weaver - I don’t know you, but I teared up reading this. Way to go.

Sharla - Congrats girl! It is on my list for 2010 as well. You look great!!

Nicole Q. - I’m SOOO proud of you!!! It’s on my goal list too!!! To me it’s like a marathon!! HA! Good job!

Karen Gerstenberger - Congratulations! “The journey of a thousand miles…” and all of that good, philosophical stuff to you! I’m so happy for you.

heather - That is so awesome!!! Way to go!!!
btw— your hair is A*D*O*R*A*B*L*E!!!
Proud of you!

michelle - WOW!! you’re awesome Meg! so proud of you. this could be just the beginning 🙂
and yes, i love your new “do” too!

Misty Ray - Congratulations!!!! Loving the new hair, so cute!

Courtney - awesome! i love the *sound* i hear in your words…of doing something you didn’t think you could do before!

Liz - Congratulations, Meg! What an awesome accomplishment! You are such an inspiration.

Amanda - I asked about you at the end- “did anyone see Megan come across?” – not that you wouldn’t actually finish, but I wondered if you had finished it out running after we saw you? It was fun running into you. Dave saw you and said “yep, she came in not long after you and Jess” I was proud of you! I was proud of us too. The longest I had run in practice was 2.25 so I didn’t think there was any way I could run the entire 3.1. But we made it – together! I haven’t run in over 10 years. It’s the first 5k I’ve ever done. I think we may do the River Run on May 8 – 2 miles – wanna do it with us?

Melanie - Good for you!

jody - ongrats!!! i am a runner and triathlete…and mom of 4. i find that for me running is not only a way to stay fit and not have to diet, but it’s spiritual thing. the rhythmic striking of my feet on the pavement, being outside, working hard, reflecting, feeling the endorphins and gratitude! Keep it up! I’ve found that with lots of core work and some strenth training, I’m able to run faster than I did in my twenties. Once you get comfy running 3-4 miles, you’ll be able to work up to an hour of running, and wow, there is nothing better than crossing that threshold.
ok, can you tell i love to run? oh, and i always dedicate the hard miles to someone i love or needs prayers. that keeps me from stopping. xxoo

kristin - oh, this is the first year in several that i didn’t do this run. good for you. good for you!

Ruth H. - Way to go! I really hate running, but I LOVE running in races. There is something so exhilarating about being in a race. And something so rewarding about saying, “When I ran my last 5K….” People get impressed. So, good for you!

Cutzi Jobes - Yay! Great job!
I’m running my first 5k in a couple weeks – so this was good inspiration for me!

Carol S. - Very cool! I just did my first one a month ago (and honestly, haven’t run since!) I’m 47 and a ran the whole thing at a slow jog…pretty slow…and jogged the whole thing in about 42 minutes (one of the slower of my age group, but hey, I did it). Was suprised the couple months did nothing to lose any weight, though I think I was eating more and justifying it. This last month am focused on calorie counting and getting out walking or bike riding and have lost some poundage. Great job and you were really fast in my book!!

Grace - Hey! Great job! I just went off sugar this past week . . . let’s see how long that lasts! I’ve walked a 5k a few times in the past few weeks, but it would be great to run it sometime!
Btw, I love your shirt “water.” …pretty much sums it up. 😀

Elizabeth - Way to go! You’re an inspiration — first sugar and now running a 5K. I’m not sure I can be inspired that much, though…

Katy - Congratulations!!! I ran a 5K today for my daughter’s PTO fundraiser as well. It sure does feel good to be able to accomplish something like that! Way to go!!

Jeannette - That is so awesome!!!! Good for you :o)

Heather - That was absolutely fabulous. Good for you! Really really. And yes, totally inspirational – as you often are to me. Thanks!

Jennifer - That is awesome! I did a 4K 2 years ago, but I walked fast/jogged. You rock!

Alysa - That is a HUGE acccomplishment. SO proud of you, too! way to go. that’s a big deal. love it.

kathy eller - Very very cool! YAY!!!

Lisa - OH MY GOODNESS! I’m so impressed. Way to go. All I’ve done on this Saturday is some garage saling and cleaning. You’re the woman!

Kimberlee J. - CONGRATULATIONS! I am so proud of you!

Laura Lee - I’m tired just thinking about it! congrats!

Marie - Congratulations! That’s awesome and inspiring!

Melissa - WOW! That is AWESOME! Such an inspiration too. The other day I was thinking “maybe I could run a 5k one day”.. which was quickly followed by, “don’t be stupid!” Now, I’m starting to think, “maybe…” again! Thanks!!

Lacy Brauner - go girl. that rocks. you rock!

Lori - Way to go Meg!!! Congrats. And your hair still looked good! The sign of a good cut…

Lisa - Good on you girl! I get that you are annoyed you stopped, but dont let it subtract from the fact that today, you got up and you accomplished something you set your mind to. Running 5k is no small feat. You are amazing! Congrats!!!

mary elizabeth - WOW!!!! I am so impressed! I hope to one day be able to write that sentence myself!!! 🙂 Way to go!!!

Diana - PROUD OF YOU, MEG! Good for you! ♥

Kelly - Great wonderful fantastic job! And seriously, why do you looks so cute after running for 35 minutes?!? I always look a fright!

Jenny Pocknall - That is fantastic. Well done.

julia - Congratulations! I had some crazy idea about running a marathon before I turned 40 (this week). I didn’t do it. It’s like 26.2 miles, you know.

Flower Patch Farmgirl - So inspiring! Love the hair.

jennifer - Congratulations! That is so, so awesome! Love your shirt, too. 🙂

Donna - Whooooo-hooooooooooo! Rock on!

Julie - Congrats! That is soo great!

Megan - Congrats to you, I’m giving you a pat on the back, pat, pat, pat! Awesome!

Heather - fantastic!! i think you rock!! enjoy the rest of your weekend!

Kate - Oh MEG!!! I am so happy for you!
Congratulations!!! Wow!!!

Jaimie - way to go! how inspirational!

Rachel - Congratulations! That is truly a wonderful accomplishment. Now go and enjoy the rest of your weekend as you bask in your success and rejoice in the strength of a healthy body. WAY TO GO, MEG!

amy d - way to go…that’s awesome!

Heather - Congrats!! It feels so good to cross that line, right? I can’t wait to start running again!

Jonelle Ensign - Congratulations!! It feels so good to finish something like that, doesn’t it?! Next weekend I will be doing a 160 mile bike ride to support a friend of mine that has MS. I will be chanting the same prayer you did – “PLEASE show me what my body can do!”

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